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I seriously think that this girl is the main reason for my depression and it's embarrassing to admit that even after a year I still think about her almost every day ... It's not the normal oneitis, I've slept with ~20 girls since her and I currently have 3 FB's and chatting with a bunch of girls.
I was actually feeling amazing this last week, thought depression is pretty much gone until I heard that she has boyfriend.
We were just friends and fucked once drunk, after that she pretty much rejected me saying it was mistake and I am not her type. She wasn't even the hottest, but she was a lot of fun and very smart/talented.
I know it's super lame but I still keep thinking about how impressed she is gonna be when she sees what I've accomplished, how much I changed myself and that maybe I'll get a chance My entire life is revolving around impressing this girl that I've build to god like figure in my mind (even though on logical level I know she isn't anything special).
Even reading this it sounds so ridiculous but can't help it.
Any advice ? Am seriously considering seeing psychologist for this but pretty sure nobody can help me and am fucked.
The fact that you know about it as soon as she has a new boyfriend, tells me that you never really cut her off. Even though you fucked a couple other chicks, you gotta stop snooping around her. Do you see her on a regular basis? do you live close to each other? do you have to see her on a regular basis for some reason? (same class or whatever)
Block her on facebook, twitter, snapchat, etc. Don't look at her profile, do your best not to think about her, don't talk about her to your friends. This bitch doesn't exist anymore. I've had lots of girls that I really liked and things didn't work out with them...it used to bum me out a lot until I realized that there's millions more waiting to be discovered. Keep your self-improvement going and keep hitting on new girls and when you find one you like, you'll definitely forget about this chick. Good luck dude
There's atleast two girls from my past that I feel similar about like the girl your describing. Sometimes I'll hear myself saying " look how much cuter this new girl looks compared to so and so. I wish she could see this " . Try not to be to hard on yourself man and think of your accomplishments.
I know exactly how u feel. Most people have been through this at-least once in their life. In my case It was girl I really liked and I know she liked me I was emotional and stressed and it just didn't work out, she wanted to end the situation. I regret a lot of things I did and the ways I acted. I still think about the situation and her quite often. shes a friend of the family so that doesn't help.
I think time does make it feel better and if they do gain weight or let themselves go its easier to get over them. But all you can do is try to do things that make you happy. And understand this is life and some people you will be on your mind more than others. Its just like that. Maybe it was something about her that really touched something in you. Forgive and try to move on.
It started when I met my ex-girlfriend's best friend in October 2013. When I saw her, I swear something in my brain popped out of place. She looked perfect. Petite Italian-Lebanese-Hungarian-Spanish girl with a huge bubble of an ass. I immediately broke up with my girlfriend, and could not stop thinking about her for the longest time. Then, in July 2014, I found her tumblr, messaged her, and went out on a date with her. The whole experience was pretty fucking surreal. I took her to the mall, cuddled for two hours, and made out. It was surreal.
Then, two days later she told me she got back with her boyfriend, I imploded, spent all of my graduation money on a gypsy psychic to get girl back, had a nervous breakdown, was hospitalized, and know am on prozac.
So...this is a really difficult problem that I would also like advice on.
There will come a time when you put this all behind you and realize this girl was never that special to begin with.
I agree with everyone who says cut her off. whenever a girl I like rejects me, I block her on social media and act as if she never existed. Treat her like a ghost and don't do anything to get in touch with her or see how she's doing. Don't look at her pictures or anything. I mean it. Make no excuses. It sounds wrong but she is poison and she's suckling the life out of you. I did this to a girl I work with. She was into me for a while and suddenly went cold for whatever reason and yet I still think about her and think I can get her to come around. But I know I'm wasting my time.
She's not a god. She's no different than you or I. Check Chris' latest article about how chick's aren't all we build them up to be.
Don't pm me asking questions if you are not going to message me back with a thank you after a lengthy answer or if you are going to debate with my experiences. If you can't say please and thank you, ask your mother to teach you some manners.
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