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downward spiral 20 Mar 2017 03:02 #280179

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until 2 weeks ago i've been going out with a girl (3 times, each time with sex/bj) and i thought things were going great. wasn't needy at all, but just see how things go etc, and she was on the same page. she was even the type of girl who'd update me every time she left/arrived (she's a flight attendant), and would always apologise if she replied late, etc.

so i don't know why she is now blowing me off. i literally did not do anything weird. even showed my last string of messages to her to female friends, and they're equally confused.

i'm irritated also the fact that she's just leaving me on read, even after i asked her directly but politely why she is blowing me off even if we were having a great time (i wasn't even needy or anything in my message, told her i'm totally cool with but was just genuinely wanted to know what went wrong out of curiosity's sake)

i know solution is to talk to more girls etc, but this just happened on the heels of someone catfishing me last night -- i thought i was meeting up with this Aussie chick i've been trying to get out for weeks, went to "her place", and when i was finally there and tried calling her i was arleady blocked-- i was faked

after things like these, i vent my frustration on tinder, social media, and turn to femdom porn and jack off multiple times/day even if i know it makes things worse. i feel it's affecting my studies/competition (midtems week, flying to UK soon for a big debate) and i can't focus anymore
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downward spiral 29 Mar 2017 02:01 #280921

If porn impacts you that much then stop watching it. Easier said then done I know.

Also a million things could have happened with the girl.. perhaps she met a different guy, or realized she wasn't that into you, or maybe her plane crashed.
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downward spiral 29 Mar 2017 03:46 #280925

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This kind of shit happens to all of us.

I remember one time a girl baited me to her house and then when I got there she tried to get me to take off my clothes outside her house as a way to humiliate me. She texted me like "take off your shirt and stand in the middle of the road and Ill let you in."

It was fuckin' weird. I was like "nah" then left. This was during a bad dry spell and depression and I had no one in my life supporting me except for my parents (which is a priviledge, some people don't even have that)


Anyway, whenever a girl ghosts you like that, there's a good chance that you didn't even do anything, but one thing I know for sure is that you asking her in a way that is "not butt-hurt" will always come off as butt-hurt to a girl.

Next time that happens, do not call attention to the fizzling relationship. It dries their pussy up like the Sahara Desert.

Whenever a relationship is fizzling out, accept that it's over and don't text her again. Let it go. Its a lot easier.
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downward spiral 29 Mar 2017 04:29 #280926

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^ Seconding this. Forget about her, go talk to a lot of other girls.

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someone else caught her attention, sociopath girls couldn't care less about leaving you hanging no matter if you were having a good time or were even in a relationship.
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downward spiral 29 Mar 2017 04:50 #280929

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Rousseau wrote: This kind of shit happens to all of us.

I remember one time a girl baited me to her house and then when I got there she tried to get me to take off my clothes outside her house as a way to humiliate me. She texted me like "take off your shirt and stand in the middle of the road and Ill let you in."

It was fuckin' weird. I was like "nah" then left. This was during a bad dry spell and I had no one in my life supporting me except for my parents (which is a priviledge, some people don't even have that)


I honestly don't get how people could go all the trouble in trolling like that (in my case the fake Aussie girl). I'd understand if they were trying to rip money off of me but none of that, so I dunno what they get out of it

Anyway, whenever a girl ghosts you like that, there's a good chance that you didn't even do anything, but one thing I know for sure is that you asking her in a way that is "not butt-hurt" will always come off as butt-hurt to a girl.

Next time that happens, do not call attention to the fizzling relationship. It dries their pussy up like the Sahara Desert.

Whenever a relationship is fizzling out, accept that it's over and don't text her again. Let it go. Its a lot easier.


Thanks for this
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downward spiral 29 Mar 2017 07:15 #280934

You're not on a downward spiral, you just don't have any other options right now.

Think about this, close your eyes and really imagine this in detail: If you had 5 girls who were texting you and into you right now, wanting to hook up with you, how would you feel?

You wouldn't be giving a shit about some weirdo catfishing you, or some dumbass girl ghosting you for whatever reason, because you'd be too busy talking to all the other girls. You wouldn't have time to sit there and ruminate, because you'd be too busy.

So go talk to more girls, use tinder/online dating or talk to girls in person if you're confident enough. Spend time with your bros. Occupy your time.
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downward spiral 29 Mar 2017 08:10 #280937

^Absolutely seconding what Killtheinnerloser said.

Also this:

i'm irritated also the fact that she's just leaving me on read, even after i asked her directly but politely why she is blowing me off even if we were having a great time (i wasn't even needy or anything in my message, told her i'm totally cool with but was just genuinely wanted to know what went wrong out of curiosity's sake)


That's needy as fuck. I don't care how you worded it, asking a girl why she's ignoring you is a gigantic red flag of neediness to all girls. Never do that.

At most you can be like "what's holding you back?" if she doesn't respond to any of your messages for a week.

Personally, I have no idea if you did anything to make this girl bail. However, it's certainly not a "downward spiral". Why would you think that? One girl stops hanging out with you, and you get catfished in online dating? That's called THE GAME, son.

Harden yourself. This shit is emotionally difficult. Worse things than that have happened to me. MANY times. What you described as a downward spiral, I would describe as "an average week in the life of Bad Idea Bear".
Thanks for everything you guys. It's time for me to move on to bigger things!

So long, and thanks for all the fish!
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