TOPIC: BAD stuff that will fuck your life up, and make you an average sexless loser!!

Expanded on here----

http://www.goodlookingloser.com/2013/05/11/bad-stuff-that-will-fuck-your-life-up-and-make-you-an-average-sexless-loser/

Feel free to add more, and discuss


1. Not improving your looks. (Not hitting the gym, having fucked up style, and much more..)

2. Internet Pornography

3. Procrastination

4. World of Warcraft (and many other time-consuming games)

5. Wasting too much time on internet forums (I'm guilty of this) - we must all quit this
+ Including Goodlookingloser.com


6. Not taking consistent daily action. Being reactive, instead of proactive.

7. Watching too much TV, movies, etc... Why do we watch an action movie? To experience "action"? Why not create some action in our own lives instead?

8. Hanging out with negative people. --- Friends who influences you in a bad way. Doesn't motivate you. Talks a lot of  nonsense, and who are just negative... or just people who don't get laid, and who are happy being incels.

+ negative parents and other family

9. Working too much.. not having time to FUCK women.. approach them, and set up dates..

10. Shitty logistics. Living in a fucked up city without an endless stream of pussy.. (Small towns and such)
= try to move away asap...

Having kids

Getting married

Being monogamous in general

joining the pua community

id go one step further sam and say going to a job u absolutely hate whether its the ppl andor the work itself yet accpeting it and saying just 40 more years

this is a really good list, maybe ill post it on the main site and expand on stuff.

here's one- "Thinking you have time"

but also "Thinking you don't have time"

truth is- it's somewhere in between, today is the day to start winning at life if you gonna make it a habit

I agree about the spending too much time on internet forums (including and especially GLL)

Im definitely guilty of this.  If you check the forum stats, I'm #4 of all the members who spent the most time on here.

But I have a legitimate reason.  Right now in my life, I've dedicated the rest of the year and with room for January and maybe Feb for demolishing AA.  This is my biggest focus in my life.  Whenever I have just 1 main huge focus in my life (and everything else just things to maintain lifestyle) I have big results accomplishing my goals. I think its very important for everyone to just have 1 main focus at a time - I'll tell you why:

Law of Attraction -  what you think about, you bring about. Now im not talking that movie 'The Secret' its not entirely a bad movie in my opinion but there is def some hocus pocus chicken shit bull shit in there.
If im always putting my mind and attention on a single issue or goal, it always has a end result in my favour.  It's always been like this for me.  It happened last year when I took Online Game seriously.
It's just a matter of time until my AA goes away. And when I'm not approaching, spending my time on here is a decent place to put my attention in terms of accomplishing this goal.  When I'm on here, I'm reading and learning stuff related to beating AA (even if its just theory) and I learn about other stuff related to AA which helps a lot.

When I no longer have AA, my time on here will drop drastically. (of course unless I have a new goal by then that GLL teaches) But I have a sales career to put my focus into by then

1. Not improving your looks. (Not hitting the gym, having fucked up style, and much more..)


8. Hanging out with negative people. --- Friends who influences you in a bad way. Doesn't motivate you. Talks a lot of  nonsense, and who are just negative... or just people who don't get laid, and who are happy being incels.

THESE TWO nearly ruined my life, actually, in a way they did in that they took away some of the best years of my life.

Making excuses and not waking up to the reality that women are shallow, and my looks count for a lot. Being funny and a nice guy gets you nowhere. Hitting the gym and improving looks in any way possible is a life saver. I wish I could go back in time and kick my own ass for not opening my eyes many years ago.


Negative people and haters are the worst. I've dropped so many friends over the past couple years due to them contributing nothing positive to my psyche. I think we as guys often fall victim to the male sense of loyalty, and give way too much time to those who only take and give nothing in return. So yeah, dropping people who undermine your confidence or are happy to live in a rut, and replacing them with true friends that'll give you support is crucial IMO.

1. Not improving your looks. (Not hitting the gym, having fucked up style, and much more..)
    I agree it helps with it, but charm KILLS it. I know guys, including myself at the moment, who never touch the gym... But fuck the same delaware guys at the gym work for. If hitting the gym makes you feel better and more confident, beautiful. I only work out for function. And I wear jeans and a t-shirt and pull PLENTY. These are only deciding factors if they effect your confidence, so ALWAYS encourage it. But it doesn't guarantee anything.

