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Need help attracting more women in relation to my friends.
Been having issues trying to figure out why my friends attract women over me. These are my two best friends and roommates so we go out together and hangout with girls together.
Over and over and over, these guys have the girls come up to them, talk to them, and ignore me.
Friend one: Greek god face, skinny fat 5'11
Friend two: 6'2 Above average face, clean shaven, skinny fat
Friend Three: 6'3 jacked, average face
Me:5'10 Jacked, former middle linebacker(reference), above average face, facial hair.
I will have times at the bars where we open up a set of women and introduce each other then the two women will veer off and talk to the other guys completely Ignore me Like I Don't exist. There will be times where hott girls throw themselves at my 6'3 friend and it's really beginning to show how important height is for friend two and three.
How do I off set the height issue? It's actually sorta crazy how some women react to my two tall friends, they have minimal game and no killer instinct, yet these chicks are quickly and instantly, subconsciously attrached to them.
What gives? Any advice? Up my edge and style? Booster shoes?
For Lack of a better word, I am the "Alpha" of the group in terms of social status, interpersonal dominance, I lead them around and protect them in fights, because they can't fight.. Yet this does little in terms of getting girls from them at a club/bar situation.
Just how "jacked" are you? Many women aren't attracted to huge guys. They think the guy is vain, spends more time in front of the mirror than her, will spend his time at the gym instead of with her, dumb, and covering up insecurities.
Women are attracted to "fit", and they prefer it to look natural, like a guy who works construction or plays sports. For example,
has been called sexiest man alive. Far from jacked, but admittedly has a hell of a face.
Also, why do your friends need protecting? I don't mean because they can't fight. I mean why are you getting into fights that require protecting in the first place? That shit doesn't impress most women either. Reading between the lines, it further suggests insecurities that you cover up with aggression, and a macho attitude that turns women off.
Women want to have fun. They like a guy who is chill that can relax and have a good time. Finally, everything you described about your friends is superficial. You didn't mention one thing about their personalities. Do you really think height is the only thing those girls find attractive?
Height does matter for attactiveness, but there is so much more going on before a girl is going to be interested in you. Without posting pics, the whole looks thing about what you're working with goes out the window on here. Stuff like personality, swag, posture, grooming, style, etc contribute to first impressions as well.
Yeah, bulky like a middle linebacker isn't the ideal look for the average woman like win big said. Alot of past fuckbuddies know i spend alot of time in the gym and probably about 4 or 5 of them actually looked me into the eye and said "don't get too big" with some intervention type urgency lol.
I'm 5'9" but with arch support insoles I look about 5'11" which is above average. Sounds like you could be 6'1" with lifts which levels the playing field.
WoodisGood wrote: Alot of past fuckbuddies know i spend alot of time in the gym and probably about 4 or 5 of them actually looked me into the eye and said "don't get too big" with some intervention type urgency lol.
OP if you have not done so already get some fecking insoles or height increasing shoes/boots!!!!!!! Minimise all weaknesses!
It sucks when girls act like this and when they do it normally is night venue settings. There is just this unwritten rule that you can act like a insufferable cunt with no manners and its totally fine. What you described always happened to me when I was with my 2 friends who are taller and more attractive than me. The girls are so brazen about it - they will literally oust you from the circle.
I am like 5'10 205. Thick and strong, looks great with shirt on. When I spread my lats my V taper is one of the widest my friends have ever seen. I have been absolutely shredded at 180lbs but felt awful,small, and low libido. Heavy lifting, eating, and be the muscular guy has been me since about freshman year of highschool.
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