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How to develop interest in this stuff? 25 Nov 2015 17:45 #229955

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I have to admit, I envy you. I too want my goal to be to get laid and stuff, fuck girls and so on. Seems like a nice, easily fullfillable life. But I'm just not interested. It's not even a motivation thing, like for example other guys are comfortable with watching porn and don't care about going out, but I don't even watch porn, I'm just not interested in sex at all.
I want to be at world level in something, be known, be influential. It's impossible, especially because of my shit situation. Being a regular guy who just wants to get laid seems like a happier alternative, but how can I start desiring it?

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How to develop interest in this stuff? 25 Nov 2015 17:55 #229957

pidarsuka wrote: I have to admit, I envy you. I too want my goal to be to get laid and stuff, fuck girls and so on. Seems like a nice, easily fullfillable life. But I'm just not interested. It's not even a motivation thing, like for example other guys are comfortable with watching porn and don't care about going out, but I don't even watch porn, I'm just not interested in sex at all.
I want to be at world level in something, be known, be influential. It's impossible, especially because of my shit situation. Being a regular guy who just wants to get laid seems like a happier alternative, but how can I start desiring it?


Just make goals for yourself and slowly change yourself into what you want to be. Easier said then done. But only you have the power to make your mind want something that is currently doesn't desire.

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How to develop interest in this stuff? 26 Nov 2015 04:39 #230041

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What should be my first step to develop interest in this stuff?

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How to develop interest in this stuff? 26 Nov 2015 04:57 #230045

Write out a list and start off with what you feel will be the easiest thing to accomplish first. Find out what you like and what you are attracted to.

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How to develop interest in this stuff? 27 Nov 2015 04:37 #230174

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OK, what do you think about this.
*Stop reading about science, politics, religion, occult
*Start watching porn and masturbating
*Watch some romantic movies

I honestly don't know what to do, is this good?

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How to develop interest in this stuff? 27 Nov 2015 15:52 #230238

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Any other advice? Is this even good?
What do you guys do during the day?

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How to develop interest in this stuff? 27 Nov 2015 16:03 #230240

pidarsuka wrote: OK, what do you think about this.
*Stop reading about science, politics, religion, occult
*Start watching porn and masturbating
*Watch some romantic movies

I honestly don't know what to do, is this good?


Hey that is def a start. And start trying to socialize with more female. Even just randomly complimenting strangers when you are out in public places. More interaction you get with females the more you will want to try and improve that area of your life.

And even when I was still single I still invested time into the things I loved like Science and Politics. As well as my music career. But yeah still stay interested in things that make you happy. Just expand upon yourself and make yourself a more well rounded person in all area of your life.

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How to develop interest in this stuff? 27 Nov 2015 21:10 #230282

I have some ideas

-Read "It's Not All About Me" by Robin Dreeke
  • It's a book by an FBI interrogator of 15 years about how to connect with people
-Take a once a week class that has guys and girls in it
  • Dance, coed sport, improv comedy class, crossfit, something like that
-Stop reading all the stuff you mentioned
  • This one is super important, and you already identified it. When you read pessimistic shit all day long: surprise! it makes you feels shitty.
Thanks for everything you guys. It's time for me to move on to bigger things!

So long, and thanks for all the fish!

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How to develop interest in this stuff? 27 Nov 2015 21:38 #230287

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I will add that in your situation...Do not masturbate to porn. Just maybe take a look at some basic stuff to peak your interest. Jerk off in your own to your own thoughts. You don't want to over fantasize then when you get to fucking a normal girl you aren't even semi aroused after jerking off to what kind of porn you like.
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How to develop interest in this stuff? 27 Nov 2015 22:25 #230291

Have you tried not jerking off at all? Because I feel like if you did that you would have no choice but to try and get laid... On that path its either get laid or let your balls swell up to the point where you can't walk anymore and then you get prostate cancer
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How to develop interest in this stuff? 28 Nov 2015 08:37 #230358

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Hunk wrote: Have you tried not jerking off at all? Because I feel like if you did that you would have no choice but to try and get laid... On that path its either get laid or let your balls swell up to the point where you can't walk anymore and then you get prostate cancer


That's the thing, I don't, or do it very rarely and I don't even know why. Haven't jerked off this month.
I'm on juice, so my balls don't produce semen.

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How to develop interest in this stuff? 16 Dec 2015 17:52 #232434

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You just listen to guys of the forum. They are pro in it.
And learn it throught, put maximum efforts - that's it.

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