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Coming from a giant fucking pussy that was fat and filled with low self esteem, this shit is dead on. I just watched your youtube video on this subject which is fucking spot on....
One thing I never here many people talk about but IMO is one of the MOST IMPORTANT THINGS in life overall but especially when you are trying to better yourself in any aspect is this something my dad told me when I was a kid. I never understood it until I reach my mid/late 20's, but he would tell me "You can only piss with the dick your given....".
Don't spend your life worrying about trying to "keep up" with others or trying to be like someone else... I lived 20 something years of my life doing this. One day it clicked and I can't remember the exact moment. Long story short is this guy I went to high school with was super popular, crazy good football player, juicing in high school so looked like a freak when at that age fighting is "cool" many think, the kid had a brand new Firehawk and a Dodge Durango R/T (super through backs for you young kids), the parents who let him have parties where kids could drink in his giant fucking house, and he just smashed pussy non stop while everyone just wanted to be near him like he was some fucking magic genie... Life is all about learning and you learn best from experience whether it be good or bad. Fast forward from high school to let say when I was around 24-26. I love "supercars" and exotic sports cars always have always will... When I was obsessed with the gym and juicing stupid amounts of gear (thousands of dollars a month) to be just FUCKING HUGE why? I first wanted to get in shape which manifested into I wanted to be huge and lean to make panties melt... Sitting in my 2000 red civic SI bone stock with only 24,000 something original miles and clean as fuck sitting in the gym chugging my No-Explode I see a 2008 Black with the 1 red strip offset Dodge Viper ACR edition. Guess who is driving it....? At first in my head I kept getting making up these things such as the dude probably leased it, he probably living in a fucking $400 studio apartment and parks it outside, and so on... It was jealously in disguise. That pissed me off because how the fuck did this mentally braindead dude get that car? It ate at me for a few months... Fast forward a few months and its like 2 am I'm at wal mart buying like 6 pounds of chicken to go home and eat with mustard to "be even bigger"... walking out to my car I hear the sound of a race car and then slowly creeping into the parking lot is....
A 2008 Lamborghini Murcielago LP640 all black "murdered out" (this car CURRENTLY is worth around $175-210,000). I live in the Kansas City metro area which has some pockets of MONEY but Ive lived in Huntington beach, Newport beach, Chicago, and places where you see exotic cars often. The midwest people consider a base model Corvette a fucking "exotic" but back to the long ass story now it was this same dude. He pulled up and parked right next to me... I used to sell him herb and other shit in high school so there was no tension yet I didn't hang out with him other than at parties.
Standing there next to what I thought was a fucking cool ass car (my rare jdm civic) is this mother fucker and I didn't know what to say or do just stared. The doors open up straight in the air and theres Brian with some badass ass looking fucking bitch... Instantly I was embarrassed and self esteem (what little I had) as shattered. Dude wasn't some bodybuilder or huge looking anymore just lean an clean cut says "what's up to me".... Besides feeling like a fucking little bitch who was jealous not much man lol.. All these thoughts and jealousy in my head made me hate the dude all those years which grew even more just seeing him in that viper but he shook my hand and didn't even mention a thing about his fucking car completely threw me off guard and was actually being fucking down to earth... I let my guard down then I brought up the car and we talked for a good 30 minutes while his dumb hot bitch stood there like a good pet. Once we started talking I learned he how he made his money and we talked about exotic cars like only a car lover would. After like 30 minutes he said lets go and handed me the key to this fucking nasty machine... I tried to say no even though I really wanted to but he insisted and his ass was already ducking down getting in the passenger seat.
That was the day I realized, "you can only pissed with the dick you were given..". No matter if you have shitty genetics you can still work out if your dedicated while you may not look like a fucking freak you can still look good within what is possible... but the bigger take away is "idea's" or goals you have don't have limits! If you put your mind to it and become obsessed shit will fucking fall into place after you fail many fucking times. The important thing is you NEVER GIVE UP and YOU NEVER COMPARE YOURSELF TO ANYONE ELSE as life isn't a fucking race... it's a journey. Whatever makes me happy won't make other people happy.....DO YOU AND LIVE LIFE ON YOUR TERMS!
That was the day I grew a set of fucking balls turning into a fucking Beast and hit 182 mph on the highway of this guy's car enjoying being able to share the experience to rape this machine to a stranger..... I was jealous of him for so long while he was DOING HIM not giving a fuck about anyone else. That is why he had a lambo, made/makes stupid money, and has bitches wait for him in a dark Wal-Mart parking lot at 2-3 am while he lets a someone enjoy the experience 99% of people will never be able to do on their own... Drive a fucking lambo like a mad man....
This "douchebag" who I was so jealous of is/has been my best friend for many few years now. The type of "friend" that will bail you out of jail or jump in a fight when your getting your ass stomped by 5 dudes... Life is a trip... Enjoy it while your alive my friends....
"I put the bubbles in the tub so I can take a bubble bath!"
Golden advice as always... Hit the nail right on the head. If I had average/high self esteem, I never would have picked up a weight and probably never would have started the aa program, or had the motivation to do this shit.
