TOPIC: Skyfire’s journey to success

I suppose you are right, been texting her today so she obviously wants to meet up again. If we do I'll just share a bottle with her next time I think

Congrats on the lay dude! And performance stuff happens. Girls tend to be super cool about it if you're honest and even more so if you don't treat it like a big deal.

@RogerRoger

Thanks man, yeah I didn't make a big deal out of it. I can tell she wanted to go for longer though. Bit apprehensive atm cause I don't wanna disturb my mates in the middle of the night with a girl screaming in my bed. But they didn't hear anything so at least now I know girls can actually be loud as she was being haha

So last couple of days I've hung out with 2 girls. The one yesterday is one I've been speaking to for a while of Bumble, she's attractive, probably around 7 if you want a number. She came to mine early so answered the door to her pretty much soaking wet in just a towel, went back upstairs to dry off + she was changing in my room. Walked back into my room and she was sitting on my bed in like tiny shorts. Obviously was just still in a towel so asked if she wanted to watch me change (jokingly of course) and she laughs and says no I'll get out haha.

We then went for a walk in a park which is real close to me, very good for logistics. Anyways we chat for a bit and then we get back to mine. She's sitting on my bed and we're listening to music and then I tell her to "come here" cause I was gonna kiss her, she pretty much resists for like 10 minutes lmao, but then I eventually just kiss her. Bit of a struggle tbh, obviously quite shy. Anyways didn't take it any further than that. Messaged her and said it was nice to hang out with her and that we should do something soon, she said she'd like that. So I guess things went well.

Girl number 2 was the girl who came over mine to drink wine and I banged the other day. We went for a walk in the park and chatted for a bit, asked her if she wanted to come back to mine but says she has plans with her friend. No problem. hugged her goodbye and everything, will message her tonight.

Okay so no approaches despite being busy over the last couple of days and like I said, if I hadn't done any approaches in 2 weeks sine moving in then I'd do the AA program. Looking forward to it. I'm gonna treat it like how I used to treat video games when I was younger where you have different challenges you need to overcome in order to progress. Will start tomorrow.

Luke

Thought I'd document what happened tonight, basically went on a "date" with this girl I met on Bumble but who was on my instagram for ages before I decided to try and get her number, honestly thoguth she was gonaa flake but was real surprised when she turned up. Went for a walk in the park near my house whih I mentioned before is really good for logistics.

Walked around for a bit, mainly chatted about her new job whih she was super exited about. Some awkaard silences but I didn't really let that bother me. Anyways we were just chilling on a bench and I was like do you wanna get drunk with me, bit of hesitation but she was like okay. So I grabbed a bottle of wine and we went back to mine. Started to get fucked and ran out of wine so we went back out for more. Anyways I was like "do you want some Mandy? I have some" (that is MDMA for those of you who don't know) she was like yeah let's do it. So yeah started sniffing lines of Mandy off my keys. She literally said "this is the weirdest first date ever" but yeah am absolutely convinced she had a super good time haha, was kissing me super passionately because she was fucked, we didn't have se beause she was like this is the first date. But yeah it was a super good time. Will definitely see this chick again cause she seems interesting.

BAD MOMENT though, I've been doing notes on screening to try and fully understand the bincept and left them on my desk and she was just like why are you doin notes on picking up girls?? By this point I'm like fuk it I'll just be super honest with her, so I actually tell her about Chris's method of screening girls, honsetly she reacted very weel and she was just like "it's funny you have terms for all of this stuff" she also said something really interesting whcih was "you expect it (pulling girls) to be logical but it isn't and that frustrates you" and I was like yeah it does. Anyways I also called her the wrong fucking name of the girl I banged last Friday, major awks but she didn't seem to notice.

