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BAHAHAHAHA. sent mass text to several girls who never replied to me, girl finally texts im an idiot who sent this to multiple girls. As in my text app let every girl know i sent a mass text! LOL im still laughing my ass off.
Hit on a handful of chicks today, things going ok. No pheninut lately, havent wxperienced any withdrawal. So i know the haters are wrong.
Other things to talm about i have a good aduio ill post here with a girl i picked up. Later
Chris has legit experience. I dont buy into his "looks" dogma anymore but his material is pretty good, especially for "beating negativity."
Negativity is not repulsive to women. Anger can be veey attractive. Even emotions like sadness.
It's the insecure, powerless mindset that is unnattracfive. Men proliferate this mindset when they jack off or spend time on internet forums asking for advice.
The internet is a powerful catalyst in the increase of depression and undesirable male characteristics. But even without it the holding back of one's self--passively catering to thise who simply are more self-possessed--would still be a "problem" among young men--in othwr words, being "beta."
I've noticed an increasing amount of political involvement in the "manosphere" and im done with it. I dont want to get involved. I think "RooshV" in particular is deluded in many ofhis conclusions. His mindset of defeatism is readily apparent for all to see.
The real problem men in these pua circlejerks are facing is CONDITIONING.
In other words, some men dubbed "naturals" developed a women-positive mindset, for WHATEVER reasons, at a young age, before mutipliers of negative reinforcement turned them into sniveling unsure nicd guys. And this is not a new phenomenon.
This is how its been throughout history--weak and strong men.
Nothing has really changed, except that information is accesible through the net.
But is that information knowledge??
What i have found is that being a slave to the doctrines and materials of internet personalities haa drained me of the ability to BE MY OWN MAN.
Many internet "communities" or forums actually resemble cults, with the reigning "alpha" at the top.
If you want success with women there is no easy path. You either had 20 years of positive conditioning or not.
Undoing 20 years of bad programming is harsh. Most wont ever do it. Im guilty of having a rough time myself. But no amount of looking good and working hard can compensate for mindset.
I use this buzzword on purpose. There are better words i can use but its one you all will resonate with.
"Game" is misunderstood by chris. Game is not all being funny and spitting lines.
There is a very real component of confidence that is far more important than even looks. I would know.
Chris is "lucky" to have developed the right mkndset. Its not his words or game that works.
The formula is NOT as simple as "look good and talk to girls."
Every night i see good looking guys with no charisma, who women ignore. Thats been me at times.
Ive made a huge mistake in thinking it was all about looks and numbers. That is not just simplified, but wrong. It leaves out the crucial, most important element of male confidence that actually attracts women.
You may not see this but my eyes are open. I suspect some of you ugly guys have taken phenibut for example and had great attraction to women.
This drug is like a confidence drug, as long as you dont bring a ton if bad energy in and have a bad trip. Its a perfect EXAMPLE of the massive mistake men make by buying into the "looks is king" argument.
Looks helps. Thats it. It does not make you radiantly attractive to women. It will not keep them around.
Take it from a damaged boy who was tired of being a victim who had to learn all of this the hard way.
Being a "natural" is not so difficult. Just know that its the haters (oversimplifying betas) who pretend its all about looks.
Even chris admits there is much more, with abstract terms like "swag factor" and "coolness."
I laugh that i ever thought "1 in 100" women was acceptable odds.
If those are your odds youre doing something "wrong." or at least you are MISSING something right.
There is a big reason Chris et. All admit that you get much better with women the more you sleep with them. Its not just a numbers game. What a mistake to make.
Arguably this fallacy can HURT your game. Take it from me. Go back and read this very thread.
I feel tricked, but nobody tricked me. I tricked myself.
This is a warning for all struggling betas put there: it shouldn't be such a struggle. Stop asking for help with every piddly thing, stop giving dogmatic advice when you know nothing, stop pretending the current feminism climate is holding you back, and stop believing that genetically superior men will always do better with women than you.
Chances are these men dont exist, or if they do they are not out of your reach.
Why you have the need of writing this long ass mental resolutions? This is only useless mindfuck. Someone who is actively moving his ass to achieve REAL things won't have time to write this. Someone who does not will. This won't help you.
And of course if you are mentally fucked up, good looks and numbers won't save you.
lets see...since last post
got 4 numbers had a girl basically pick me up, 10 approaches today no numbers went horribly
very bizarre today, these kind of offdays frustrate me.
havent taken phenibut in a while
i think ive proven beyond a shadow of a doubt (to myself at least) that the drug has zero to do with any of my perceived problems
in fact i think im doing just fine chris went through shit everybody does. this stuff aint easy if youre a "late bloomer" i.e. you only start cold approach in your 20s lol.
THATS 20 YEARS OF SOCIAL CONDITIONING TO UNDO
i feel proud of myself for all i have accomplished.
edit: could a mod rename this thread to "Phenibut God's Journal" and move it to the appropriate section, please....
The number one quality of a beta is his self-righteous posing.
They usually lie about wanting sex and even if they dont lie they make excuses. Sour grapes.
Common beta excuses:
"I dont need to approach to get laid."
"Being nervous around women is normal and I dont do the AA program."
"Im just out to have fun."
"Its just a bunch of meaningless sex."
"Get paid and the women will come."
"She was with her friends and i didnt want to bother her."
"The bars not crowded enough lets leave."
"I dont want to talk to a pretty girl and get kicked out of the bar and my peepee is too small and i still care what everbody thinks even though im 30 years old oh no oh no what if i get in twubble?!!"
Welcome to the phenibutgods latest and possibly last post.
Since my last entry i have gotten laid, talked to many girls, made a few thousand dollars on modeling gigs, and its clear i am looking good:
But the most important thing i have learned and done recently is discovered that the silly casual sex game is not a game i want to play. Thanks to GLL for sharing the truth as he sees it from obvious personal experience.
Anywho for anyone reading this i highly recommend phenibut along with a healthy diet and exercise routine for a few days a week to maximize work performance or defeating anxiety, esp. approach anxiety. For everything else there is hard work, not internet forums. Thanks for reading!
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