All contents herein is subject to our General Disclaimer and Medical Disclaimer.

This is an opinion website that offers information of a general nature and none of the opinions should be construed as advice. Nothing contained within the site is the advice, opinion or otherwise the view of any host, owner, server or other provider of services to Good Looking Loser. Nothing stated shall be construed to serve as a replacement for competent advice from professionals.

Affiliate Disclosure: At absolutely no expense to you, if you make a purchase, we may receive commissions from some links on this website. That is how our community supports itself. I don't recommend anything that I have not used personally or believe in. Thanks!

Subscribe to GLL
(click here)The Big Brother You Never Had Report a Problem
 
Welcome, Guest
Username: Password: Remember me
Forgot your password? Forgot your username? Create an account
Forum
Depression & Anxiety Discussion
I'm Depressed (General Depression)
Cannot shake my porn habit
  • Page:
  • 1
  • 2

TOPIC: Cannot shake my porn habit

Re: Cannot shake my porn habit 29 Jul 2013 09:38 #48371

  • Horny
  • Horny's Avatar
  • Offline
  • Complete Elite Loser
  • Complete Elite Loser
  • I'd fuck me.
  • Posts: 1572
  • Karma: 128
  • Thank you received: 36
From my experience: finding a way to decrease your sex drive can decrease the amount of willpower required to abstain from fapping.

My fat loss diet helped me in this regard: noFAP success came naturally to me without trying on my diet when I had less sex drive. Now I'm on day 40 of noFAP and I'm back on a calorie surplus since like 15 days ago. my sex drive's been regained, but mentally I'm more powerful and I don't think there's any chance of relapsing if I don't want to.

Please Log in or Create an account to join the conversation.

Re: Cannot shake my porn habit 29 Jul 2013 11:10 #48376

  • Nixon
  • Nixon's Avatar
  • Offline
  • Toddler Loser
  • Toddler Loser
  • Posts: 61
  • Karma: 1
  • Thank you received: 0
Guys,
As for the virus.... Don't forget to install a good firewall and antivirus software ;)

Please Log in or Create an account to join the conversation.

Re: Cannot shake my porn habit 30 Jul 2013 15:20 #48526

  • 's Avatar Topic Author
  • Visitor
  • Visitor
I think a big part of my problem is that I'm only starting on a quest to get more pussy, and have followed the advice of getting an online dating profile, but my issue with online dating is that I never get anything from it. I live in a country in which the attitude of women is a very magnanimous one. I'm not even getting dates, which would take my mind off the need to go near any porn. I'm trying to beat approach anxiety aswell so the online dating I thought would help me in interacting more with women. I don't think i'm ugly, nothing special but I should be able to get dates with 5s and 6s online.

Please Log in or Create an account to join the conversation.

Re: Cannot shake my porn habit 30 Jul 2013 21:02 #48568

  • Chip Skylark
  • Chip Skylark's Avatar
  • Offline
  • Junior High Loser
  • Junior High Loser
  • Take the pussy off the pedestal.
  • Posts: 293
  • Karma: 33
  • Thank you received: 0

I think a big part of my problem is that I'm only starting on a quest to get more pussy, and have followed the advice of getting an online dating profile, but my issue with online dating is that I never get anything from it. I live in a country in which the attitude of women is a very magnanimous one. I'm not even getting dates, which would take my mind off the need to go near any porn. I'm trying to beat approach anxiety aswell so the online dating I thought would help me in interacting more with women. I don't think i'm ugly, nothing special but I should be able to get dates with 5s and 6s online.


Online dating (unless you're good looking, have a great physique, have tats or an edge) is gonna be full of frustration. Frustration leads to porn when you get fed up. Like you said you're just starting out - this stuff takes time. The average transformation time takes 3 months (for guys that are already ahead) to a year. Sometimes more but very rare if you're following Chris's advice right.

My opinion, stay off the online dating and focus on your style, hit the gym hard, eat till you get to the size you want, get your dick bigger, and crush your porn habits. This will give you confidence that you didn't think was possible. Get rid of this "I don't think I'm ugly, nothing special" bullshit - shoot for the stars and you won't ever have to settle for 5s and 6s. The top 5% of guys get everything - everyone else gets "lucky" once every blue moon with some drunk slut who just blew a guy in the bathroom twenty minutes before making out with them.

Then work on your anxiety (if you have any) and go out and get laid. Online dating should always be on the backburner - think about it as something you don't need but comes through every now and then. For now, you're only wasting your time.



Every girl wants my d. If she thinks she doesn't, she just doesn't know it yet.

