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Now I really think you people are just trolling this Forum and abusing the positive help members are always willing to give.
There's a single negative thing in my life? Its not my responsibility for sure.
Step 1: Goodlookingloser.com/Forums>New Topic>"I'm so UGLY ">Posts a Damn Decent or Great Looking Picture
Step 2: Members validate the person like a girl by telling them they look good/completely fine and that they should lift to add muscle, just approach with basic guy approaches and build confidence, and that eventually, it'll all be OK because you'll get some pussy (read Chris's posts, there's nothing he hasn't covered).
Step 3: OP posts additional rants about how he still believes he is ugly. Doesn't follow through on posting the improvements and implementation of advice members gave them, and thread gets lost in the sea of the same threads within 4 - 5 days.
It's getting completely meaningless at this point. Look at the mirror. If you really, firmly believe what you see is "ugly", you need your brain checked, not your style and looks.
hit up 10 chicks today for numbers.only 2 had bfs the rest said shit like "I don't give out t number"
just now had a girl act really weird,I asked for her # she said "for what." I said "so we can hang out." then she started talking into her phone...thought maybe she was calling security or police. this is the first time I've gotten scared like that in a long time.
came up behind some girl, got next to her said "what's up" she flipped out and said "don't ever do that again." I felt like mommy had just told me not to eat another cookie, I didn't feel like a man.
today was brutal, I just went home to sort out my mood. lotsa girls just ignoring walking by, strange.
but that's ok. it's a numbers game. I look good.
logically everything is fine. I just feel stuck. but that's ok. I'm sure Chris had those days. in fact he said he came close to quitting many times.
have some funny recordings and stories will post them later. for now just felt like putting my negative energy somewhere.
You are very good looking guy. Are you short? If not, that only leaves three reasons why you would ever have problems with women:
1) You are in a bad location where women are prudish and refuse to put out for anyone except a boyfriend who they met through their social circle
2) Something about your behavior/presence is off
3) You simply didn't approach enough women, and became easily discouraged when the first few rejected you (which is likely to happen, even to the best of guys, since cold approach is an extreme numbers game)
Inb4 people tell me that I'm in no position to be saying this because I lack experience. This is just basic logic though.
Also, Lucidity has been on this forum for a long time and is more than experienced enough to be giving advice to other people. You don't necessarily have to finish the AA program in order to know that it's worthy of recommending to other people. I think what he was getting at, is that you need to genuinely beat your anxiety instead of just masking it with drugs. There are alot of subtleties in body language, tone of voice etc. that people pick up on...and I know I'm not the only person who can easily tell the difference between a genuinely confident cool guy, VS a guy who is just drunk or on drugs. Women pick up on this stuff even more than men.
Why don't you post vids of your approaches and let the experts on this forum (Chris, FS-Ronin, Hunk, etc.) analyze what you're doing.
I can tell you from experience that I wish I had been willing to actually listen to other people and follow their advice as soon as I found this forum. I could have saved a ton of time and found my success much earlier. Instead, I engaged in a ton of mental masturbation for over a year and got nowhere...and it is only now that I'm actually getting serious about implementing the GLL principles and paying attention to everything that the experienced people are telling me. You've got looks and style nailed already, so the rest should be relatively easy for you...as long as you're willing to admit that you have some problems that need to be addressed.
I wish you luck. Please don't waste time like I did.
You have trouble with women. I provided a solution and suggested you start a program specifically designed to tackle that. You come back with another insult
I've yet to finish the AA program but at least I'm not freaking girls out and getting the cops called on me
Watching you continue to post here is becoming pitiful; you continue to ignore all advice given to you. This thread just reeks of seeking ego-fulfillment, like you're begging people to tell you you're good-looking.You came here asking for help and continue to insult those who offer it.
You will never achieve your goals with women because you refuse to acknowledge your own faults. Which is what this entire website is about. Someone like you has no business here. Stop focusing on your looks. You're not a bad-looking dude. The problem is your shitty perspective on life.
That much is clear. In one year, two years, five years, you will still be asking the same nonsense questions like this. You lack the ability to learn from your mistakes and to take criticism, even when you ask for it. You just want to be told that you're a 10/10 and that women are intimidated by you (so intimidated that they call the cops on you and you get banned from public places). You can't improve yourself if you refuse to work on what needs to be improved
And before you rush to type up some half-assed ego-driven insult in response, pay attention to how these words make you feel. That feeling like you took a blow somewhere deep in your gut because you're afraid everything you just read here is true. But you're too immature to confront it; maybe you're scared of admitting your problem is so fundamental, maybe you're just lazy. Who knows? So instead you insult people on the internet when they confront the problem for you (never mind you came here hat in hand asking for help), because you don't want it to be true
Now go ahead. Type up that insult. Then you can go back to boarding up the pinhole leak in your ship and pretending the keel isn't cracked
Every goddamn day. Get in there.
-- Finish recovery
-- Land first major client
-- Ship first game
-- Join one-comma club
I don't think your a troll, I think your just having a difficult time. I also understand the frustration of the keyboard jokey advice, most guys on internet forums are just keyboard jokey with little to no experience (I'm not necessarily accusing these guys of that, I really don't know if they are qualified or not)
Your looks are good enough, but your not maxed out yet.
Your problem is with your vibe, approach, how you present yourself etc... Bad news is, this can be difficult to find legit advice and guidance on, good news is, the link in my sig is the only place I am aware of that is legit for this stuff, but I charge money... so maybe that's of interest or maybe its not.
Aside from that, it seems like your in a rut. Even Chris, who makes money selling phenibut, suggests keeping its usage to a minimum. Maybe consider taking a break from the stuff for a few weeks, see if it helps or not. IF no change then at least we know thats not the problem.
"Phenibut God" "God of dirt"
Phenibut = dirt?
Dirt = shit?
Your the king of shit?
^I say this not to attack you, just to point out the messages coming from your subconscious. Deep down you know what you need to do.
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I didn't think the "Get Hung" guide would have girls eyeing my bulge. It did.
I didn't think that your exercise and diet advice would have girls checking me out. It did.
I DEFINITELY didn't think that your hair-loss prevention would fix my hairline. Not in a billion years. It mother fucking did. You saved me a crazy amount of time, a ton of money, unnecessary pain, and destroyed my #1 source of anxiety. DESTROYED IT.
Kratom is next!
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