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Nobody gives a shit if you're drinking or not. You are just paranoid. I walk around with a water or nothing all night long and nobody ever judges me for not walking around with a drink. Most people get shots at the bar anyways and don't walk around with mixed drinks so I don't know where you are getting this deluded idea that you are sticking out to people by not walking around with a rum and coke or something lol.
When i go to a nightclub, i always have my 1-2 shots....otherwise i cannot bear all the over-stimulation (Lots of people jammed together in tight space, loud music).
I become stiff if i don't drink...and for me it has nothing to do with courage, it's just no fun when i'm sober.
I tried a couple times, staying sober throughout the night....but i always ended up getting lost in the shuffle, so to speak.
dc7 wrote: Nobody gives a shit if you're drinking or not. You are just paranoid. I walk around with a water or nothing all night long and nobody ever judges me for not walking around with a drink. Most people get shots at the bar anyways and don't walk around with mixed drinks so I don't know where you are getting this deluded idea that you are sticking out to people by not walking around with a rum and coke or something lol.
anyone on "drink patrol" is a fucking loser (the bad kind) anyway
dont worry about this stuff and be scooping out girls for eye contact
ADDED: in fact, girls would genearlly like/completely not care if they thought I wasn't drinking, I generally carried a flask in my jacket (good ole cheapskate days, 2009-2010) though
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this has something to do with your level of social freedom I'm betting. It's like when a girl senses your nervousness you get rejected. Stop caring and they will stop bothering you is my bet. People treat you as they slot you into a category in there mind as loser, winner, etc. This is largely triggered by how you show them to behave around you. Act like you are sure of yourself outwardly and this will stop probably. <--- Thats telling them how to behave around you. at the same time there are people who have already formed opinions that cant be changed. Next them and find somone else to hang with.
I used to have this same problem. I never drink when I'm out.
I usually just tell people the truth and I say that "I'm too much of an asshole when I get drunk", and then they stop asking me about it. They ask a few more questions and then the topic changes and then life goes on. It's not a big deal brother, although I know it can feel like a huge deal when you first start out being sober!
Just keep at it, and eventually you will learn to deal with it and then it will feel like nothing.
FYI: Tip the bartenders when you order waters (this is what I order when I'm out) or cokes or whatever.
I've never had a drink in my life so I've got a lot of experience with this. I'm always honest when people ask. I just tell them I have no desire to drink. If they pester me or act ignorant I get nasty right back with them, "I don't drink because I like my abs and don't want to look like you," usually does the trick. Being around drunks when you're sober is the worst and all you can so regarding that is avoid the drunks.
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