TOPIC: Not Sure What To Do.

I realized something not that long ago and here it is.

I wasn't always the super shy type, and wasn't always the guy who strayed away from social events. Hell if anything I was the guy who wanted to go out meet new people, make new friends, meet and hook up with all kinds of hot girls. Then some things happened over the course of my teenage/young adult life. I don't know if it was getting my license late, living with a strict mother, or being pressured into attending college and not having the time to really look deep within and fix myself. Low and behold and before you know it I am 24, just graduated, working towards, but I am still a virgin.

Y'all are probably thinking "Bro, you should be happy, working towards your career in music, celebrating, meeting hot girls, fucking them, and the whole nine!" Trust me I know! For some reason or another there is this voice in my head telling me to not enjoy life, or do any of those things. Whether it be not having enough money, or back living with my dad, I don't think that's it. It's a little more deeper than that, problem is I don't quite know what it is.

Aren't all of us on here to be the best version of ourselves? To boost our self esteem? Be THE MAN around women? Well I want that as well, and until I figure out what in the actual fuck is wrong with me, I'm gonna be like Steve Carrell's character in 40 Year Old Virgin and believe I think none of us want that for me or anybody. If any of you guys know anybody, anything or you yourself could give me a helping hand, I would deeply appreciate it. I never do this on forums but I'm starting to lose hope, and frankly I don't know where else to go.

Please help

You gotta quit being so hard on yourself, it seems like you have this expectation of who you should be now and simultaneously you are very aware that you aren't there yet. My advice to you would be to stop beating yourself up over it; stop trying to be superman and start just trying to better than yesterday. Like in lifting you don't (shouldn't) go to the gym the first time and try to lift like Arnold, you go and you keep going and no matter what your max is for an exercise you always try to lift a little bit more the next day. Before you know it you're where you wanna be, or atleast closer.

Try making a list of goals for yourself and tackle them one at a time. They can include getting in shape, furthering your career, getting laid, etc... I think that the first two goals will help give you the confidence you need to approach women, but if you really want you can always try online dating or hit on lots of girls. Just remember that it's a numbers game!
I'd also recommend seeing a therapist as regularly as you can to help work out any specific problem areas in your life, it helps a lot trust me. Just make sure to find one who you like.
Good luck!