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“Viral” NYMag story about dating—girls perspective 20 Dec 2017 22:12 #295953

Yo guys,

Evidently this article is “going viral” or whatever stupid term you wanna attach to it, reason being that a lot of women can relate I guess. It’s actually pretty fascinating, gives a pretty genuine seeming view into their side of things.

It’s a little long but worth the read. Interested in getting your thoughts.

www.newyorker.com/magazine/2017/12/11/cat-person

Edit: the part that the guys here will specifically think is interesting is the part where they’re hooking up. This guys behavior obviously isn’t super GLLish until that part. But the hooking up has pretty interesting insight. One moral of it is to never, ever get out of shape.
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“Viral” NYMag story about dating—girls perspective 20 Dec 2017 23:01 #295960

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What a humiliating story lol. I feel bad for that guy.

Men are so clueless, it’s almost painful.

However, I have to admit, I’ve done cheesy and lame shit too in the past.

The whole “girls” thing is a BRUTAL learning curve, and I don’t blame anybody for being as lame as the guy in the story. Although, 34-years-old is a bit much.

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“Viral” NYMag story about dating—girls perspective 20 Dec 2017 23:21 #295961

Rousseau wrote: What a humiliating story lol. I feel bad for that guy.

Men are so clueless, it’s almost painful.

However, I have to admit, I’ve done cheesy and lame shit too in the past.

The whole “girls” thing is a BRUTAL learning curve, and I don’t blame anybody for being as lame as the guy in the story. Although, 34-years-old is a bit much.


Agreed.

It’s interesting this guy seems to have mostly lost her when his shirt came off. Huge lesson there (not for GLL people really, but for guys who delude themselves thinking working out doesn’t matter as much for girls attraction).

Also interesting to see the ways a girl slowly gets turned off and doesn’t wanna hang with you again even if she’s just fucked you.

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“Viral” NYMag story about dating—girls perspective 21 Dec 2017 03:02 #295965

This is such a great read.

I think there's a lot of bias in it tho, for example, at the moment the guy kissed her, she probably was really into it, she changed her mind and started rationalizing how bad the kisses were after she had already made up her mind she didn't like him.

This guy is also textbook nice guy, they're always like "hey so sorry if I made uncomfortable" "hey" "hey" "hey" "are you ignoring me?" "bitch" hahha, hilarious. Correct me if I'm wrong but I'm pretty sure this is how nice guys have "casual" sex.

Now that I think about it, I just remembered this story by victor pride, it's hilariously painful too boldanddetermined.com/the-gentlemens-gui...ern-american-dating/

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“Viral” NYMag story about dating—girls perspective 21 Dec 2017 06:44 #295971

Man, I really enjoyed that.

I think it's important to read stuff like this to get the female perspective. I've spent a lot of time with (and thinking about) women, and I still learned a fuckton from that story.

Sucks to be Robert, but that's why we're on this site anyway. That shit is an important lesson in empathy.
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“Viral” NYMag story about dating—girls perspective 21 Dec 2017 07:38 #295972

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Great read.

That guy was BRUTAL.

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“Viral” NYMag story about dating—girls perspective 21 Dec 2017 08:06 #295973

lol shit... glad we're all here at GLL. Learned/reaffirmed 3 things for me.

1.) Looks matter.
2.) having a true abundance mindset "more options" so you don't send needy/angry texts like in the end.
3.) and she has already fucked an older, uglier, or shorter guy than you is what I got from it.

Can't believe she had sex with him when she lost interest, she's a nice girl.

Really eye-opening.

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“Viral” NYMag story about dating—girls perspective 21 Dec 2017 16:06 #295978

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And I thought that RSD lay reports were too long...it took me 2 days to finish reading this one.

fun to read, but standard beta dating
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“Viral” NYMag story about dating—girls perspective 21 Dec 2017 19:11 #295982

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“Viral” NYMag story about dating—girls perspective 21 Dec 2017 21:49 #295988

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“Viral” NYMag story about dating—girls perspective 21 Dec 2017 21:54 #295989

He was also shit in bed, combined with the less than ideal physique, that probably did him in.

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“Viral” NYMag story about dating—girls perspective 22 Dec 2017 05:46 #296010

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Shanghai_Bobby wrote: GLL lay report = 5 sentences + creep pics

Chicks lay report = 72 pages of waffle, with a simp cuck stooge at the end...


Word.

I saw the length of that article, hit the space bar a half dozen times (rapid scroll down), and realized I just didn't have that kind of free time.

Can anyone provide the cliff notes for this one?
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