TOPIC: situation with depression is desperate and i keep doing Tinder experiments

So I don't usually reply to things on the forum, but this caught my eye.

"i won't date him hes ugly", the fact that i'm brown didn't help too"

You hate yourself because your brown? Or rather that's a part of your self hate? Look man, hating your skin color is like hating your parents, and your parents parents (grandparents) because all you came from them. I know it's common practice to discriminate against brown people and I know that women especially discriminate against brown men, but that's no reason to hate yourself. I guess what I'm trying to say is, you shouldn't hate on your skin color because it isn't going to change any time soon.

And also, it's not every girl that won't date a darker skinned person; it's way healthier to focus on the people who want to be around you then the people who don't. And you look fine based on your pictures, you just gotta learn to accept your face. It may seem like there is one standard of beauty, but there really isn't.

Bro I think your case is a lot similar to the mass killer Elliot Rodger 2 years ago.

He got depressed because he couldn't get women and he blamed it on them eventhough he was a good looking guy. He almost suicide many times and ended up killing many people.

Here's the thing: We don't decide the situation we're going to be put in. Many people in this world are born with perfect genes, talent and charisma while others are not. If we are able to decide how we look, our talent and ability then all of us would be god. Look at your adversity as an opportunity to rise above others. We cannot change the circumstances but we can choose how we react to it.

So you can either keep complaining, keep running your experiment to make yourself more depressed or you can take advantage of the fact that you're at rock bottom which is the biggest drive for you and start taking action to lift yourself up. Don't choose the path like Elliot Rodger.

I'm alone too and I know

Hey. It's sad to see you are revisiting this again. Whether you feel you're ugly or not doesn't really matter (I know it feels like it). Your best choice is to do what you can right now to improve your appearance. That means a few months of dieting, several months of training, improving your style little by little and working on your depression. It won't be easy, but after a year you'll probably look and feel a lot better. And don't forget that sometimes you'll do okay and others you won't. It's an up and down process.

You can do this. You just have to keep working on thing slowly. Emotionally that will be a challenge. Mentally that will be hard. You can do it though. It's not beyond you.

Please try your best.

Stop being a lifeless troll messaging girls with catfish male model profile accounts.

You are pretending to be men who are paid money because they are considered good looking.... it should be no surprise that they have an easy time with online dating. People like you (catfish) also ruin online dating for those guys who still actually use it.

Hit the fucking gym and get jacked.

Hit on girls in person, you will have much better odds (Assuming your doing it properly)

If your jacked, hit on 300 girls and don't have results then hit me up for training.

Until your jacked, have hit on 300 girls while being jacked with swagged out pimp gear you need to STFU and go take action.

Dr3w wrote: You keep talking about meds and as someone who has at least some knowledge/research regarding various antidepressants I would really recommend you to try to get off them(the site has some guides on that as well), EXCEPT Lithium because you also stated that you are bi-polar as well, I can tell you from many articles I've read that many of these meds don't really help some will even increase suicide rates in people that already think about it.
Lastly I can only recommend you look at some of the successes people here had, many of them started over 30 and still managed to get into great shape, got over any anxieties and fuck tons of hot girls, just FORCE yourself to do something productive every day even if it's hard and your mind tries to find reasons why you shouldn't even bother, you will only find success and happiness if you don't listen to your mind during this time.
I really hope your situation improves, but it's in your hand and no one elses.

A bipolar person should never get off meds, specially lithium, for someone who has bipolar and borderline disorder lithium and some antidepressant and some antipsychotic is necessary
Can you make examples of some people that started over 30 and managed to bang a lot of girls without great facial aesthetics?

FS-Ronin wrote: Stop being a lifeless troll messaging girls with catfish male model profile accounts.
You are pretending to be men who are paid money because they are considered good looking.... it should be no surprise that they have an easy time with online dating. People like you (catfish) also ruin online dating for those guys who still actually use it.
.

Sorry for my english, i'm not american. I don't do it to be a lifeless troll but to see what woman really want. I grew up being rejected by every girl i asked out, i grew up thinking that maybe woman don't like sex as much as man do, maybe my approach is wrong, maybe i should've said that instead of that

That when my teen years were over i started to realize that i was being rejected for my genetics, my facial aesthetics

Most people don't realize that, admitting that it's all about appearance is a taboo subject for most people, just like admitting that race counts in dating and that brown, black and asians are considered less attractive

woman want sex as much as man, maybe even more, they don't even like romantic stuff they like sex, but they like it with good looking guys, thats why if you're not goodlooking you will have the impression that woman are sexless; it's not that they are really sexless, they're sexless with man who has not so great facial aesthetics

I found this american girl in tinder, she's black but she obviously likes handsome white man, i asked her for sex, she said that people in america ask for dates not for sex, but then she gave me her number anyway

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Sometimes i try to understand what woman go for, so i ask them if they met someone they like, most woman say, they found all man in tinder to be unattractive except me, i have 40 matches, i recently asked this fugly 37 years old if she found someone else to be attractive in Tinder
She told she's been on Tinder for over 3 WEEKS and i'm the first one she finds attractive and that she finds other guys to be uninteresting.
She's not even attractive, shes a 37 yo who looks like a 43 yo and she has very very high standards
she wanted to come in my house to have sex, never never had something like that happen to me and certainly would never happen if i put my real pic

