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I've literally never seen someone build a successful business and learn how to kill it with women (for the first time) at the same time. I'm absolutely sure it's possible, but really, really rare.
I don't think it actually has to do with time management. Technically there's plenty of time to slowly build a business while hitting on girls. What people don't count for is the emotional tax of starting a business or learning to get laid. They are both such brutal tests of your self-esteem. You'll have essentially your entire ego riding on 2 very difficult tasks.
Gotta make a decision. You can do one well and one poorly, so pick one to make your main priority.
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Unless you already have money (your own, your parents', etc.) you should get money first
Since you need money to do...
Just about anything
How much you need of course varies from person to person (your "baseline") - that knowledge only comes from actually trying to live real life and realizing what things cost (vs. reading random BS on the Internet)
^ as an example, I always thought Seoul, South Korea was expensive based on what everyone told me and what I read.
But I'm living here for ~$1.6k a month all in (and I'm overpaying rent) - granted I probably spend less than most and haven't had much of a life since I've been focused on work
RE: money vs. pussy
There are some people who should go for the pussy first (e.g. hardcase, need to get some before they go Columbine)
For example, I never would have been able to focus on money first without getting a decent amount of pussy (also helped me realize that chasing pussy 24/7 isn't something I could or would want to do)
But I was a clueless and helpless 21 y/o virgin - I doubt that's the case for most people
Former 21 year old virgin
2013: 1 lay
2014: 0 lays
2015: 7 lays
2016: 38 lays
I'm pretty much dead broke. Living with my parents. Every place I apply to shuts me down. I've noticed my confidence with girls goes down when I'm unemployed. I want to prioritize pussy for the remainder of my 20s but the insecurity of having less than $100 in my bank accounts puts me in a real bad place mentally. Being a broke loser as I've learned through this forum doesn't ruin your chances with girls but I just need basic income to keep me mentally sane. I've been researching things like e-commerce and dropshipping. Some guy on Reddit told me he's made less than $100 doing that. So probably not a reliable source of income if I don't know the inn's and out's of that trade.
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Personally, I've spend the last 2 years learning about the financial markets and specifically the futures markets. I am actively trading and finally starting to make decent money. This business is very tough and not for everyone, and you need money to make money. I have dedicated so much time and made so many sacrifices, to the point of moving countries to lower my cost of living and having zero friends etc. Staying up late nights. Dealing with lots of emotional / psychological issues. I wish I did this in my 20's and not my 30's. In my 20's I was just working a cushy sales job for a bank and making some good money so did not care, lucky I had a very spartan lifestyle and saved a good amount. Nothing beats the freedom to do what you want and when you want it. Even if you end up working more and stressing more then before. At some point there is a turn around.
Dont waste your 20's being unproductive, this is the time in your life to take risk and learn through trial and error. Women will always be there, and there will always be women in their 20's for you even as you get older. I think focusing on Money should be pretty high on anyone's list.
I've been thinking about this a lot. I settled on an app idea which I will start working on when I finish final year of college. The plan is: college + fitness (I need to learn how to cut / I suck at diets) + learn things relevant to my app (I'm doing coding puzzles for example + my final year project and app will use machine learning) + maybe join toastmasters for a few speaking lessons ---> get a job and then work on my app.
Jake da Dawg wrote: If I had a really good business idea, one that nobody else has come up with, I wouldn't tell you about it let alone post it on a forum.
Your question should be "how can I monetize [insert whatever thing you're good at]?" Otherwise, you're just gonna get vague/useless answers like "start a food truck business!" "become a trader!" "write an ebook!" you get the point.
THIS so much.
Pick a topic you already have experience in, or at the very least strong interest, and ask yourself "what is their biggest problem/strongest need?" Then try to build a business around solving that problem/need.
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