Anyways that's about it, still haven't watched porn in 3 months which I am proud of. Noticed it's making me real horny for real life girls. Really struggle with not masturbating, feel like I need a consistent sex partner for me to stop completely


Luke

So 2 dates over the last couple of days, actually one of them was on my birthday haha

Number 1)

Blonde girl, who looked cute on her Tinder but turned out to be a bit weightier in real life, went to chill with her and her friends and she bought me drinks so was okay, she was definitely very into me. But honestly without sounding like a dick, I'm more attractive than her. Asked her if she wanted to come back though and she said she was going to and then bailed haha anyways I did actually kiss her but I haven't texted her back because I honestly just wanted a lay. Will make sure that girls have pics beyond selfies on their Tinder in the future.

Number 2)

Probably one of the hottest girls I've been on a date with lately, met her on Tinder and actually managed to get her out on the same day of messaging, this has happened twice now so I know that my "text game" or whatever you call it is getting better. Usually it would take me like 2 weeks- a month to get a girl out, now I'm able to it super quickly just by using Chris's screening method to screen who is serious about meeting up and who isn't. Just by being like"You're really cute/hot. Hi" and then asking them if they want to hang out in the following message. So much less hassle than messaging a girl for ages.

Okay so the girl, Half Vietnamese, Half Chinese, VERY attractive, had an athletes body and...I just wasn't into her. We went to smoke weed in the park in the dark. Didn't really make any moves, she was basically just talking the entire fucking time ughhh. In all honesty she didn't seem very into me either but she actually drove me home anyways. Went to hug her at the end of the "date" but she thought I was gonna kiss her so she sorta put her hand in front of her face which I actually thought was quite funny. Probably not gonna text her back either unless I can be convinced otherwise. The only reason would be because she's hot and she likes drugs but yeah there was no real chemistry.

Luke

Another log update, so really there isn't much to report, Can't really hang out with girls cause I am broke and my student loan hasn't come in yet unfortunately, should be in the next couple of days I'm hoping though. One girl asked me if I wanted to get drinks with her yesterday but obviously told her I couldn't. Not too bothered anyway cause she isn't really that attractive.

Had my first day at Uni yesterday, there's only one decently attractive girl in my class with a big rack, I actually went up and introduced myself to her. Nothing beyond pleasantries though, just said it was nice to meet each other and stuff. Not sure about banging a girl who's in my class for the next 3 years, could be more trouble than it's worth. Will see however.

The other people in my class are very young though, gonna be difficult to get along with. Not too bothered however. Planning on becoming a bartender again so I can meet some new people.

Now that art school has started again I realize the one thing that I haven't been doing is...actually fucking drawing. Now I've been living in the new house for about 3 weeks now and I've only picked up a pencil twice. I think I've been hyper-focusing on girls which isn't necessarily a bad thing, just diffiult juggling 2 goals at the same time.

Oh I also bleached my hair,

But that's about it

Luke

So my student loan hasn't come in yet so am broke asfff, had to lend money of my mate for tobacco and wine for tonight. Up until this week I have been drinking roughly 6 days a week for about 3 weeks now so I decided to have a week off, that is until my mate said he's bringing is girlfriend and her friends round tonight, so that should be good.

I've actually cut out sugary drinks and sweet stuff cause I'm trying to get my abs showing again. Think I am actually losing weight though tbf. Gym is out of the question cause my city is going into lockdown again tomorrow. (This may be a problem for the AA program too) but yeah luckily I have weights in my room which I'm gonna do now.

In terms of girls it's been a pretty dry week, the girl I did Mandy with (or Molly if you're American) told me she didn't want to socialize with too many people because she has a "vulnerable housemate". Sounds like bullshit to me, probably a polite rejection but yeah was disappointed with that cause she seemed like a nice girl. Oh well.

Have another potential date tomorrow, she doesn't seem like the flaky type but her area is actually in lockdown so am not completely sure she'll be able to get here...says she doesn't give a fuck anyways and is willing to drive to mine (Good sign).

She's quite attractive and is properly into the gym, I'll let you guys know how I get on.