I don't post advice that I truly haven't mastered myself. Follow me to the top: goodlookingloser.com/forums/index.php?topic=2150.0

Please Log in or Create an account to join the conversation.

Re: Cannot shake my porn habit 30 Jul 2013 21:08 #48569

solid advice^.
Character is forged under the iron and hammer.

Please Log in or Create an account to join the conversation.

Re: Cannot shake my porn habit 30 Jul 2013 23:35 #48580

  • 12345
  • 12345's Avatar
  • Offline
  • Complete Elite Loser
  • Complete Elite Loser
  • Posts: 2230
  • Karma: 44
  • Thank you received: 33
That's some great advice.

As someone who has struggled a ton with porn and depression in the past, I can say this.

Get that dopamine going.

Yeah improving your life will help and increase dopamine. But porn watching comes from a place of low confidence.

The top shelf guys fuck on the nights that average guys are fucking.


I've managed to pull a lot of girls from online dating because I recognize how attractive I am, present myself well in clothes, and have spent so much damn time in front of the mirror in the life that I am a narcissist who takes great pictures.

My advice:
Make sure you're getting enough dopamine
Weight lifting, eating lots of protein frequently, occasionally getting some blueberries, cold showers, meditation, positive affirmations, broaden your social circle, vitamin d supplements, any other supplements you're lacking in, eat tons of veggies which will clear up your body, complexion, and brain.

Peace
-#1Stag

Please Log in or Create an account to join the conversation.

Re: Cannot shake my porn habit 31 Jul 2013 01:52 #48612

From my experience: finding a way to decrease your sex drive can decrease the amount of willpower required to abstain from fapping.

My fat loss diet helped me in this regard: noFAP success came naturally to me without trying on my diet when I had less sex drive. Now I'm on day 40 of noFAP and I'm back on a calorie surplus since like 15 days ago. my sex drive's been regained, but mentally I'm more powerful and I don't think there's any chance of relapsing if I don't want to.


For some reason I was the same sex drive wise, but lately I have been eating more fat, taking Zinc and lifting weights, still losing weights but sex drive has gone up like crazy.

Approaching girls on the street just makes me hornier when I get home. Whilst in Thailand I had no access to porn and didn't hit on any girls because I was with family and I didn't jerk off for like a week and a half.

Lately I have been jerking off like 1-3 times a night, but trying to avoid looking at porn, I end up looking at photos of facebook.

but it's all the same shit, all mental fantasy.

The new strategy I was thinking is quitting actual porn, and using fantasy, then reducing masturbation to once per day only. Then once every second day. Then twice a week, then just edge every second day with no porn and so on, and ejaculate on Sunday.

Then edge and never ejaculate. (unless its a girls vagina)

Please Log in or Create an account to join the conversation.

Re: Cannot shake my porn habit 07 Aug 2013 22:57 #50155

I just repeat a mantra. "It's not going to make me feel better," and focus on that till the urge subsides.

Please Log in or Create an account to join the conversation.

Re: Cannot shake my porn habit 27 Aug 2013 19:49 #53603

I relapsed again.. fucked me over for a few days, social anxiety is pretty high at the moment
Character is forged under the iron and hammer.

Please Log in or Create an account to join the conversation.
  • Page:
  • 1
  • 2
Forum
Depression & Anxiety Discussion
I'm Depressed (General Depression)
Cannot shake my porn habit
Time to create page: 3.762 seconds

GLLWrap3-red-150wThe GoodLookingLoser.com forum offers visitors the ability to exchange information and thoughts. Nothing contained within GoodLookingLoser.com forum is the advice, opinion or otherwise the view of any host, owner, server or other provider of services to GoodLookingLoser.com or of Goodlookingloser.com itself. Nothing stated shall be construed to serve as a replacement for competent advice from professionals. Visitors are to make their own independent inquiries before acting on any information contained within the website forum.

Support Our Community - Enrich Your Life

(about these suggestions)

Bathmatebathmates

Sizegeneticssizegenetics

Penomet Pumppenomet-thumb

Phallosanphallosan-forte-in-box

Get A LifeGALWrap2

Kratomhippo thumbnail

Gorilla MindGorilla Mind

palmetto-health-foundationFall proceeds benefit the Palmetto Health Foundation

Full Recommendations Page

rotator53.jpg

subscribe youtube

Intelligence for Dirtbags

apple-store
play-store

amazon-button

Good Looking Loser for Android

publishing unknown sources sm

You must enable the Unknown sources setting before you can install the app on Android

Recent Posts on Lifestyle

01 February 2023

Our website is protected by DMC Firewall!