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I was having sex with a girl, she blew me, put on a condom, then after about 1 minute I already came. I even jerked off the morning that day so it isn't because of that. I've never done kegel exercises consistently. Could weak PC muscles be the reason? Anyway I already have a Fleshlight but it isn't the STU (Stamina Training Unit) so once I have some extra cash I'm looking to purchase. Do you just stick it between your mattress and try to fuck it for 20 minutes?
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For me the STU worked exactly like a girl lol
At first it made me cum fast, it was new and felt pretty good But as time went on I got used to it and could fuck that thing forever, wasn't aroused anymore, having to relube it after x minutes I had to start watching porn while fucking the fleshlight to cum Now that is a hard exercise because porn is always new and fresh so it tricks your brain you're fucking something new But to be honest that thing didn't make me last longer in bed A new girl is a new girl, way too exciting, cum fast Real flesh and sensual human connection is always better than "virtual" sex, way too exciting, cum fast Lately I've been trying to control my muscle tenseness and my breathing speed, and letting my FB ride on top of me so I do minimal work while she works herself up, allows me to reach a relaxed state to control ejaculation but it's still hard (i see her once a week and i don't masturbate so i'm a bit too sensitive/aroused when i see her) |
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First you need to kegel consistently and learn your level's of arousal, from there you'll have a foundation.. As far as the STU i don't use it anymore as the anal sleeves are far more intense for me, and your lack of ejaculation control is probably because of a combination of weak pc muscles, and arousal control.. Whatever category you fall in, take action and work on it man it takes time yet it can be done.
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Thanks guys! I will start with 50 kegels today and increase it over time. I definitely think it's due to my weak PC muscles as I never do them, but I do PE every day which I'm sure has caused an imbalance.
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Dude just edge... for like 30-45 minutes... Shouldn't need anything other then your hand lol.... keep doing that and your premature ejac problems should go away...
I say this, but I never had premature ejaculation... I actually had the opposite problem, as in I could NEVER cum during sex... I'm over this now though... Now I just have insane stamina. I'm pretty sure my issue arose from WAY too much edging... I used to edge for like 30 minutes or more all the time when I was a teenager lol. Hell, I'm sure there were weeks were I edged for over 30 minutes every day! haha, I was just enjoying myself at the time ![]() I also post this because another friend of mine pretty much did the same thing, and has the same problem that I used to have (not being able to cum).
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Ronin, did you edge to porn? It wasnt also easy to me to cum with girl
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I used to watch all sorts of porn (Still do sometimes, but just fuck girls instead mostly). But for edging I would use more softcore stuff... Like Victoria's Secret Catalogs (allowed for the right amount of excitement to really edge for LONG ass time).. hahaha... Man, so much fun!
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I don't know how to properly edge. Whenever the cum is already built up, even if I stop the orgasm, as soon as try edging again, it's so powerful that I can't hold it in. Let me explain it a little more. Let's say I'm about to cum, but I hold it in and stop. As soon as I give it like 2-3 strokes, I have the urge to cum again and it's even more powerful. Like I said, I'm pretty sure this is due to my weak PC muscles. I've already done 40 three to five second kegels so I'm on the right track. |
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Try stopping earlier... then once the pre orgasm stop start again, you can keep yourself right on that edge... ti fun as hell
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Again, to piggy back off of What RONIN said Edging.. i look like a total spaz for neglecting that and i should be smited(anyone feel free!!!) anyways yeah the more you edge you'll develop better stamina trust me( as far as when you reach pre PONR wait a minute if you have to then keep on edging), And you answered your on question pal, you said if your about to cum and you stop, then start stroking two more times... your urge is that more4 powerful.. Why not stop there? check yourself man your ejaculatory reflex will be retrained faster than you can say five pump chump.. All jokes aside though, just follow the threads in here man and stick with it... On the road to redemption
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Did 80 kegels today. Gotta make this a daily thing. I might edge a little tonight too.
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Fleshlight STU (end cap sealed) made me cum in like 2-3 minutes. The STU does feel very close to a vagina, but I've heard that it was designed to be more intense so that your gains are actually greater when it comes to the real thing. Is that true?
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