TOPIC: How to stop being angry and bitter

Before he deleted his thread, Idan (who also lost his virginity late) mention a 40 something player he met who passed for early 30s and was living the dream. Maybe we can be like that guy.

I think you should go out and make friends.

Trust and believe I understand what you're going through 110%. I didn't get laid in high school, all of my other friends, even the short, fat ones with strong beta male tendencies got laid way before I did. (The oldest they lost their virginity was 16, I lost mine at fucking 22, and to a prostitute no less, and I kept paying prostitutes all the way up until I was 29. I'm 30 now btw) On top of this I'm good looking, muscular, have been told by many people throughout my life that I'm well spoken and intelligent, and I like BBW's. Do you have any idea how frustrating it is to like fat girls and feel like you can't get them? And then get constantly rejected when you try?

My advice, be bitter! Be angry! Those sentiments will serve as fuel to get you out of your comfort zone and motivate you to train hard and approach girls. Without that resentment that you're feeling, you would just remain comfortable in your sexless life. On average human beings respond more readily to negative stimuli than positive stimuli. We are genetically programmed to seek pleasure and avoid pain, but our desire to avoid pain is greater than our desire to seek pleasure. Example: shy guy sees hot girl, he avoids talking to her because the thought of rejection is more painful than the thought of actually fucking her is pleasurable. Those feelings you have are a manifestation of pain, that means that the pain you're in/are heading towards is greater/will be greater than the pain of doing what you need to do to change and slay those bitches. Embrace the dark side padawan!

Lastly, what this hopefully means is that since men are usually more mature in their thirties than men in their twenties, you will not only apply smarter efforts into attracting women, but you will hopefully have the maturity to handle the women you attract and not end up acting Beta or getting one pregnant.Men also, assuming they take proper care of themselves, tend to get better looking/more rugged/alpha with age. So you're best years might still be ahead of you, maybe even far ahead if you're lucky. Also think about all the women that might not have even been born yet that you could slay in the next eighteen years if you get your shit together. In today's day and age, with modern medicine, gym culture, and Testosterone Replacement Therapy, there's no telling up to what age a guy who puts in the effort could just keep slaying young pussy.

The fact that you're willing to get jaw surgery is hardcore. I see potential in you. If you're willing to go that far, things like training and approaching should become a breeze.

Added to that, (Racially prejudices assessment forthcoming, you've been warned lol) you're Asian right? I've never seen many fat Asians. LOL. That means that staying/getting lean for you should be made easier thanks to your genetics. According to GLL philosophy, being lean and slightly muscular will get you more chicks than being huge and bulky with no abs/muscle definition and a puffy face. So getting into the proper pussy slaying shape should be right up your alley.

ya, basically only guys were meant to control their own destiny, which is something I don't really like