TOPIC: Making up for lost time at almost 40

Mr. Q wrote:

WishIWasASaiyan wrote: Well this thread just makes me depressed and bitter because it reminds me on how I missed out on having a girlfriend in my late teens and early 20's, and I hate it whenever people say to us guys that its never too late to get a girlfriend, pisses me off so much that it makes me feel like punching a man's lights out

Go cry to your mama.

The past is the past.

Focus on the PRESENT.

I will admit, there are times I feel like beating up a homeless man because of how much I hate, despise, loathe, detest having to take responsibility in life

WishIWasASaiyan wrote:

Mr. Q wrote:

WishIWasASaiyan wrote: Well this thread just makes me depressed and bitter because it reminds me on how I missed out on having a girlfriend in my late teens and early 20's, and I hate it whenever people say to us guys that its never too late to get a girlfriend, pisses me off so much that it makes me feel like punching a man's lights out

Go cry to your mama.

The past is the past.

Focus on the PRESENT.

I will admit, there are times I feel like beating up a homeless man because of how much I hate, despise, loathe, detest having to take responsibility in life

Man what has made you so angry and bitter about your life man. You do realize that the more you focus on the anger, bitterness and depression the more of that you will see in your life.

Honestly are you even taking steps toward making a better life today and being greatful for the life you have today. Its no one else's fault and we get that and trust me many of us feel the same way.

But we wouldn't even be here if Chris had your attitude. Instead he chose to take responsibility and change his life thus now he is able to share his experiencs and help other men.

You act like your some old man or something, your only in your 30s correct? Shoot man I could be bitter and angry that I had an obsession with porn for more then half of my life, missed out on cool pretty popular girls in highschool, sexy fun high sociecomic girls and sorority sluts in college, but I'm not. Instead I'm utilizing that energy to never watch porn or fap again and to pursue real women. I know eventually I will reach my goal because I have made a"decision"

Step up Man I want to see you do great and claim your right to sexy vagina, its our right to ultimately have fulfilling relationships with woman but until that occurs at least "know" that you can get laid for yourself.

Are you going to keep focusing on what you missed, or are you going g to create what you want. The enviorments will be different yes, BUT THE RESULTS and who you become as a man will be different<

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I find the latter to be preferred. I hope one of these days you do too.

Let those bullies of your past motivate you to be a winner. Everyday that you blame them for your social skills etc, you keep allowing them to win thus keeping you in bondage.

You(I and we) were born and endowed with the seeds of greatness. Once we realize it we can then use it and release it. The fact that your on GLL after years of BS proves that your in line for greatness, Imagine how many guys are worse off and begging desperately for something like this. We have this wonderful resource in the palm of our hands. Think about it!!!!!

ChukiC wrote:

WishIWasASaiyan wrote:

Mr. Q wrote:

WishIWasASaiyan wrote: Well this thread just makes me depressed and bitter because it reminds me on how I missed out on having a girlfriend in my late teens and early 20's, and I hate it whenever people say to us guys that its never too late to get a girlfriend, pisses me off so much that it makes me feel like punching a man's lights out

Go cry to your mama.

The past is the past.

Focus on the PRESENT.

I will admit, there are times I feel like beating up a homeless man because of how much I hate, despise, loathe, detest having to take responsibility in life

Man what has made you so angry and bitter about your life man. You do realize that the more you focus on the anger, bitterness and depression the more of that you will see in your life.

Honestly are you even taking steps toward making a better life today and being greatful for the life you have today. Its no one else's fault and we get that and trust me many of us feel the same way.

But we wouldn't even be here if Chris had your attitude. Instead he chose to take responsibility and change his life thus now he is able to share his experiencs and help other men.

You act like your some old man or something, your only in your 30s correct? Shoot man I could be bitter and angry that I had an obsession with porn for more then half of my life, missed out on cool pretty popular girls in highschool, sexy fun high sociecomic girls and sorority sluts in college, but I'm not. Instead I'm utilizing that energy to never watch porn or fap again and to pursue real women. I know eventually I will reach my goal because I have made a"decision"

Step up Man I want to see you do great and claim your right to sexy vagina, its our right to ultimately have fulfilling relationships with woman but until that occurs at least "know" that you can get laid for yourself.

Are you going to keep focusing on what you missed, or are you going g to create what you want. The enviorments will be different yes, BUT THE RESULTS and who you become as a man will be different<

---

I find the latter to be preferred. I hope one of these days you do too.

Let those bullies of your past motivate you to be a winner. Everyday that you blame them for your social skills etc, you keep allowing them to win thus keeping you in bondage.

You(I and we) were born and endowed with the seeds of greatness. Once we realize it we can then use it and release it. The fact that your on GLL after years of BS proves that your in line for greatness, Imagine how many guys are worse off and begging desperately for something like this. We have this wonderful resource in the palm of our hands. Think about it!!!!!

no i'm 27, almost 28, I guess that's one reason why I feel like violently exploding, and beating up a homeless man, even though obviously it wasn't his fault, but there are times I feel like I gotta physically hurt someone when i'm having a bad, shitty day, whenever life, reality gets tough, unfair, and on how I hate, despise, loathe, on how god damn aggressive and assertive, being a leader, taking the lead, us guys are expected to be in life, reality, on how much god damn responsibility is placed on your shoulders if you are a guy.

WishIWasASaiyan wrote:
no i'm 27, almost 28, I guess that's one reason why I feel like violently exploding, and beating up a homeless man, even though obviously it wasn't his fault, but there are times I feel like I gotta physically hurt someone when i'm having a bad, shitty day, whenever life, reality gets tough, unfair, and on how I hate, despise, loathe, on how god damn aggressive and assertive, being a leader, taking the lead, us guys are expected to be in life, reality, on how much god damn responsibility is placed on your shoulders if you are a guy.

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Sounds like MMA could be useful for you. I just turned 27 so i understand, but thats the good news we still have some of our 20s left, why not make the best of them. We can't afford to be overly comfortable anymore. It's time to put up or shut up. Most of the women i "missed out on" either have babies, are in serious relationships, or about to get married, the mental masturbation of what could of been is pointless.....Least my 2 cents for what it's worth


Now is the time, BTW a side point but which "Saiyan" do you wish you we're If i were to guess i'd say vegeta?

ChukiC wrote:

WishIWasASaiyan wrote:
no i'm 27, almost 28, I guess that's one reason why I feel like violently exploding, and beating up a homeless man, even though obviously it wasn't his fault, but there are times I feel like I gotta physically hurt someone when i'm having a bad, shitty day, whenever life, reality gets tough, unfair, and on how I hate, despise, loathe, on how god damn aggressive and assertive, being a leader, taking the lead, us guys are expected to be in life, reality, on how much god damn responsibility is placed on your shoulders if you are a guy.

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Sounds like MMA could be useful for you. I just turned 27 so i understand, but thats the good news we still have some of our 20s left, why not make the best of them. We can't afford to be overly comfortable anymore. It's time to put up or shut up. Most of the women i "missed out on" either have babies, are in serious relationships, or about to get married, the mental masturbation of what could of been is pointless.....Least my 2 cents for what it's worth


Now is the time, BTW a side point but which "Saiyan" do you wish you we're If i were to guess i'd say vegeta?

Yes Vegeta, because then I know I would naturally, instinctively, innately, automatically be an an aggressive, dominant, take-charge Alpha Male, if I was him I would completely be void of any passive energy in me, but nope since i'm a human, I have to work for it, that's why I believe in the phrase, quote "Women are Born, Men are Made"