2. Internet Pornography
    Your problem with this is confounding to me. I watch porn AND get plenty of pussy. I just assume you have an addictive personality. I'm not trying to be rude. But... Porn CAN be healthy.

3. Procrastination.
    I agree 100%. Just make sure to make a plan, but ALWAYS follow through.

4. World of Warcraft (and many other time-consuming games)
    I can't tell you how many times I've gotten my dick sucked while playing games. You have to have hobbies, man. Getting pussy is nowhere near hard enough to consume ALL your time.

5. Wasting too much time on internet forums (I'm guilty of this) - we must all quit this
    I emptied my balls down a girl I met last nights throat, and I feel relaxed today. I will use as much time as I want on here. I access this from my phone. I've literally been on GLL while at a party with a drink in one hand and my dick in a girls a bitches throat. Just prioritize your time.

6. Not taking consistent daily action. Being reactive, instead of proactive.
    Always good advice. But sometimes a rest day helps build. Just like the gym.

7. Watching too much TV, movies, etc... Why do we watch an action movie? To experience "action"? Why not create some action in our own lives instead?
    Because I like to relax. I get plenty of action in my life. A movie is a fun, engulfing experience.

8. Hanging out with negative people. --- Friends who influences you in a bad way. Doesn't motivate you. Talks a lot of  nonsense, and who are just negative... or just people who don't get laid, and who are happy being incels.
    Don't hold on to bad relationships. I like it.

9. Working too much.. not having time to FUCK women.. approach them, and set up dates..
    Approaches take two minutes. Make that money. You can work hard and play hard. I fuck women at work, too. You are putting too much effort into the pussy. Just go out and get it. Don't give a desperate vibe. Trust me. I am all about not letting pussy run my life. I fuck with pussy, it doesn't fuck with me.

10. Shitty logistics. Living in a fucked up city without an endless stream of pussy.. (Small towns and such)
= try to move away asap...
  This does suck. I agree. POF until you move. Easy.
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Nice list. There are things I need to improve on, and that's why I am here. But can't spend too much time here

I already am a bit hooked and I just joined today haha.

"9. Working too much.. not having time to FUCK women.. approach them, and set up dates.." This literally destroys everything especially when its forced.

Overthinking will definitely fuck you up real bad.

BAD stuff that will make you an average sexless loser

Feel free to add more, and discuss


1. Not improving your looks. (Not hitting the gym, having fucked up style, and much more..)

2. Internet Pornography

3. Procrastination

4. World of Warcraft (and many other time-consuming games)

5. Wasting too much time on internet forums (I'm guilty of this) - we must all quit this
+ Including Goodlookingloser.com


6. Not taking consistent daily action. Being reactive, instead of proactive.

7. Watching too much TV, movies, etc... Why do we watch an action movie? To experience "action"? Why not create some action in our own lives instead?

8. Hanging out with negative people. --- Friends who influences you in a bad way. Doesn't motivate you. Talks a lot of  nonsense, and who are just negative... or just people who don't get laid, and who are happy being incels.

+ negative parents and other family

9. Working too much.. not having time to FUCK women.. approach them, and set up dates..

10. Shitty logistics. Living in a fucked up city without an endless stream of pussy.. (Small towns and such)
= try to move away asap...

I would like to change 5, 6, 7, 8 (especially my mom and little brother whom are negative) and probably even 10.  I've already overcome number 2, what with the internet pornography and it definitely gave me the ED. To JeremytheGreat, I highly doubt it's even healthy to begin with. But to each his own, I'll say.

this is a really good list, maybe ill post it on the main site and expand on stuff.

here's one- "Thinking you have time"

but also "Thinking you don't have time"

truth is- it's somewhere in between, today is the day to start winning at life if you gonna make it a habit

A great point, I must not think so much!

ED is 95% of the time OTHER UNDERLYING FACTORS. Porn is not the problem. Our victim society has just found another scapegoat.

Apologies for whatever is really wrong with you.