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So this isn't about me feeing anxiety, depression, or not being able to speak to women.
My question is... once you get a little success in terms of having been with more women, etc... What do you do when it all feels a bit empty and lonely?
I mean, I've met hot girls but I don't seem to meet "girlfriend" type women. At some point, the idea taking someone home and having them run off in the morning just feels a little empty or boring. Or, I just can't be bothered making the effort.
Getting better has also just put strains on all friendships. Pretty much any guys I know are just not good with women. I don't care about that in itself but they just obsess over it. All they ever want to do is go out drinking to meet women, then never approach women, get pissed off and angry and now that they actually see me WITH women, they get even worse. Very hostile.
I either just want a few friends who can actually chill the f*ck out and not obsess over women or who might like to do other things than drinking. I'll be totally honest, nightclubs and drinking all night isn't my scene any more. I've taken up other hobbies and interests in recent times but since they don't revolve around bars and drink and women, it also just removes all friends from the equation, they aren't interested.
Anyway... TL:DR. Was crap with women, got better, now it's not exciting me and it's put a strain on friendships. Feel a little lost. Approaching women isn't my only goal in life.
Firstly, find better friends or guide them here. If you want to help them get better, then help them get better. Be the leader, lead them. But if you don't want to invest that much, that's fine.
It doesn't matter if you have common ground, it doesn't matter if "they're usually cool", it doesn't matter if you have history. From what you're saying, it sounds like they have hostile feelings towards your succession. Jealousy is toxic.
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