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London sounds awesome dude! I miss traveling sooo bad right now.
I'd thumbs up your friend's suggestion. Are you saying you've been messaging this girl on tinder for a year...you don't have her number?!? Sounds like she's screwing with you.
Maybe she's just actually busy though, it happens. Another thing you can do (adapt to your own lingo, otherwise it can feel kinda plastic / obviously a line): It's cute you're playing hard to get but it's starting to lose points with me. If you're down to meetup [whenever] let's get a drink [or whatever].
I prefer to give two options whenever pitching a date (like I'm free Tuesday and Friday). If they're busy and don't pitch a new time, they're just stringing you along. You can still hail mary it and either call them like you're friend said or ask them when they're free.
About girls, sure it sounds like you're pretty busy anyway. But if Blonde never meets you, it'll only be your own fault if it hurts way more than it should. Just doesn't make sense (to me) to get so invested in someone you've never met.
All that said, I do hope things work out. Just a cautionary tale
One of my best friends from undergrad told me she was on Tinder for like 6 months before she felt comfortable meeting up with a guy, flaked on tons before that. When it finally was time, she was so nervous she puked when it was time to go. But she rallied and went on the date. Doubt that she put out but I didn't ask.
If you're patient it's all good but keep in mind the girl has to be available / dtf and as you pointed out some are down on the first meet up, some aren't for a long time.
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