Luke

So my student loan came in today and so I bought Tinder gold and use a boost and HOLY FUCK, I got more matches in 20 minutes than I have in the past week. Real game changer. Gonna use one on Friday and Saturday night when girls are most likely to be drunk and horny and be DTF.

As for my date, didn't happen. She didn't necessarily flake but suggested I come see her instead. She lives way outside the city and I don't have my car so I was like nah.

Think I'm starting to realize what an abundance mentality is, it's like I'm not too bothered about this, I can always get more. If I can really focus on my sex life in the next 2 years alongside my studies and then apply this mentality to making money then I think I will be in a very god mindset.

Been reading a lot of Black Dragon's content over the last couple of days, thinking of buying one of his books. Really interested in the concept of Soft Nexting a girl so you don't have to deal with their bullshit. If any of you guys use this technique can you give any insight if it works? Thought of doing it a couple of times just out of natural inclination but ultimately decided it was too mean. However due to my continuing failing relationships I am willing to try some new techniques in terms of relationship management.

I have a date on Wednesday with what I would say is a 9. If I bang her she will be in the top 3 girls I have ever banged. Plan is the usual. She actually told me she isn't looking for anything serious so this may be on. We will see.

Anyways, that's all for the last couple of days

Luke

About the blackdragon thing, you could PM bastard or bib; or post a new thread asking about it. I haven't read his stuff but I know they and probably a few others on here do.

That's cool you're getting some abundance mentality dude.

Good luck for the 9er on Wednesday!

Log update!

Okay in my last post I mentioned I had a date with a 9. Knew it was not on immediately when she turned up to my house (too late for a walk) with no makeup on, sat on m bed and opened up a letter from a mental health hospital hahaha. Anyways in real life her personality is super masculine which is a turn off for me, regardless I was like fuck it I'll make a move anyway. Try and go in for the kiss but she's like "I just wanted to hang out as friends" I was liike ohhh fair enough then. Funny thing is she ended up staying over my house for 2 days and was doing cocaine with me hahaha. Bit strange but whatever, she really got on with my friends too, so may just be mates with her anyway haha

Okay I actually had dates lined up for Friday,Saturday and Sunday. Friday was a flake but I also went over a girl's house after matching with her at 4am lmao. Will not go into detail but did not shag. She phoned me like a minute away from her house saying that she didn't think it was a good idea but I could come over anyway????????? Fuck knows lmaio. Won't go into detail. Just a starnge situation. My mates honestly thought I was gonna get stabbed haha.

Saturday's date! Met up with a really cool chick from Tinder and went for drinks. Really like her, very chilled vibe and she's super pretty and....I banged her. She told me on the date 3 times how attracted she was to me. We really vibe I think. After drinks we when back to mine but I had no alcohol so we get a taxi back to hers and we went to a flat party haha (cause she lives in uni acom). I was SO fucked, but yeah we were making out at the party and in the elevator and shit. Eventually we go into her room and we banged for like 2 hours and the again in the morning. She has a really good body too. Will meet up with her again this week.

Sunday date didn't happen cause I actually flaked on her which is very unusual for me, was just so hungover and I actually lost my wallet the previous night so it's not like I could have done anything anyway. She texted me back saying she's glad ause she was super hungover too haha but we've arranged to meet up tomorrow. She's real fucking cute too.

Reflections

Online dating is going super fucking well for me at the moment now that I actually live in a city, it's almost like I don't even have to try, I know what to say to girls to get them to meet up with me. Probs won't really need to use Tinder for a couple of weeks purely because of the amount of contacts I've got from it now


I do feel slight guilt about dating multiple people, but I sorta want a threesome and I was thinking that the way to do it is to date two differemt girls who are cool with it and then introduce the to each other. Not sure how well this will work in practice though.

Anyways that's all for now

Luke
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What a wild weekend! Yeah don't get stabbed lol.

And congrats on the lay! I have a feeling you're going to go off in 2021.