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Am not able to lose my V 18 Mar 2021 22:43 #333263

Can´t lose my virginity at 30. Am depressed all the time.

Tried all daing sites, non of the have worked
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Am not able to lose my V 19 Mar 2021 04:19 #333266

Post pictures and post what you've done so far to lose your v card.
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Am not able to lose my V 19 Mar 2021 08:28 #333267

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Are you working out consistently?

Are you eating a high protein diet with fruits and vegetables, cutting out carbs processed crap and sugar?

Are you approaching girls regularly?

Have you upgraded your style, wardrobe and do you have a decent haircut (google 2021 mens fades and go get one)

If you're not doing these things, start doing them. Accept that the process will be hard. Any self-transformation is.

What helped me when I was fucked up and depressed was imagining the man I wanted to be in 5 years in my mind. What he looked like, sounded like, the way he carried himself and what he does. I then did the things every day that man does. I pretended to be him already. I fought against the anxiety and the weak thoughts.

You can't be calling yourself an incel bro. I struggle with negative thoughts too but you have to fight back against them like its a fight for your fucking life. Because it is. Stop identifying with BS thoughts, do what I said up there and use your conscious action and aggression to become who you desire and get what you want.

It won't be easy but you will make significant progress in 1-2 years if you cut the bullshit and take action.
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Am not able to lose my V 20 Mar 2021 02:19 #333283

Start with self-improvement - read and IMPLEMENT everything I wrote here:
killyourinnerloser.com/tinder-guide/

Don't just read it; actually DO everything that's listed.

Agree with @rapitup; you need to stop calling yourself an incel. That's not helping you.

"Tried all daing sites, non of the have worked"
You were clearly a) not attractive enough (in which case follow the link above and work on yourself), b) had shit pics (again, follow the link above) or c) not talking to enough girls and playing the numbers game.

Dating sites work. Tinder/Hinge works - here's proof . But you've gotta put in the effort and improve yourself.
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Am not able to lose my V 21 Mar 2021 22:49 #333296

KillYourInnerLoser wrote: killyourinnerloser.com/tinder-guide/

Overwhelmingly good.
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Am not able to lose my V 25 Mar 2021 19:51 #333323

Got my pics here:

www.goodlookingloser.com/forums/look-goo...help-me-with-my-pics


I don´t think I´m out of shape or I look that bad, but I can´t get anything. I do workout.

I hate Tinder, superficiality there in insane. I don´t think a relationship based solely on looks can work.
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Am not able to lose my V 26 Mar 2021 03:24 #333330

Your pictures are bad, I would rate them 4/10. It's not you tho, it's your pictures.
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Am not able to lose my V 27 Mar 2021 01:51 #333338

Jake da Dawg wrote: Your pictures are bad, I would rate them 4/10. It's not you tho, it's your pictures.


Should I go to a studio or something?
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Am not able to lose my V 27 Mar 2021 16:19 #333339

Incel_help wrote:

Jake da Dawg wrote: Your pictures are bad, I would rate them 4/10. It's not you tho, it's your pictures.


Should I go to a studio or something?


No, you should get a camera and a buddy to take you pictures.
Read this killyourinnerloser.com/tinder-guide/ , start at 2.7 – Instagram Inspiration and then jump to 3.1 – The Vibe Your Photos Should Get Across
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Am not able to lose my V 27 Mar 2021 16:50 #333341

Hey dude! Looks like you took your photos down from the link you mentioned. If you can post them here again, I'll give you some feedback.

By the way, what's the population of your city? Online dating is way harder the smaller the population you can draw from within a few miles.
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Am not able to lose my V 04 Jun 2021 10:29 #333876

RogerRoger wrote: Hey dude! Looks like you took your photos down from the link you mentioned. If you can post them here again, I'll give you some feedback.

By the way, what's the population of your city? Online dating is way harder the smaller the population you can draw from within a few miles.


No. I live in London. There are many people.

I tried professional pictures. Spent like 600 bucks. I did the photoshoot on exteriors, in different locations and dressing different clothes.

My new photos are better than the ones I used before, but I don´t get a single match. Not even one. I just don´t pass the looks threshold, no matter what I do.

The only thing that seems to work on Tinder is using the typical Instagram boy on steroids. I tried catfishing doing this and those kind of pics get many matches and some girls would even open the conversation.

In other dating apps, like POF, I get to exchange some messages with girls time to time. Doesn´t happen very often though.

But when I try to set up and actual date, they immediately stop replying. It happens to me always.

I can´t get dates. I am almost 31, I never kissed anyone and I´m hopeless.


I know that looks are the problem. But I don´t know exactly what It is.

I wish girls were brutally honest to me and tell me what they don´t like about me in general. Is It my face? Is It my height? Not looking masculine enough?? Having a weird expression?


Being rated by guys is pointless and useless. Since women have a reality distortion.

When men see a 7, women see a 3. So asking a man opinion is ridiculous.

Unfortunetly, I don´t have female friends who can advise me. And even if I had them, people won´t normally say the truth cause they don´t want your feelings being hurt.

Am blocked. I see no way out.

:(
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Am not able to lose my V 04 Jun 2021 18:46 #333879

I am thinking on getting facial surgery and height surgery.

Am very hopeless.
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