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Khyber Pass wrote: Hunk,
Man gom shodam, Mitoonam ke komaketoon konam?
@ Khyber Pass - Shoma gom shodeen? Een ya'ni chi? Ya'nee "enlightened"?
Befarmeen agha. Lotfan komakam koneen. Man ba shoma hastam. Tashreef biareen
@ The thread - I realize I kind of made a mistake. Well not really because mistakes don't exist. But what I mean is, I should not be discouraging people here from chasing success. People can't hear things that they are not ready for. Like when Grim Reaper and Man Up came to back to GLL last year and told us that lay reports were counter productive. They were right but I wasnt ready to hear it yet and I just got so incredibly pissed off at them. Im at a point in my life where Im ready to hear things that other people arent. Just the way it is. So its pointless for me to come at you guys like I was. Thats why Im not going to post on GLL anymore unless its to promote the videos I have promised to some of you guys. If success with women or money is calling you fiercely then you should chase it! By all means! In that way you will find out for yourself what life is all about! The universe is no rush to teach you what you really should know. It knows no time
Therefore, @ mLuciej - Dont be upset by what I told you. It doesnt matter what I told you anyway because you are only ready to hear what you are ready to hear. Deep inside your heart you want to chase pussy. So nothing can stop you. Just like when Grim Reaper and Man Up told me not to focus on lays, nothing could stop me
That's why I always said you should view getting laid as a mean to get a girlfriend with whom you have emotional connection.
That's what I do since the beginning. I'm getting laid because :
1. I want to live some adventures, I don't want to regret my life (once you reach a certain number of adventures, you get no pleasure anymore so move on to another thing)
2. I want to satisfy my sexual needs. This shit never goes away, even if I'm tired of girls. I need to touch a female body after some weeks without sex.
3. I have a very scientific mind and I'm very curious so I'm getting laid because I want to know how to get laid (just like someone would like to know how to build a house) and how much work will I have to put in if I want to get laid again (when you know how to do it, you get no pleasure anymore from "studying" so you move on too)
4. I want to satisfy my emotional needs by having genuine connection with genuine human beings. At least some of them and then I can finally focus on finding my other half.
So that's it, I see hitting on girls, getting laid on first date, etc. (work, efforts, bullshit) as a mean to find my other half.
Btw, if religion makes you happy, then go for it. But what I feel is that you have a big void in you and you are just finding whatever you can to fill it. Don't become crazy just to fill the void inside you. Religious/spiritual people are actually not happy, even though they claim it everywhere. If people need to tell you how happy they are, that's because they are not. Happiness is a very calm state of mind. People that are actually happy are very open-minded and very calm/relaxed, nothing worries them too much. Crazy religious nutjobs are not happy ; they are full of insecurities, full of dumb rules, they are very judgmental and they are not relaxed at all.
Only trust your own experience.
Every beginner's question has a simple answer : go date 100 girls and you will have your answer. Stop asking stupid questions ; that's what girls do.
@ Leopard - Yes you are right. religious people are some of the most unhappy people. About as unhappy as people who neurotically chase success or believe that the perfect woman will somehow 'complete them'. Its not that success or relationships are inherently bad... It's the attaching to them that is a trap. Nothing that is impermanent can give you true happiness
What Im after is beyond religous doctrine
I really need to stop responding now because none of us are going to see eye to eye on any of this. I dont want to anger anybody
Hunk, maybe you are just a bit depressed these days and are just being a bit negative about things?
I mean maybe your "problem" is not that DEEP as it sounds, maybe its just one of those negative and shitty days that we all have from time to time.
Judging from your posts you are really emotional now and there is no more douchebag attitude and aggression. You seem different.
Have you checked your test and estrogen levels?
I noticed that when im depressed im starting to question my life and why i would even chase pussy and read on gll when women are sluts bla bla and all those negative questions and thoughts leading me to some really deep shit overANALyzing.
But next day i wake up and think back what did i write/say/think and just fucking laugh
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This video explains exactly why I'm leaving GLL
30 Jan 2016 19:26 #237821
For what it's worth, I spent a year in Catholic seminary and genuinely religious people (not people that go to church on Sundays and then do drugs, premarital sex, etc.) are the most principled, nicest, and at peace people I've ever known.
I may be living a sinful lifestyle right now, but I have to disagree when you guys start calling a lot of my friends things like:
"Crazy religious nutjobs are not happy ; they are full of insecurities, full of dumb rules, they are very judgmental and they are not relaxed at all."
"Religious people are some of the most unhappy people."
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This video explains exactly why I'm leaving GLL
30 Jan 2016 20:37 #237825
Best wishes on your journey. Finding happiness is the most important thing for anyone to do with their lives yet very few actually think deeply about what that means to them or how to go about getting it for themselves.
As for the voices on this thread (including Chris) who say that having a lot of sex is a "stage", I would caution that for a healthy male, the sex drive does not and should not decrease for many many years and you should not let any hard-won skill at satisfying your sexual needs go rusty. Like hunger or thirst, your sex drive does not go away permanently once you've 'had enough'. I am living proof of this, having spent much of my late 30's thinking that I was "done" with needing lots of sex and deciding to "settle down". Didn't work.
Blackdragon has a great analogy that compares sex and money to the tires on a motorcycle that represents your life. They aren't the most important parts of your life and they are not sufficient to bring happiness or fulfillment on their own but if you don't have them working properly you can't really get anything else in your life to go anywhere on your journey to being fulfilled.
Always make sure you have your sex life and financial situation handled before trying to shoot for loftier goals.
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