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Re: No more fapping! Join me 01 Aug 2013 06:03 #48818

For me no fapping give another advantages. I see how differently people look at me when I don't fapp. I'm way more confident, I have more energy and motivation for work and dates, my voice don't crack up when I speak. I can hold strong eye contact with any girl if i want, girls actually started approaching me. I fell superior when I talk to them and another guys, I can fell it in energy between us and I bet they can fell it too.


This! This is exactly what I'm going for. After few days without jerking off I'm already to be "on edge" (horny, more energy, more confidence). But after few days I also fell less like a man (lack of orgasms, & keeping my sexuality at bay). I thing that in my situation going cold turkey isn't going to work so from now I'm trying baby steps. Few days, week, add few more days & so on until I'll be able to stop for one whole month. Wish me luck.

Day 1 - 1.08.2013 - try to hold 3 days.

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Re: No more fapping! Join me 02 Aug 2013 23:37 #49181

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For me no fapping give another advantages. I see how differently people look at me when I don't fapp. I'm way more confident, I have more energy and motivation for work and dates, my voice don't crack up when I speak. I can hold strong eye contact with any girl if i want, girls actually started approaching me. I fell superior when I talk to them and another guys, I can fell it in energy between us and I bet they can fell it too.


This! This is exactly what I'm going for. After few days without jerking off I'm already to be "on edge" (horny, more energy, more confidence). But after few days I also fell less like a man (lack of orgasms, & keeping my sexuality at bay). I thing that in my situation going cold turkey isn't going to work so from now I'm trying baby steps. Few days, week, add few more days & so on until I'll be able to stop for one whole month. Wish me luck.

Day 1 - 1.08.2013 - try to hold 3 days.


Try going cold turkey for as long as you can - preferably around a month. then just don't use porn. It takes a while for your brain to reprogram from all the abuse porn does to it so it's worth it.
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Re: No more fapping! Join me 02 Aug 2013 23:44 #49187

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if you REALLY wanna jerk off and can't hold back... do it to your own fantasies and thoughts instead

it's better

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Re: No more fapping! Join me 02 Aug 2013 23:46 #49189



if you REALLY wanna jerk off and can't hold back... do it to your own fantasies and thoughts instead

it's better

agreed 8). im at day 25 and counting 8)
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Re: No more fapping! Join me 03 Aug 2013 00:52 #49205

im at at almost 2 weeks but i do watch porn and jerk it but i dont cum and orgasm i just hold it in... does that count for anything?

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Re: No more fapping! Join me 03 Aug 2013 00:56 #49206

im at at almost 2 weeks but i do watch porn and jerk it but i dont cum and orgasm i just hold it in... does that count for anything?


i guess as long as u don't orgasm then ur fine and ur still sober. are u edging? its better if u don't watch porn and just stick with imagination
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Re: No more fapping! Join me 01 Oct 2013 19:53 #61163

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Who is still going on with the fapping and no PMO'ing, guys?

Day 102 of no fap, and masturbation and especially getting aroused by porn is dead to me, I have become dead to it. It's truly PATHETIC compared to the real experience with a woman.

Once I broke the conditioning, the hold that porbographic imagery had over me, it was easy to just let all that stuff go, to not be tempted to look at that shit anymore.... and now I see the matrix behind the "sex sells" agenda in marketing: it works for those guys who are still PMO addicted... when they see a sexy image, they're socially conditioned to respond "oooh" with their animal brain whereas I'm like "seriously? this cheap trick again... YUCK!"

I made a thread for guys who've completed the standard 3 months or 90days challenge and I invite everyone to do their best even if it's 20 or 40 or 60 days, cos at some point, you dont need all that shit anymore: http://goodlookingloser.com/forums/index.php?topic=6437

And here's a video with good links in the decription to motivate you:
Porn & No Fap (Masturbation)

Some of the best bits from the links:

Guess what: If you actually stop jerking off, and I mean STOP - eliminate it as a possibilty from your life (as I and many others have) - your sex starved brain and testicles will literally lead you out into the world and between the legs of a female. It just HAPPENS. Try it, you numbskull. You'll see that I speak the truth. NO MATTER WHO YOU ARE, THERE ARE REAL WOMEN OUT THERE WHO WILL HAVE SEX WITH YOU. They're just waiting for you to poke your head into their personal space and say "Hello beautiful. You look bored. Can I help you with that?
source: http://www.reddit.com/r/NoFap/comments/uyg9r/nofap_really_will_make_you_a_chick_magnet_yes//

God, I love this movement!!

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Re: No more fapping! Join me 02 Oct 2013 09:44 #61297

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nice video! really tempted to just post this on facebook for my friends to see. but that would be weird since i have a variety of friends including co-workers etc. maybe i will custom post it to where only a select few can see it haha
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Re: No more fapping! Join me 02 Oct 2013 12:57 #61306

Yeah I'm still going with it. I've reached day 38, which i'm quite impressed with considering the fact that I've been doing fuck all with myself for those 38 days. Shows me that I have more willpower than I thought. I reached a point the other day where I decided that porn has lost all its appeal to me - I never want to watch it again. I've also got not much motivation to wank. I was gonna go 90days no orgasm but I've a backpacking trip coming up in a week and its 2 months long. If I dont get laid/happy ending massage during it i'll be shocked lol
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Re: No more fapping! Join me 17 Oct 2013 01:24 #64936

Thanks horny that video really helped me.....
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