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I'm happy for you bro that you could overcome all that negative shit. how did you apply the transition to keep going forward in those hard moments? For me it happens that I feel alone againts the world when I want to do a similar change like yours |
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That's a great question Gladiator. It wasn't exactly a smooth journey, usually my mood would be extremely high for a couple of days then all the fuck down for days to weeks. But somehow I had accepted that it was either do or die, and I never once thought of giving up.
I knew that these episodes would keep on coming, but I also knew (which later became confirmed) that each one would make me just a bit stronger, and one step closer to being free. So in a way I welcomed the shitty times which is probably why I could keep my motivation, so to speak. But it wasn't really motivation in the general sense, in my eyes there just wasn't an alternative which sort of made it easy. I'm sorry I can't be of more help but it was like I had this Epiphany and my paradigm shifted. Like the way I saw the world had changed and the new me was born. A new me which became super analytical about my feelings, thought patterns and mindset (by keeping a journal). I truly believe this is the main reason as to why I was able to do it all by myself. You can only change that which you understand. "Motivation is fleeting and easy to rely on because it requires no concentrated effort to get. Motivation comes to you, you don't even have to chase after it.
Discipline is reliable, motivation is fleeting. The question isn't how to keep yourself motivated, it's how to train yourself to work without it."
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I have this problem where I feel bad about getting more money than I know I should get from people..
Also for the IQ part, I did some random internet test and scored max at both(one said higher than 130, the said 142 but all the answers were correct so I assume it could be more if the test is legit)
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Jackbdsmfun do you still offer mentoring to people or are you too busy with other things at the moment?
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I'd also be interested in this if it's still a thing!
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Just wrote that down on a sticky note and stuck it on my fridge ![]() Lays: 1.5
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IQ is a great measure of intelligence, but high intelligence doesn't mean high amounts of motivation and discipline. Of course, a high IQ combined with the other two factors can be/make a great recipe for success. However, from my experience, you need an above average IQ at the minimum though.
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that's the most profound shit i've read in a while. a bit like chris's thing about checking yourself at any given time and asking am i doing the most productive thing right now. also reminds of this quote by friedrich nietzsche - “In nooks all over the earth sit men who are waiting, scarcely knowing in what way they are waiting, much less that they are waiting in vain. Occasionally the call that awakens– that accident which gives the “permission to act — comes too late, when the best youth and strength for action has already been used up by sitting still; and many have found to their horror when they ‘leaped up’ that their limbs had gone to sleep and their spirit had become to heavy. ‘It is too late,’ they said to themselves, having lost their faith in themselves and henceforth forever useless.” |
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What are you doing now?
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Man, all I can suggest with no bs is
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. Tried myself. There was a taugh time in my life when casinos and Vegas slots made my living. But in general you need to get a real job too. This one is just for the beginning
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Thanks a lot for the post, can you elaborate on point 5 please? I'm on track to reach this "retirement" stage next year, I have a few questions: Was it all about moving into real estate or did you move in to other ventures that significantly contributed to this too? Would you say growing 1 to 6 mil the way you did is an expected, replicable case or was it high risk that paid off? What is the top advice you would give someone looking to grow their wealth like this with a low time investment? What do you do with your time these days now that you aren't working much? Lay count: 30
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My most frustrating problem at the moment is trying to think of productive things. When my mind is blank such as when Im doing repetitive tasks or walking around, all that goes through it is some song lyrics or some insignificant bullshit.
Any way to train the mind to think more when youre just chilling? Its like those cartoons where they look inside the head of someone and all they see are tumble weeds or some other boring shit. Age: 26
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