TOPIC: Skyfire’s journey to success

Yeah it was wild for sure haha, yeah I definitely need to focus on finishing the AA program too but there's less incentive when online is going so well. Also balancing goals is so difficult which why Chris says to focus on just one, this really isn't feasible for me though cause I've gotta focus on art school too

Okay so the really cute girl who I flaked actually flaked on me, just didn't text me back. Not a problem. Usually getting a couple of flakes a week at this point.

Also the girl I banged on Saturday also flaked on me although she gave a very elaborate excuse hahaha, who knows if it's bullshit.... Rather people say they're not interested but I guess that's not how girls work . Oh well

However I have actually gone on 2 dates with new girls this week.

Date 1

Was gonna do my usual routine of going for a walk plus drinking at mine but started raining suer heavily so she just invited me straight to hers. ould tell it was not on immediately, she was sitting like behind a offee table in front of me on the floor instead of sitting next to me. Honestly after listening to her stories I'm not fucking surprised, said her ex broke her nose and waved a knife in her face, and they only broke up recently, over the last couple of days I've just been like should I get involved with this person? She's nice enough, however isn't as attractive as I would like. We will see. Sounds like she has a very dramatic life.

Date 2

This was today, she's quite cute. Thought she was gonna be innocent lmaoooooo how fucking wrong was I. Had some basic chit chat for a while and I honestly don't know how we got talking about this but turns out she's in an open relationship with her boyf, is dating multiple guys and is super into BDSM, like stuff way more intense than on Andy's blog. For example she likes to get bitten until the point of bleeding??? Was talking about psycholgy for a bit too. Overall really enjoyed the conversation, we just went for coffee so not logistically good for a bang. But yeah bout to text her back now she might be too hardcore for me though. We will see however.

Got some more dates lined up this week but honestly I'm getting burnt out, might take a week off next week. It's annoying that girls keep flaking n me but this is largely out of my control I feel. Doing this shit is hard man, don't understand "naturals" really, like most of my success has come directly from Chris's advice, would be so lost without it.

Anyways that's all for now

Luke

I feel you, man.

Lately, I’ve also been feeling jaded; firstly from all the flaking but also from going on all the these first dates. Personally, I can’t allow myself to ease back, because I need/want the experience. For example, I want to develop a callous mind towards flaking (and dating in general). And going on dates lets me practice escalation and being overall confident about actually going on dates.

It seems like you don’t have too much trouble getting chicks back to yours, so you do what you gotta do to keep your head straight (just don’t get too comfortable ).

Yeah guess you just build up a thick skin to it eventually, I don't find dates particularly difficult myself. Just get the girl talking and she honestly will do most of the work. I guess I could be more aggressive but I feel like that's probably unnecessary if I feel like we're vibing and that she'll probably sleep with me anyway.

You win some and you lose is what I'm thinking. No point overthinking what you did wrong I suppose

Another bang tonight, she was probably a 6/10. The plan was supposed to be to go for a walk in the park but when we met up she wanted to go to the pub Normal conversation , talked about drugs a lot.

Auggested going back to mine which she seeked happy with. Bang took place pretty quickly, just asked her if she wanted to make out tbh. Didn't try to be smooth.

Wasn't as sexually experienced as me, forst tike using handcuffs wgich she liked and choking which she didn't. I didn't cum which is a recurring problen but whatever, probs need to go to the doctors about it tbh but whatever

Had another date yesrerday too, just got super fucked up on alcohol. Managed to get her shirt off and sucked on her tits, probably made out for about 2 hours, made like 8 attempts to take her jeans off, but she said no. Sorta feel bad about ut because was being quite aggressive. Was drunk tho, texted her today but no reply lmao

Actually spilled wine all over my laptop on this date too so it's fucked and can't afford a new one. Major struggles

Friday's date was a flake which I'm not too concerned about. She had a fat arse though

Interestingly I was on the phone to the girl I bamged last Sat, turns out she ain't bullshitting about the Covid stuff. Cause thr girl I banged today also said her uni accom has been mosrly tested positive for covid. I like her, shame if I didn't see her again

Reflections

This stuff is getting tiring tbh, my mates just think I should get a girlfriend and I'm starting to be inclined to agree with them. This is SO much effort. But yeah I suppose having a girlfrirnd would be as much but in a different way

Already got 3 dates lined up for next week but don't think it's a good idea to do more for a while after that. Am getting burnt out.

