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I see a lot of myself in the OP. I got ripped and jacked. I did the AA program. I approached girls and fucked a number of them. But none of the above actions cured the basic problem, which was myself. I was still insecure, I was still comparing myself to other guys and being jealous. No matter how good looking or how good you become, there's always someone better to be jealous of. It's a neverending cycle. For me the problem is that I was never able to give myself the validation that I so desperately looked for in other people. There's also never a point where approaching is gonna feel like you can just do it. It always comes down to the fact that you just need to approach, even if you feel worthless. Self-acceptance. It comes from within, not from looking good or bangin' chicks.
25 y/o virgin before GLL
Also, by the way, you're wrong about tall guys. You DO have to be above average even if you're tall. How do I know? because I used to be tall and average, and it fucking sucked.
5' 9" isn't short wtf. Guys on the internet keep changing the bar for what is short every day.
Yeah I know it isn't short per se. I'm just comparing myself to the average guy who I see with hot girls (also keep in mind I live in Eastern Europe, people here are taller on average than in the USA, I think most guys between 18 and 35 are about 6, 6'1). And I also know it's not the be all end all of it, in fact until I moved to the capital where people are taller on average I had never paid mind to my height. My greatest grievance back than was my face. Then when I also started to get insecure about my height, I started to really feel like a genetic dump.
I'd also like to add that I have been with some hot women who also had great personalities. I am pretty convinced that through social circle there is no limit to what kind of girl I can get. The problem is I work as a lone freelancer so I don't meet many women in natural circumstances.
Post pics of yourself or don't post at all we can't help you unless you do. If you're afraid to just post in members only or just message a moderator like Bad Idea Bear to remove them after you get some solid feedback. I don't regret posting mine because it has helped me tremendously
Hey man we got tall people in the states too.
If you take action to make yourself better looking (gym, diet, clothes), and overcome your anxiety (AA program, professional help if necessary), your self esteem will go way up and you'll be less concerned about your height. I promise.
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I suffered strong insecurities due to things like having an uneven face. I don't care anymore.
The secret is that when you approach you enter a state where you don't care about stuff like that, you exist in the moment and you just "feel" and don't think about stuff like that.
This will develop as you approach a lot of girls. But basically, my secret is to lose myself in the approach to the point that the outside world does not exist for me in that instance. Then I don't care how I look, not in that moment.
Learning to get in that state is the secret. It will take a lot of approaches to get there.
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I didn't think that your exercise and diet advice would have girls checking me out. It did.
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