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Hey guys,
I just wanted to bring something up here. You know how guys pick on each other, especially at work? Usually when guys try to tool me, I try to tool em back by being a smart ass or something on that level. Doesn't stop me from feeling irritated by it though. It happens to everyone at my workplace. But anyway, I was on kratom at work the whole day and I was dominating the sales floor. And I notice there's some guys that you just can't fuck with, because of their vibe. Anyone know how to build this? AA drills help obviously, but what else. A perfect example of this is the video of Scotty on the muscle radio show. He handles people poking fun at him so chill, it just rolls off his back. And the pua guy was trying to dish out smart remarks, but came off insecure. Sometimes I'm that guy, the insecure but want to out-man you through smart remarks guy. Chris, Scotty, Boy Toy, Sam, SSK, etc... what's ur thoughts guys? |
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yeah im curious about this too
a lot of times i dish out the sarcasm hard. and i can take it. but sometimes a friend will call me retarded for something little i did, and it irritates the fuck out of me i wonder if im not respected |
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try genuinely showing them that what they do/say doesnt bother you because it shouldnt.
as for sticking up for yourself without looking like a try-hard idk... good topic "Just like anything in life... you play the numbers, & sooner or later you'll bump into one thats dtf... w/out a doubt!"- realest shit ive ever read (scotty)
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yeah, definitely easier to tell someone off if it's a stranger. but when there's a "dominance" struggle b/w friends or coworker I tend to tread more cautiously.
so im not sure whether to just be the guy that goes around saying "nah i wont help you with that" or "yo go do this, that and this", it's like im pushing them away and isolating myself/ making myself into a dick. but on the other hand, being the guy that is on the submissive end of the dynamic is always being told what to do isn't cool either. I don't do bad in confrontations. I almost got into a fight for cutting a waiting line, when some guy decided to not let it slide. and I handled it well/didn't phase me too much. But again, the situations I'm talking about don't really require a confrontation every time it happens. It's more about a dynamic/dominance, or how you interact/people treat you ,.... aahhh fuck iunno. |
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its hard to put in words but i think i know what youre saying. you are getting bigger, you are on the site so you'll soon be banging chicks... it'll all come naturally to you. watch one day your gonna be the guy guys have to worry how they act in front of.
shit. maybe scotty will read this and put in his 2cents "Just like anything in life... you play the numbers, & sooner or later you'll bump into one thats dtf... w/out a doubt!"- realest shit ive ever read (scotty)
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It all comes with life experience...
When people try to talk bad to me, I cant really care because Im 20, have fucked 125+ girls, have my own apartment, have a good body, know how to eat, im a good sales man, once walked 100 km, ran a half marathon, have a good relationship with my family, have a really good friend, etc etc The better your life becomes, the less you give a shit about people trying to shoot you down. Does it make sense? ...
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that all makes sense to me
boytoy how did you get started in sales that's something I wanna do |
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This + experience (maturity) i get so much hate mail its ridiculous, not counting hate on the youtube channel. I'm literally too busy to care or reply. Kratom is a good one though, when Im on some good K, I couldn't care less because my state is so good Please no Private Messages. Post thread on with the word "Chris" or "GLL" in it if you absolutely need to get my input. Thank you for your understanding.
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Go to a telemarketing company. They are always hiring. ...
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Sounds interesting. I´m searching for a job beside my studies anyway so I have the option of a cashier in a supermarket or doing this. So what´s your exact tasks? Do you sell in a shop or do you approach people on the street trying to get them in a contract? I´m a bit far away from this "sell-stuff" so can you describe it a bit. Would be great! |
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Ive had lots of different sales jobs.
Ive done telemarketing (calling people on the phone and selling newspapers/books/magazines) Ive done street sales (stopping people on the street and selling newspapers/UNICEF/WHO membership) Ive done sales at expos (having a stand/spot at an expo selling different products Ive done direct b2b sales (visiting different stores, asking for the manager and trying to sell products/services to the store) But I recommend you to start in telemarketing. Its easier to learn sales, when you can sit relaxed, in the safety behind a phone, and look at your cheat-sheets where there is a lot of help on what you can say. After you have done telemarketing for a couple of months, you can change to other sales jobs if you want. ...
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Yeah that definitely makes sense. I guess that's why I'm here. |
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