^^^^ Beastmode, that's a crazy story. I live in a pretty wealthy area and 6 months ago I was driving to the mall when I saw in my rear view mirror a bright orange Lamborghini or Ferrari supercar (not much of a car guy, so I don't really know which). I was at a red light and the lane to the left of me was open, and this car pulled in there. I see this fucking kid who looks no older than I was and in the passenger seat next to him is a fucking stupid/retarded hot blonde girl (easily a 10, at least from what I could see of her sitting down). God damn I was filled with the most insane jealousy/rage I've ever felt in my entire fucking life. I remember thinking exactly like you, "that fucking little spoiled shit probably rented that car for a day to impress that girl.... or he was given it by daddy"
I realize that isn't a healthy attitude, so I've tried to use that event as serious motivation for my goals.
On a side note, what did/does your buddy Brian do for money?
Life's purpose is growth
Life always moves
Your thoughts are the most powerful thing on this planet... mind your mind!
I know man... I know... The lifestyle I live and have choose allows me to have some nice toys as that honestly makes me as happy as I know how to be... Ive been in a fucked up marriage for ALL the wrong reasons young and dumb which glad that shit is behind me. Honestly I don't have anything against children but I have never wanted kids in my life period call me selfish but its my life and I know am on the opposite site of the spectrum... All of my cars are "nice" which I don't say that to brag nor do I care to mention what models they are because its like when you have a big dick you don't need to tell others about your dick all the time... YOU KNOW YOU GOT IT! lol
One of my "dream" cars I don't baby I legit road race not for money but I belong to the SCCA and its crazy to think I'm throwing around this expensive ass car made for spec racing when I used to watch videos of them online overnight before bed imagining just driving it on the streets. Driving a "supercar" or any car over $100k+ is going to get you a lot of what I call "silent hate". Pulling up to a red light wearing gym shorts and freeballing it with a t shirt not giving a fuck and some fat dude my age driving a silver minivan with 6 kids in the back screaming as the smell of old french fries wafts from his cracked window... the look in those peoples eyes is sad man. I am not better than them or saying anything like that all I have going for me is when I start something I don't know how to stop. I am not book smart at all but life all about trying things outside of your computer zone that you want or are goals then going for them never stopping. It's just sad that so many people "die at 25 but aren't buried until they are 60"....
My friend Brian started out as a real estate agent... Just went to a community college to obtain his license which he started before the housing boom when shit was really popping so got in a good time. Brian is like myself, he might be dumb as fuck when it comes to books but "street smarts" or black/white how shit works he excels like myself. Before the market crashed he was already things 10 steps ahead. As I said in Kansas City there is some hotspots with stupid money he found his niche and in this town which called "Mission Hills" where there is tons of old money. Again for the midwest a $2-8 million dollar home would cost triple or quadruple that in places like So Cal but he started grinding his ass off playing the bullshit role of playing golf which he fucking hates but with rich fucks to doing all the bullshit wealthy people do like aged wine and eat exotic cheese... lol its funny as fuck because he's like yo these people are fucking phoney as fuck but hey pays the bills. He pretty much dominates the real estate market in the wealthy old money hotspot part of his success was from being popular in high school he knows/knew a lot of people and his shit took off...
He doesn't stay in KC full time he actually makes majority of his money in mobile home parks. Yes, trailer home parks in rural small communities he's a master at finding them and he doesn't buy trailer homes... He buys the "trailer park" aka the land where there is a slab of concrete with your electric hook up, water hook up, and sewer. So he is in "real estate" earning passive income from basically land charging anywhere from $200-600 a month for a lot fee monthly but people buy or bring their own trailers.... he lets the property manager that overlooks each one of his parks live for free on their lot plus a TINY salary while they do all the bullshit while he collects the passive income and searches for the next one... It's actually a pretty sweet idea and a lot of trailer parks have that instant "ghetto" or "trashy" vibe people think but there is a lot of fucking americans that live in trailer parks which that negative vibe turns away attention which he targets older people who have ran the park for like 20 years that are looking to retire and does cash deals which is leaves no many people to compete with on bidding wars...
Some people will read this and think getting into the "mobile home park" business is ghetto or stupid but I bet you wouldn't think that when you see a 29 year old dude in a rolls royce phantom that HE CAN AFFORD as that car compared to his income would be like the typical american driving a chevy impala....
"I put the bubbles in the tub so I can take a bubble bath!"
I think I needed this. I've always been a complete loser that lets everyone push him around and now my life is shit because of it. The only thing that ever motivates me is anger but i'm so much of a pussy I have to be mad to the point of "crazed lunatic" to actually accomplish anything is this normal? Is this healthy?
Anyone else see guys like Bryan (or Dan Bilzerian) and wonder if they ever really had a chance? I mean, I don't hate them, all the alphas I meet are really smart and never try to drag me down and I can see why women like them, but damn
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himmelstoss wrote: Anyone else see guys like Bryan (or Dan Bilzerian) and wonder if they ever really had a chance? I mean, I don't hate them, all the alphas I meet are really smart and never try to drag me down and I can see why women like them, but damn
what do you mean
Dan (I know him personally - acquaint. from college) always had a ton of money.
There's plenty of girls for everyone
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