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Re: Need help: No self-worth 11 Dec 2013 16:06 #81872

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First, I mean small tits like <= A cups soo yeah :D

Second, why top 5%? Me and you @HXCpr0n we are not even top 10% right now so don't think that we need to got to top 5%. Also, seeing the other guys as competition is true in a certain extend (looks+wealth+style) but the most don't have social freedom so they're not gonna make a move.

I'm not sure, but I'm not gonna be huge in my life. Maybe I can put on 10-15lb of muscle, but I honestly think that my problem is the small joints. I def plan to start a cycle but only when I have a stable income.

I think the way for us smaller guys is to add edge in other areas (tan, tats). I'll def look into tats, but I have no idea what/how and I honestly don't have the guts to risk 'ruining' my body.


You would be amazed how much muscle you can pack on a small frame if you train smart and eat right.  And small joints are actually an advantage for asthetics - they make your muscles look bigger.  The other thing is that you dont need to gain >20lbs to look different.  Even 5 pounds of lean muscle can really transform your look,  especially if that muscle is packed onto your shoulders, upper back and arms.  Do you train with anybody?  I think a training partner is a great asset, especially if they're a little stronger.  They'll hold you accountable, push you harder and motivate you to get bigger/stronger. 
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Re: Need help: No self-worth 24 Dec 2013 10:46 #85759

Guys, I have read the article on GLL-Getalife about 30 Things blabla you know.

Well, anyways, the point about the social life / social skills really struck with me. I've always been kind of a loner until when I turned 19 and moved back to my home town. I think I can thank the gym I was in at that time, because it's like a small family with like-minded people. At that place, I got some more social skills.

So, please try to rate my social skills based on the following:

1) I am able to make smalltalk with male and female people in social settings and cold approach fairly easily, although cold approach is still a bit harder for me, because I cannot assess the people I'm approaching with such great detail. I'm basically sticking to standard questions (where are you from/what are you doing/where are you heading/what are you studying, find common things)

2) I still have some approach anxiety, but only because I cannot really assess the person/ "not sure if I want to approach"

3) I don't have social anxiety whatsoever. I can make small talk in a sauna where all can see my dick haha

4) I guess the main fuckup is with girls because I'm quite nervous (I guess sex. anxiety)

5) Well in the last study I was relatively popular (well all nerds haha) and was able to make a connection with many people across different languages

Well there you have it. The reason I'm telling you this is because very often I'm sitting alone at home not knowing what I should do and wondering whether my social skills are the reason for it.

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