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I'll keep it short and simple, I really don't want to get into the whole story aspect of this because it'll just start bothering me more. My question to the point is, How can I get over the fact that my current girlfriend has had around 25+ different guys and 1/4 of them had bigger dicks than me? I also found out that the last guy she had sex with before even getting with me was one of those guys that need an XL condom and even those were apparently tight on him. I know a lot of guys go through or have some type of issues with this but it's really affecting me. She's also had sex with a guy that had implants in his dick ( those bumps that stick out the side -- possibly dermals?)
I guess I wanna know how I can get over these facts? My current standings as for my penis is 6.5in with a 4.5in girth (on a good day). It's been bothering me a lot and its been a couple weeks already and we have already been together for 3 yrs. This information wasn't known till recently.
I know I may sound like a wimp about this because she's with me and not him, I understand that. It's just this feeling inside me that gets me bothered knowing that this guy was that big and she had sex with him 4-5 times (even though she said she didn't like it) she still continued. why?
On a side note,the reason I've been going at PE because I'd like to reach the goal of at least 7in and 5+ in in girth. I just feel really insecure about my penis not being not so much lengthy but more girthy.
I'd say you've got an above average package already. If your self worth depends on how much you can fill vaginas, try filling some tight 18-year-olds instead. Then you'll realize your girlfriend's the one with the cathedral pussy.
I'm not saying my self worth is about filling vaginas but more of an insecurity with one self. I know there will always be a guy bigger/better/and overall better than you but at this current period of my life especially finding out now instead of three years ago it just affects me. I'm 25 now and I know at this point in life there is so much more to worry about but the way she told me and the way I reacted, I just don't feel adequate enough. Yea, I make her cum, yea the sex is there but its just the image of this monster cock she's had 4-5 times and the amount of one night stands and the amount of times she's had sex. I mean yea every relationship your in you have sex a million times over but a million times over with 25+ different guys is a little bit of a shock.
I'm just looking for advice on how to overcome this obstacle relationship wise.
Like honestly I just want my girth to be bigger and then I'll honestly be satisfied with myself. 6.5in length to 7in is fine with me. I'm not looking for that. My girth doesn't feel adequate. I'd wish someone would share the best girth exercises so I can start them and focus on them.
Dude, you need to chill about past dicks. That shit is so out of your control.
Plus, ive been doing PE for 3 years now, my dick has gone from 6x4.3 to 7.3x5.
And i STILL think my dick is small. Thats because its all in my mind. even tho i get compliments and shit like that.
My guess is that is just a way to "concentrate" other insecurities in life by focusing on the "dick is too small" side.
Trust me, even if you get to 5 inches in girth you will be insecure about it still.
As far as girth exercises go, Jelq is king and you should make it an habit, kegels are good too. Ulis are great later. You can also go with the bathmate, but imo you need to do extra girth work (like jelqs) to see permanent gains. however the post pump is pretty cool.
if your havent done it yet, you should pump up your dick before sex, just to see if theres any difference whatsover. (to see if that extra 0.5" inches in girth would really cut it for you)
Jelqs+ulis+batmathe(optional)+kegels should get you to 5 inches. (it takes time tho).
yea i know man, Your absolutely right. It's just hard "not" to think about it.
What I've started doing recently is warming up, stretch (all directions), flaccid bend, jelq, then 15 minute bathmate. sound adequate? only thing i need to work on is the duration of the the stretches and flaccid bend stretches and how many reps i should be jelqing.
You can do the not so lazy way and do 5 minutes stretch, 5 minutes jelq and after Bathmate, use a cock ring or a hair tie (that's what I do). You want the BM plump to stay around as long as possible. If you can, do them consecutively, warm-up, stretch, jelq and then BM (which can act like a cool down, then put on a cock ring.
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So this is what I've been doing, I start with a warm-up whether it's a shower with hot water or a hot towel placed on my penis for 5 minutes. After I warm-up I start with stretches which consist of flaccid stretching up, middle, down, left, and right for 30 seconds each. Then I do the flaccid bend which I do up, down, left, right for 30 seconds each. Once I complete that I do a 10 minute jelq session and lastly a 15-20 minute bath-mate session. Once all that is done, I take a hair tie that I cut and tie it around the base of my penis so that what I got from the bath-mate session is locked in.
How long should I keep the hair-tie on for is another question I have? I've been keeping it on for about 10-30 minutes. Can I keep it on longer? str8chaser2002 how long do you keep yours on? I'm just afraid of keeping it on too long to the point I damage my penis.
The only other advice I need is how often should I do this routine? Currently, I'm doing 1 day on 1 day off. Should I do 2 days on 1 day off? I don't want to over do-it and not get an adequate amount of rest.
I forgot to add that I do Uli's as well not every session but every other day or so. How long are you suppose to hold the uli's for? I usually kegel then squeeze and hold the base of my penis for 5-10 seconds then release and relax for 5-10 seconds.
You need to get over this. If you let if get in your head it will negatively impact your relationship(s). I think the proliferation of porn and the internet have blow this out of proportion. If your dick is over 6" its like in the upper 80 percentile of dicks if that makes you feel better.
Be a better man than these insecure little bitches that are constantly asking their girlfriends how big their last boyfriends dick was, or am I fucking you as good as him. Nothing good will come from this. It's a no win question. She says your a terrible fuck and your devastated, or she says your the best ever and you think she is lying. Just relish the fact that you are now fucking her.
I have actually heard a porn star say , " it only takes a few inches to reach my g spot " when she was asked about big dicks.
Chances are the woman you fall in love with will probably not be the best fuck you ever had and vice versa.
I've slowly started forgetting about it. I've been trying to keep my mind busy with the more important aspects of our relationship and life in general. Yea it may pop in my head now and again but it isn't nearly affecting me like it used too. It's just something I'm going to have to forcefully get over especially since I want to stay with her.
Here is an interesting story. Not too long ago one of my ex gf's that I dumped and then became a fwb calls me to tell me about this guys she's been seeing. This is a seriously horny woman. Some times we would fuck 3 times a day, which for a 55 year old guy is a lot.
So she tells me this guy has a huge cock. I joke back with her, you broke my heart, i thought i had the biggest dick in town. She goes on to tell me that she gets super horny when she see's it, but when they start fucking that it hurts her and she can't cum. She has to finish herself with her fingers to cum.
I guess this just fucks with this guys mind and he is depressed over it. However, when i used to fuck her ( i probably fucked her 35 times ) I could make her cum 2-3 times in 20 mins with my average size dick.
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