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They also never do anything that they're scared of. They don't stimulate themselves enough and then resort to drugs like cocaine for fun, energy, confidence and some adrenaline.
These guys don't push themselves in the gym, life or with women.
If I went back home, the funnest things people have done is go to a music festival or to their parent's cottage. They don't climb mountains, they don't jump off cliffs, they don't talk to girls unless they're wasted, they do everything their parents tell them to do.
All boils down to, they don't get stimulation cause they're pussies and don't force themselves to cause they're comfortable. Then they get wasted on weekends, do cocaine and smoke weed when they're not out.
I think people have a tendency to view the past with nostalgia, rose-tinted glasses, etc.
We only ever learn about the epic people and events in history (who wants to know what a 15th century plumber did for example).
Society will always have some "alphas" and mostly "betas". Otherwise, the world wouldn't work
That being said
- >50% divorce rate/broken families - America at least (guys often growing up without a father figure)
- ** Life is just too easy - modern society, with all its conveniences, has also made people weak. There is no "struggle", no necessity to strive, etc. You can get by with an average, non-strenuous 9-5 (many do) and not have to worry about going out hustling all day to eat (3rd world), getting shot (detroit/3rd world), etc. There always has to be a struggle or people just lose that lust for life and come up with imaginary (vs. real) problems in their head like feminism, mental disorders you always need a $$$ prescription for, etc.
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I think it's just too much comfort. Everything is easily accessible in the west especially entertainment. I have showed countless guys this website and many have dismissed it because they thought it was "douchey" to try and get laid and build a good physique. Yet these are the same guys who constantly complain about their sex lives. This year I have made a lot of personal self development simply because I took action. Also Chris it would be interesting to see your take on long-term relationships, since you've been in for quite a while now.
Ya, their life is just too easy. I'm in my mid 30's and I work with a bunch of early 20 year olds and it's shocking how sheltered most of them are. Most of these kids have no clue how to change a tire on a car, or sewing a button back on their shirt/pants, just simple basic life stuff.
It's a self fullfilling prophecy in a sense. Parents want to provide for their children so they never go without but they might have taken things a bit too far.
Life isn't necessarily easy. I barely managed to pass through college without getting in debt. Finding low-skilled jobs was very hard. I barely stayed afloat. Once I got a good paying office job I lost it for stupid reasons.
There is enough difficulty.
There is diet, divorce, drugging, etc.
But the main culprit is feminization. People are overly concerned with women's opinion and their worldview.
I have a story. It happened in a Western country. I was studying at a language school. There was a topic about gender roles. The textbook told us a story of a female welder and how that defies stereotypes. The teacher asked us if we believe in gender roles. I said there is some biological basis for it and that certain women can defy them, but women as a whole will align to gender stereotypes because they have a biological basis.
That made her mad. We had some Muslim guys there that looked pretty hardcore and even they we're sorta scared.
Many will say this is cultural Marxism. Not really. This is just women acting like women.
I lost my job due to an HR woman that twisted my words. No one opposed her.
What has happened is that female worldview has been accepted as standard. Women value comfort over conflict.
There is a reason people are getting fired for mild sexist comments or jokes. It's because it offends women and everyone caters to them.
Men do not "get offended". I had blacks call me cracker and gays call me a breeder. That never affected me one bit. That's because I am not emotional. Women are.
The current establishment, composed of a political class and globalised corporations have taken advantage of female sensibilities and pomote them since they are better for business. Men are frugal and clannish. Women are big spenders and open to others and new experiences. Business profits of a female-centric worldview. Politicians do too. That's why corporations empower woman. So they can use female outrage as a tool of controlling dissidents like James Damore or some nationalists. Trump's opponent feigned disgust at his O'Donell comments and pussy-grabbing.
In the West, being offensive is the biggest crime ever becaus it makes people uncomfortable and shakes the status quo, two things women hate.
To give you an example. When I lived in EE if I heard a guys smack a woman, the question would be "what did she do?". The presumption was the woman's behavior played a role. Women are not presumed to be innocent. I do not faint at the idea of hitting a woman if she did something to warrant it. It's the same in places like the Philippines and other developing countries. At my workplace my boss sweared on the phone and would make jokes about hookers. Needless to say, nothing like that happens in the country I am currently.
To make millineals less of pussies you must allow them to be manly and not suffer from behaving like normal men. You must decriminalize flirting (remove retarded "harrasment" charges and rape culture myths). Give them technocratic workplaces (which means changing corporate culture, killing HR cancer and removing quotas) and remove pollitical correctnes, that is allow men to congregate, make racy jokes, get in fights, flirt.
As long as acting like a man is illegal in the US and elsewhere men will have no choice but to be pussies to keep their jobs, or else they are one Google search away from being blacklisted forever for making "sexist comments" or getting a criminal record for improper parking and lose all job prospects.
The only way to achieve this is not through reasoned debate, but vicious mocking of the feminized worldview promoted currently.
Just remember Roosh meetups outrage and Good looking loser being called a creepy for picking up chicks. This people hate everything with testosterone in it. They call it rape and hate. This people are emotional and CANNOT be reasoned with.
This can only be changed on a grand scale, nothing you can do individually. Until then, just lift, approach girls and accept society is fucked.
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Cool guy pretty much hit the nail on the head there. Lots of American and European men are moving to Asia permanently because of this. Unfortunately, if you don't like Asian girls, you're kinda fucked. You could always go to East Europe if you have a location independent business.
I find that this feminist bs exists less in East Europe, and even less in Asia, but is slowly creeping in to east Europe. Having said this, I find that European women still appreciate masculinity except uber left places like Denmark.
I think american kids grow up soft as fuck because their parents can't spank them. A shitload of kids go around disobeying with no remorse. I got spanked with a wooden paddle so I learned discipline early on. Can't get away with that anymore. Plus millennials are just disconnected from real people and on their phones. Tinder = split second gestures to tell a girl if you like them or not. Technology invites laziness instead of pushing the envelope on innovation
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Feminist propaganda. As Sean Connery once said, sometimes he slaps his women in the face when they act wrong. The thing is, feminists want equality, but in reality for them it means that women should be at least on the same level as the man in ALL areas. Women are already well ahead of men in many areas, having a much better sexual market value for instance just based on their sex. Kids these days lack a proper father figure; they're raised by their mothers. Yet women are genetically attracted to strong alpha males.
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