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I'm going to ask for people to give their pros and cons on my profile with POF, but I also believe I am bringing something to the table here. (to my knowledge nobody has posted this) It's keeping track of numbers. Here's an example from 2 days ago until now (Only girls I'm attracted to including profile views)
Messaged- 42 Views- 17 Message back- 9 2nd message- 6 3rd message- 6 4th message- 5 5th message- 5 Text/Call- 1 Schedule Date- 1 (Saturday) See, now there's going to be rejection of course. The numbers will trickle up the more I tweak my profile. Yeah, the numbers aren't ideal, but I still got a fucking date scheduled with someone I'm actually attracted to. This is the format I used: (not word for word, I put small talk in of course) 1. You seem cool. What are you up to? (Can also add name at end - What are you up to, Kayla?) What would you say makes you different from other girls? 2. * I'd be keen/up to meet but first I need to know a few things... 3. * You're not one of the crazies on here, stalker and or clinger? : ) 4. Lets chill later this week. Something easy like- coffee. Let me know if you're down. 555-5555 (I’ll then put down my # at the bottom of the message) After that they usually either put down their number or text me. If not then I’ll say: 5. Tell me/Drop me your number and we can chat a bit more : ) I think it would be a great idea if we started a forum showing these numbers, because keeping track and watching these numbers I provided go up slowly over time will be very rewarding. Here's my profile: www.pof.com/viewprofile.aspx?profile_id=135562233 Screenplay I wrote on the struggles of a virgin-
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Most guys here don't keep track of numbers on purpose - its easy to get disappointed or think you're doing something wrong when you do.
That being said if it helps you, go for it As far as your profile goes I would suggest having a friend take a good shoulders-up shot outdoors (take like 10 and pick the best). POF just gives you the little thumbnail picture in the inbox -- you need to show your face clearly in that |
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I'm sorry man, but I have to disagree. See, I'm in sales and I started out not being very consistent. I kept working at it and ended up predicting myself being #1 the week before and setting my goal to a ridiculously high standard. At the time, I didn't even question it, I knew I would hit it. I hit the goal that less than 5 people has ever hit in the business that I am in out of at least 7,000 people. I did it as a quiet introverted person who had a burning desire to be #1. The intensity to beat everyone was unmatched. Nobody could fuck with me that week. That being said, the biggest motivation I had was keeping track of the people I talked to. I've been through it all in this shit and I know following some kind of system works. Keeping track of numbers is more important than anything and this situation is no different. You want to see progress, see results, and there's no other way of doing it than seeing the numbers, because numbers don't fucking lie. So Jake, stop being a cunt and have an open mind.
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Whoa hold on I'm trying to help you here because I have actual experience with this shit. And other guys who have actual experience would have said the same thing I used to nickname all of my "potentials" from online and log their status, keep track of how many matches I get, message to reply ratios, all that shit. It helped nothing and was completely depressing But like I said, if it works for you, go for it I just don't want to see you turn into another one of those "girls just don't like me" guys because your numbers take an unexplainable nosedive one day (because eventually they definitely will with no warning or explanation)
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Sorry I called you a cunt lol, but that won't happen to me, because this shit is just like sales lol. I'll give 25 presentations one day and nobody will want it and the next day I'll give my first 5 and sign all 5 up. I'm not really worried about it and I'm not doubting your experience or anything, but it would help everybody I believe.
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SoldJT:
i remember you started the AA program a few years but then stopped before you finished and never started cold approaching girls. If you obsessively track your numbers, you are more likely to give up. You are increasing your chances of burning yourself out. (and don't say "there's no way I'd give up!" because you've shown in the past that there is certainly a chance). None of the best players track their numbers to the extent you are suggesting, you can totally do it, it's just a bad idea
this is incorrect when applied to the subject of getting laid. keeping track of numbers is probably the LEAST important thing Thanks for everything you guys. It's time for me to move on to bigger things!
So long, and thanks for all the fish!
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No, I didn't give up on the AA program. I wasn't having success online and that's a big part of the program. I also wasn't socially ready. I've been improving my life and made a name for myself to attract more quality girls......A better quality life turns into better quality pics......which turns into better success in the AA program. These pics are a vast improvement compared to 3 years ago, but I know they could get better. I know in cold sales it's good to track numbers, but I won't argue with y'all honey crushers. I just thought it was a good idea at first haha.
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