This guy can have all the sex he wants, but all matches are from average to unattractive, no attractive girls

This guy can have sex with one different woman every day, probably he gets approached every fucking day

I'm 28 yo and I've been approached only two times by woman who wanted to have sex with, a 37 yo barmaid and a 23 yo student who invited me in her dorm to have sex, they were both average, not attractive or beautifull, this guy probably gets approached by hot chicks every single day of his life

I find it hard to deal with this facts, i have less value as a man compared to attractive man, in fact i have no value at all because woman want nothing to do with me. The only way to get noticed is to provide value by being a good friend or a good listener, even in that case they will see me as a good friend not as a good fuck, which is what i want

Hi Thrice, sorry to hear about your struggle with depression. I have suffered also with this during some times of life.

Its true that women are attracted to good looking guys, same as men are attracted to attractive good looking women. The pictures of the model you posted are pictures of a ridiculously good looking guy with professional taken photographs.

I mean lets make no bones about it, that guy is sexy. Few people here or in the world are ever going to be as attractive as that beautiful beautiful man. He is not your competition. He can prob get laid at will and gets approached all the time, yes. But 99 percent of men can't and don't.

Thrice wrote: you can't just fix mood disorders, you have to live with them,

Then get ripped.

Thrice wrote: depression is keeping me from going to the gym because i think my face is ugly so i will be able to have the girls i desire in my life even if i get ripped

Depression isn't keeping you out of the gym, you are. Tons of depressed guys out there taking it out on the weights to improve their condition. Take responsibility for your own actions.

I know this isn't what you want to hear. You want somebody to pat you on the head and tell you it's all gonna be alright. But it's not. Your life is just gonna get worse and worse until it's so miserable you'll either follow through with your suicidal thoughts or completely change your life.

Sounds scary? It is, and it's the cold hard truth. I suggest you think about that. Which path you choose is all up to you.

As I said, you have my empathy, because I know exactly what you're going through. But you do not have my pity, because you do not deserve it. You are well and capable of changing yourself.

By the way, I have never been approached by a chick who wanted to have sex with me. Yet I have fucked 30 chicks in 2.5 years.

Remember that stimulation is the opposite depression. In order of increasing difficulty, and also in order of stimulative power, you can use the following three simple fixes to alleviate depression immediately

1. caffeine - makes you feel better for a few hours
2. intense physical exercise - makes you feel better for about a day
3. hit on girls IN PERSON - makes you feel better for up to a week

The latter two, if used correctly, can also be part of a long term solution

chilled wrote: Hi Thrice, sorry to hear about your struggle with depression. I have suffered also with this during some times of life.

Its true that women are attracted to good looking guys, same as men are attracted to attractive good looking women. The pictures of the model you posted are pictures of a ridiculously good looking guy with professional taken photographs.

I mean lets make no bones about it, that guy is sexy. Few people here or in the world are ever going to be as attractive as that beautiful beautiful man. He is not your competition. He can prob get laid at will and gets approached all the time, yes. But 99 percent of men can't and don't.

Yes thats the sad truth mate, thats what people don't like to talk about. The truth is that that man is what woman really want, some women settle for less attractive man because they think they can't get attractive man like this, but they will dream of this kind of man, your wife, your sister, your mum would cheat on you if given the possibility tu fuck man like this

Hey man, I can see you're having a hard time, but you're just saying the same thing over and over again!

Yes, girls are attracted to your looks! What website do you think you're on? We ALL acknowledge this here. No one's saying it doesn't matter. And yes, if you were dating a girl and a much more attractive guy took an interest in her, she might go have sex with him. Can you really say you wouldn't do the exact same thing? If you were dating a 7 and a 10 came along and tried to fuck you, you'd probably break up with or cheat on your girlfriend. That's why people tend to pair up with others who are on or near their level. There is a balance.

Most importantly, you have the attitude of "if I'm not the hottest guy, there's no point in even trying". Just because there are other guys that are more attractive than you doesn't mean you can't have an awesome sex life.

Dude my face isn't any more attractive than yours, and because I've been hitting on lots of girls I literally have more options than I can even handle. You KNOW that your face becomes MANY time more attractive when you get to a low bodyfat, right? That information is posted all over this website so I have to assume you've seen it. Keep cutting fat and you may discover your face looks incredible at low bodyfat levels. You literally don't know until you try.

Second, having a sick body is all you need for a lot of girls. If you get shredded there's no way you won't be getting laid left and right.

And if you're really that concerned about your future girlfriend sleeping with other guys, just do what I do and only have open relationships! Ya can't get cheated on if you never promise monogamy in the first place. It's a great system, you can fuck whoever you want, and they can fuck whoever they want. You won't care/be jealous because you'll be too distracted by how much pussy you're getting.

You've posted enough about this and repeated yourself enough times. We know looks matter, so why don't you go max out your looks at get laid? The alternative is to continue to be unhappy and just live the rest of your life miserable and sexless. The choice is yours!

GoHard247 wrote:

STFU FAGGOT

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