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Re: No more fapping! Join me 17 Mar 2013 16:56 #25194

I successfully have not beat it in 3 weeks. Been pretty awesome I have noticed I don't get as upset over stuff or feel as depressed on certain days.

Going to keep it up. I still watch porn when I jelq and do my bathmate sessions but after thats over I don't even have the urge to look at it.

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Re: No more fapping! Join me 17 Mar 2013 18:01 #25207

I just noticed that I haven't busted a nut in a week.  I've jelqed, gone full boner into the penomet, watched a little porn. edged but didn't cum, blah blah... but in all of this I never did a full release.  Who ever is on the receiving end of my bonehammer next is going to get a pounding... or I might just last 2 seconds.  All I know is that I don't feel any better having not busted.

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Re: No more fapping! Join me 19 Mar 2013 13:50 #25506

Way to go guys!!

Last month I had a non-masturbation period of 23 days. It felt pretty good, but still I wasn't AS motivated or horny as I thought I would be. I think the reason for this is that I still watched porn in this period, most of the time during the Bathmate sessions.

No I've decided to do it the other way around: I WATCH NO PORN AT ALL, but as long as I'm not having sex, I'll wank once every one or two weeks, depending on how I feel. I think this will not harm my physical/mental condition in any way. On the contrary: I've read some things on this subject and it seems beneficial for the prostate to masturbate every now and then, at least in the case when you're not having real sex at all. As soon as I'll get my sex life going and get laid at least twice a month, I'll consider quitting masturbation altogether.

Long story short:

I've tried:  no fapping, but still watching porn 
Now I'll try:  once a week fapping, NO watching porn

I think that in the process learning to hit on real girls and overcoming anxiety, watching porn is a bigger problem than masturbation itself.

Btw, at the moment I'm trying a new thing to avoid watching porn: I keep myself hard during the BM sessions by reading erotic stories instead of watching pictures/videos. I think reading a story has a different (more positive) effect on the brain than watching images/videos, although I'm not sure. Anyway, I want to experiment and see what it does... I'll give an update later
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Re: No more fapping! Join me 24 Mar 2013 23:55 #26516

Good to see the progress! I've gone 19 days so far myself. Both porn and masturbation free! I don't have that daily urge I used to have. Once in a while I'll get a raging urge to grab my Fleshlight but to this day I always win the  war and that thing remains locked up. I get erections much easier now..I can "think" them up now when before I'd require physical stimulation most of the time.

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Re: No more fapping! Join me 25 Mar 2013 00:19 #26523

Didn't last a full month.... But I am going to try to last 6 weeks without any fapping and see where that takes me.

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Re: No more fapping! Join me 25 Mar 2013 01:01 #26538

I've been masturbation and porn free for 19 days now. I've had 2 INTENSE wet dreams since I stopped masturbating and I really enjoyed them. Before when I masturbated nearly every day I NEVER had any wet dreams.

Has anyone else experience something similar? Also, what are ya'll thoughts on wet dreams?

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Re: No more fapping! Join me 25 Mar 2013 01:38 #26542

Started this yesterday, eager to see the benefits it brings!  8)
"Maybe it ain't you, just something that I lack myself & if these wounds are self inflicted, i can patch myself" - Joe Budden

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Re: No more fapping! Join me 31 Mar 2013 10:22 #27580

Starting this trek April 1st. I believe in the benefits, want to test my own willpower, get motivated, get laid, live better, etc.

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Re: No more fapping! Join me 31 Mar 2013 14:47 #27594

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I made a few weeks, but buying the flashlight, I just had to test it out lol. I'm going away to work for two weeks tomorrow, so I started over yesterday.

The benefits are noticeable, I was much more aggressive in the gym, and just walked around with this confidence, that I'm afraid of nothing, liek an Alpha does.

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Re: No more fapping! Join me 31 Mar 2013 17:23 #27614

I've been masturbation and porn free for 19 days now. I've had 2 INTENSE wet dreams since I stopped masturbating and I really enjoyed them. Before when I masturbated nearly every day I NEVER had any wet dreams.

Has anyone else experience something similar? Also, what are ya'll thoughts on wet dreams?


I'm now at day 5 now and I said to myself never to masturbate again in my life till I die. Its so hard because I used to masturbate three times a day. Whatever. I had one sexual dream so far but didn't get wet. I said to myself never masturbate again under all circumstances and its very stunning how your minds tries to trick you: "Cmon just feel your balls" "Cmon just feel it for once" "Dude nothing wrong with watching nude pictures "You can't do this. You are a failure you idiot haha" "Oh yeah right and then you do the anxiety drills first get a job you scumbag. Put it on the shelf you need your energy for other things" "DUDE HEY DUDE you get into a depresison if you don't masturbate." "I just can't hold it nomore" "hey man its not that realistic that you can do it. Its a brutal change man just stop it. Noone cares anyways" However its all tricking.
Its like my mind is another person. I'm still resisting the urges. 19 days is boss, I will get there.

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Re: No more fapping! Join me 31 Mar 2013 18:20 #27618

A week today for me, haven't even had the temptation to wack it lately. Maybe i'll notice something once the days start to rack up.
"Maybe it ain't you, just something that I lack myself & if these wounds are self inflicted, i can patch myself" - Joe Budden

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Re: No more fapping! Join me 11 Apr 2013 17:36 #29543

No fap makes you come VERY fast when you finally have sex. And your cum will be yellow.

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