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I made a huge fuckin mistake. Long story short, I went to DC Saturday night and brought a girl back to my apartment. Everything was great, got head for 25 min while I brought her back to my friends apartment.
Once we got there, everything goes as usual, she give me head for another 15 minute, and then i put on a condom
and we start fucking. About 10 min in, the bitch tells me, she is allergic to latex and tells me she is about to leave unless we fuck raw. And this is where I wish I could go back in time and slap the fuck out of myself. I go with it and 5 min in I busted inside of her. She gives me head for another 15 min, and then I fucked her raw AGAIN but pulled out and came in her mouth.
She left the next morning at 8 am to go back to her deaf school for work. The next day she buys a plan B and takes it in front of me via FaceTime. Pregnancy is still a concern but my main concern are stds, particularly HIV.
While fucking I was so caught up in the moment that I did not give a fuck. After fucking we talked about her status and how many guys she's been with, and that's when I started to realize I fucked up big time.
First of all, this girl has told me she has fucked 20 guys. 13 guys freshman year, was in a 3 year long term relationship which ended 2 months ago, and has been going "wild" since. And she told me that she had fucked someone the night before (Friday night) and woke up not knowing what happened. She was being quite honest but you can't ever a trust a bitch, so you can easily slap on another 15-20 lays on her.
I'm getting a full std test this Thursday and I told her to get tested as well and to show me the results.
This is the first time I've gotten laid in over a year since I was back home for the past year living with my conservative parents. And if I caught any std it's going to be from this bitch. I went by myself that night and thought I had zero chance of getting laid. I just got hyped up after listening to Chris's going out alone guide.
So what are my chances of catching HIV from unprotected vaginal sex? I know the odds are slim but I haven't been able to sleep last night and I haven't eaten anything for the past day just thinking about this and it's going to eat at me until I get tested Thursday.
I pray to God if I got anything, it's something that is curable. I know I fucked up and I swear to God I'm never going to do this again, ever, in a one night stand situation. What bothers me is that the girl does not seem to give a single fuck about this situation. Yeah she bought the plan B after I pushed her, but she was smiling and telling me to relax when we were texting. I cancelled work for the next three days because there's no way my mind is going to be present. I have too much at stake for my future to have fucked it up over a stupid life-ending error.
I know the short story post has turned into a long one, but I am just very paranoid and scared at the moment. Any advice would be appreciated.
Odds of getting HIV from vaginal sex in North America are pretty much slim to none. Had a talk with my doctor about this, don't quote me on the numbers but it's something like 1 out 800 000.
You could catch other shit but HIV is pretty remote.
But yeah, if she fucks you raw on the first night, she's probably doing it with other guys. Learn from this.
I fucking hate condoms, but they are necessaary. One of the major reasons I would rather fuck a heavily screened chick raw than a easy DTF. When your dick burns and you are waiting for results you go into a rage of STD internet searches. The first time, when the doc called me (not usual) I had an out of body experience of anxiety thinking the worst. Chlamydia... Yesss! No biggie. Now you recognize the burn, keep calm, pop a pill and feel cleansed AF
Keeping lambskin condoms in your wallet for these high maintenance vaginas isn't realistic. I tried SKYN condoms a few times and wasn't a fan (thicker and break more) so I stick to trojan ecstacy. I still keep a few in my dresser just in case though.
Chlamydia and gonorrhea are the only ones you can detect in the first week so you'll have to come back in a month to prick test for hiv/hepatitis anyway. Yeah HIV is rare, but going raw on a one night stand is just a bad idea. Nowadays, layup pussy just ain't that valuable to me after getting a few scares. If you can hit it that night you can just pick up some condoms and fuck the next day. TAKE THAT RAINCHECK BRUH
My solution for advanced GLLer's is heavily screen for premium/exclusive pussy. It's cute how they tell their girlfriends about the the low-carb creampies you made them for dessert At least 6 out of my last 10 lays were raw/creampie quality a big boost from my numbers-DTF days, plus if they make 6 figures you have less worries about a missed pill/strong swimmer
Probability-wise you're probably okay. Assuming she is HIV positive to begin with, which is a big assumption, the chance of a male getting HIV from the female is only 0.04% or 4 in 10,000.
FWIW it's double that (0.08%) for male to female P-in-V transmission and these rates increase several times for anal sex assuming one party is HIV+. Also HIV transmission is possible through oral sex as well though rates are much lower.
That said, from what you described this girl gave multiple red flags for what's termed "high-risk" sexual behavior, meaning behavior that compounds one's risk of being infected with HIV, and thus transmitting to someone else, including: a high number of partners and refusal to tolerate a condom. Plus, if she's sleeping with multiple guys in rapid succession as you describe, she's more likely to have microtrauma, i.e. blood, that may have not yet healed thereby compounding your risk of getting whatever she might have. The best thing to do really would have been to let her leave.
Condoms do decrease the risk of transmission of many of these infections (not herpes tho) and should be worn during sex. That said, I hate condoms too, and if I were to forgo using one, it would not be with a girl of such high risk.
But again, probability wise, you're probably fine.
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