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So depressed and fed up 29 Mar 2017 15:32 #280949

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I'm really not sure if there's ANYTHING I can do to make myself above average looking. I don't want to believe it but I suspect i may have one of those faces that will NEVER be above average. I absolutely HATE my genetics. They've been the biggest cause of my unhappiness and have even inspired someone to take my life away from me. I'm almost 34 and my twenties are long gone. If I was younger it might not be as bad.

For as long as things stay the way they are I couldn't give a flying one about trying to improve my social skills or overcome my autism. I just want to be at least above average looking and well endowed. You can say whatever you want, I don't give a fuck, it has been proved beyond ANY reasonable doubt that I AM ugly. My life experiences and online photo ratings don't lie and I do NOT have BDD. It is my PHYSICAL GENETICS that are the biggest problem, not my mental disorder and lack of social skills and confidence etc.

It really is quite simple. If I can't both make myself at least above average looking AND increase the size of my penis to something that's at least comfortably sexually adequate with ANY woman (for both of us, regardless of her physical body type), then I will NEVER be happy. If it's not possible to have both these things or even just ONE of them, then there's no point me being alive. Also the older I get, the worse things will get (i'm already going grey and bald as it is at the age of 33).

Here's another photo of me I took today. As you can see I've shaved off my head and facial hair. It's currently in a Photofeeler karma test.



What do you all think ?
Nearly 34 and only been to bed with a woman ONCE in my whole life without paying for it, not sure if I even properly penetrated her and she only pretended to like me for a sick psychopathic laugh while subjecting me to vicious psychological abuse. This laugh has damaged my life mentally AND physically but 2017 will be the year I'm finally set free of her and get my first ever GENUINE free lay, with a LOT more after that !...
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So depressed and fed up 29 Mar 2017 15:57 #280951

First off, the photo is upside down.

Second, if you are so certain that you are so ugly (you're not) why are you even asking this?

Third, if you know what you need to do concentrate on bettering your looks (style, gym ect) and PE why are you not doing that? Before calling quits invest at least couple of years.

Fourth, stop using those rating apps, only bad energy comes from them.

And lastly… you're not ugly. You have no deformaties, you're white, have green (?) eyes… It could be worse. You're good.

Start doing something.
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So depressed and fed up 29 Mar 2017 16:12 #280952

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Governator wrote: First off, the photo is upside down.

Second, if you are so certain that you are so ugly (you're not) why are you even asking this?

Third, if you know what you need to do concentrate on bettering your looks (style, gym ect) and PE why are you not doing that? Before calling quits invest at least couple of years.

Fourth, stop using those rating apps, only bad energy comes from them.

And lastly… you're not ugly. You have no deformaties, you're white, have green (?) eyes… It could be worse. You're good.

Start doing something.


The reason i asked was because I wondered if it was a good photo or not.

I'm not sure if it's worth me bothering going to the gym, losing body fat etc or not. I don't want to do years of hard work for nothing, even more so if I don't even get the desired results.

Be brutally honest, no bullshit, do you REALLY think losing facial fat would improve my facial looks ? Or do you think it would make no difference/make it worse ?
Nearly 34 and only been to bed with a woman ONCE in my whole life without paying for it, not sure if I even properly penetrated her and she only pretended to like me for a sick psychopathic laugh while subjecting me to vicious psychological abuse. This laugh has damaged my life mentally AND physically but 2017 will be the year I'm finally set free of her and get my first ever GENUINE free lay, with a LOT more after that !...
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So depressed and fed up 29 Mar 2017 17:01 #280953

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I was in your shoes, constantly feeling shitty because I knew I was lacking in some aspect. You need to consciously attack those aspects that you're lacking. Unless your face is asymmetrical, with the worst proportions, and deformities, then you're not ugly. If you have problems with your body, then lose fat/workout. If you feel that you have bad skin, find the skin care routine that works for you. If you feel that you're not well-endowed, then look for a pe routine that will help you reach those goals.
I still have these insecurities from time to time, but as I work on them. My confidence goes up and my terrible feelings goes down. All in all, there is a solution to all your problems, you just need to put the work and time in to eradicate these issues and that depressing feeling will solve itself.
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So depressed and fed up 29 Mar 2017 17:47 #280955

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It sounds like you just need to change your thought patterns, your not ugly. You just believe you are.

I got a question: have you been diagnosed with autism by at least two doctors? Because until you have, don't be too sure. I thought I had all kinds of mental issues when I was depressed, nah turns out I was just depressed.

And finally wtf is up with all the pity threads recently? A bunch of guys complaining without taking action and you even said you weren't sure it was worth taking action! Dude start taking action
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So depressed and fed up 29 Mar 2017 17:55 #280956

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unbreakable wrote: It sounds like you just need to change your thought patterns, your not ugly. You just believe you are.

I got a question: have you been diagnosed with autism by at least two doctors? Because until you have, don't be too sure. I thought I had all kinds of mental issues when I was depressed, nah turns out I was just depressed.

And finally wtf is up with all the pity threads recently? A bunch of guys complaining without taking action and you even said you weren't sure it was worth taking action! Dude start taking action


Photofeeler says I'm ugly and that the best I look in any photo so far is "slightly below average" (36% attractiveness). Unlike human beings it doesn't lie.

As for my autism diagnosis I've only been officially diagnosed by one person but he is Professor Digby Tantam, the UK's leading autism professional. Nobody knows what they're talking about more than him when it comes to autism so we can safely say that my diagnosis is 100% valid.
Nearly 34 and only been to bed with a woman ONCE in my whole life without paying for it, not sure if I even properly penetrated her and she only pretended to like me for a sick psychopathic laugh while subjecting me to vicious psychological abuse. This laugh has damaged my life mentally AND physically but 2017 will be the year I'm finally set free of her and get my first ever GENUINE free lay, with a LOT more after that !...
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So depressed and fed up 29 Mar 2017 18:30 #280960

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You're not really ugly.