Luke

Okay very good news today which is that my contacts actually came! Apologies to people reading my posts, I've been pretty blind for nearly 2 weeks now. In other news I banged a new girl yesterday, went on a date with her last week but didn't even kiss her cause she was telling me bout her traumatic relationship experience.

The date was essentially getting drunk in my room, she came straight over, chatted shit for a while and then I was just like "wanna make out?" which she laughed at but yeah then the clothes just gradually came off.

Interestingly once I whipped out the handcuffs she was like "you're a dark horse you are" idk what she really means but I think she may have been trying to say I seem innocent lmao. Fuck knows.

Anyways, I may not have any dates for the rest of the week. Lots of girls getting tested positive for Corona and really killing my vibe.

I may potentially be seeing the girl I banged a couple of Saturday's ago (my favourite) this Sat but she said she's getting drunk with her friends in the day and that she might not be sober enough which is fair. Otherwise we'll meet up on Wednesday.

Honestly, I've been putting a lot of effort into this stuff recently and am getting behind on my work for art school so having a few days off is not a big deal anyways.

That's all for now

Luke

Damn sorry about the laptop! Been there, I know your pain. At least you got laid though!

Your skin will thicken over time as long as you don’t give up. It’s like bones becoming stronger due to wolfsons law. It’s hard this whole dating thing. But all the way things in life don’t come easy. And a lot of these naturals may not be as natural as they seem. They might have struggled as much as you or more! They just got good at hiding it.

Got a new laptop now, although I had to to take out an overdraft for it ah. Oh well, shit happens I guess.

That is a fair point, I'm nearing 30 lays now and I'd say none of it has been easy. Nothing was handed to me, which I feel personally is an achievement. What you also say about naturals is probably true, doesn't help that I know no one else besides me and the guys on the forum who actually gets laid as frequently as me, which isn't as frequent as I'd like haha.

But yeah after 30 lays my plan is to have my first threesome which is a new challenge but something I'm determined to do. Although my mates seem skeptical that I can make it happen haha

Okay the girl who I was supposed to meet up with yesterday (8/10) told me she was gonna message me to come over in the day but then she never texted me back, ngl was a bit depressed about this especially because my housemates were busy and I spent like 8 hours in my room just drinking and listening to music Decided to Tinder boost from 9-10pm , managed to get a couple of leads, the hotter one of these two decided against coming over but did manage to get a girl over in the end. Honestly I thought she was gonna be a 6 but turns out she wasn't that attractive, wouldn't say she was a 5 other though, wasn't fat or anything just wasn't particularly attractive.

Yeah not real proud of this one. Difficulty in keeping it up cause just wasn't that attracted to her. Managed to get hard in the end and just fucked her hard. She came, I didn't. She stayed over and kept asking bout a morning fuck and in my mind I was just like yeah that's not happening. Anyways she woke me up in the morn and I told her I wasn't in the mood. So she went home and that was that.

Would have much preferred to have banged the 8 but I was just feeling a bit bored and lonely in my room tbh. Idk if I'll text her again after this, sorta feels like disrespect but what can you do.

Luke

Those skeptical mates of yours probably never experienced threesomes. And probably never even tried. Because they were skeptical. Let us know how they react when you get your first menaga-trois!

Yeah once you’ve scored a lot, say over 20 times, you don’t really gain anything from banging borderline average girls. You even feel kind of bad about it. A lot of gurus will say banging hot girls is as easy as average ones (even Blackdragon whom I admire). I think it’s hogwash. Hot girls know they are hot, that they have options and that they are in demand. Ergo they are harder. Next time one flakes try not to beat yourself up about it so much. You are making huge progress.

Aha yeah man in all fairness they have tried to suggest some ideas as to how it could happen. One suggested getting a girlfriend and then asking to see if her friend wants a threesome, idk if that would work though hahaha.

Also that would mean actually getting a girlfriend. My approach is to be very direct. Actually asked 4 girls bout it now. 1 hard no. 1 said she'd be comfortable doing it with another guy but not with another girl if she was seeing someone(what). Another girl said she'd had a MMF 3some already and then the girl I banged last night is actually bisexual who's had 3somes with couples before but I would not want to have a 3some with her tbh.

I will keep trying however, especially after I get to 30 lays, am either on 28 or 29 atm, idk. I feel if I fuck another couple hot girls my priorities will change.

Thanks for the support though

You wouldn’t need to make a girl your girlfriend in the conventional sense to have a threesome surely. Friend with benefits would be enough I would have thought. MMF is gay as hell (though whatever floats your boat). Maybe just try and ask every girl you sleep with from now on to do a 3some haha