I imagine your style/physique/swagger game is probably fucked up though. These things are equally as important as your face and can even compensate for a below-average looking face.

Your face isn't below average, though. It's just average.

Start a style log and take full pictures of your body and we'll get you fixed up.
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So depressed and fed up 29 Mar 2017 18:32 #280961

I have friends that are less attractive and heavier than you and do just fine with getting women. Slap on some tap out or something, and you could appear pretty damn masculine with that shaved head. Motivation and confidence are your biggest things to overcome. I am not sure how autism plays into these two things, but there are plenty of women out there that would be happy to give you their time. One thing that always stood out from the book the secret, if YOU cant even love yoursef why would you expect somone else to. You are looking outward for answers that need to come from within. I dont think it would be a bad thing at all to go validation seeking. When I first started pick up shit, girls would give me dirty looks when I'd check them out, but it was really my fault for being so insecure and awkward, I was creepin the bitches out, because I was putting out the wrong vibes. You can start by smiling when a girl sees you, a good ammount of the time they just smile back. Not always, but that because some women are also in the same boat and do not love themselves. After a while you'll realize its all in your head bro.
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So depressed and fed up 29 Mar 2017 19:05 #280964

sexmachineseb wrote:

Governator wrote: First off, the photo is upside down.

Second, if you are so certain that you are so ugly (you're not) why are you even asking this?

Third, if you know what you need to do concentrate on bettering your looks (style, gym ect) and PE why are you not doing that? Before calling quits invest at least couple of years.

Fourth, stop using those rating apps, only bad energy comes from them.

And lastly… you're not ugly. You have no deformaties, you're white, have green (?) eyes… It could be worse. You're good.

Start doing something.


The reason i asked was because I wondered if it was a good photo or not.

I'm not sure if it's worth me bothering going to the gym, losing body fat etc or not. I don't want to do years of hard work for nothing, even more so if I don't even get the desired results.

Be brutally honest, no bullshit, do you REALLY think losing facial fat would improve my facial looks ? Or do you think it would make no difference/make it worse ?


If you wanted to ask about the pic, you should've done,that and spare us the self-pity rant.

To answer that question, pic is bad.

Flat lightning,
Non-flattering angle,
Boring background,
Low quality (blurry),
Doesn't showcase your style/muscle.

Pic is shit, but you are not (don't have to be).

Go to the gym, seriously for 1 year. Tell us then was it a waste of time?
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So depressed and fed up 29 Mar 2017 19:37 #280966

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Rousseau wrote: You're not really ugly.

I imagine your style/physique/swagger game is probably fucked up though. These things are equally as important as your face and can even compensate for a below-average looking face.

Your face isn't below average, though. It's just average.

Start a style log and take full pictures of your body and we'll get you fixed up.


lol rosseau and his pua bullshit, with his game trumps looks bullshit. Go back to RSD you pua bullhshiter.


that right you to could slay from cold approach if your ugly, just have mad game bro and draw state from with :whistle:
GTFO.
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So depressed and fed up 29 Mar 2017 20:53 #280974

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Gret45 wrote:

Rousseau wrote: You're not really ugly.

I imagine your style/physique/swagger game is probably fucked up though. These things are equally as important as your face and can even compensate for a below-average looking face.

Your face isn't below average, though. It's just average.

Start a style log and take full pictures of your body and we'll get you fixed up.


lol rosseau and his pua bullshit, with his game trumps looks bullshit. Go back to RSD you pua bullhshiter.


that right you to could slay from cold approach if your ugly, just have mad game bro and draw state from with :whistle:
GTFO.


Finally someone who gets it !!!!!! IT IS ALL ABOUT LOOKS. Even the ugly guys (who aren't rich/famous) who CAN get laid (due to EXTREMELY good "game"/social skills/chat-up lines and not having autism) are still restricted to RELATIONSHIPS with SUB-FIVE women and don't stand a chance in ANY way with above-average women. They're not the ones who can get one-night stands and FWB's, they can't get even get anything like that with ugly women, unless their penis size makes up for whatever lack of looks they've got.

How privileged you are if you just so happen to be a genetic lottery winner.
Nearly 34 and only been to bed with a woman ONCE in my whole life without paying for it, not sure if I even properly penetrated her and she only pretended to like me for a sick psychopathic laugh while subjecting me to vicious psychological abuse. This laugh has damaged my life mentally AND physically but 2017 will be the year I'm finally set free of her and get my first ever GENUINE free lay, with a LOT more after that !...
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So depressed and fed up 29 Mar 2017 21:14 #280976

Gret45 has been blocked from GLL because his only posts on this site are trolling Rousseau lol. and contributing absolutely nothing but hate.

sexmachinesb:

this is your first warning. Make any more self pity threads and you'll be banned for 5 days.

The purpose of the depression forum is to vent a little, and ask "how can I fix this depression".

If you pose a problem to the community, and then shoot down everyone's attempts to help you, you're seeking attention and not actually trying to solve your problems. People are giving you good advice, but you are showing yourself to be unworthy of their time.

Get started, make a looksmaxing log or approaching log or something. I don't want to see any more threads dedicated to how there's nothing you can do. It is a demonstrable fact that ugly or average looking guys can get laid by improving other aspects of their appearance (yes, FWB situations, not castrated boyfriend relationships).

You are right down the middle. Average face. There's no reason for you to be whining this much.
Thanks for everything you guys. It's time for me to move on to bigger things!

So long, and thanks for all the fish!
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