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I am 22 years old male, studying engineering. I am living with my parents biggest mistake of my life I think. I have no friends, I am lost, I have no girls for 1.5 year. I am struggling with being social. I want to get results, running all day, 25 kgs lost 15 remained. I have no lost about future. I dont know man, I dont know what to do. Please somebody say something logical, everyday is killing me. |
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Do NOT hurt yourself.
You need to first see a doctor for help. Second, think and write about all of your problems and what you want out of life. You will then come across we ays of forming your life together. Also this forum helps a lot too. Don't give up man. I was suicidal as well until just recently. But you have to take things one day at a time. Overall Life Building Thread:
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You study engineering, safe to say you're smart. You've lost 25kgs (a fucking monumental achievement these days), so you're hard working.
Don't waste your talent. Knowing those two things alone says that you've got enough to turn things around for the better. You have no friends? GOOD! That means you have no baggage, nothing keeping you from a new beginning. I'm home visiting family right now. I had no friends back in the day, and I see a lot of the 'cool kids' from a few years back. They're still in this shitty town and they will be forever because they're comfortable. They have all the friends they'll ever need. They'll never experience anything new except for some shitty 5 day cruise every 4 years with their fat wives and asshole children. You/we are lucky. We have a choice. Oh, and living with your parents while you're a student sucks bro, but you'll get the last laugh when you hear people complaining about how much debt they racked up in college. You're saving a ton of money by living with mom and dad. Your future self will appreciate it. Good luck my friend. |
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You joined a Self Improvement site to Post this?! I thought u wanted to make a change but there doesn't seem to be much action in ur post.
This isn't a Self Pity Site Dude... If u have been doing a ton of action and are feeling demotivated,We got ur back but not in this case. Are u homeless? Are u blind? Are u paralyzed? Are u dying from a terminal disease that has no chance ever to get cured in ur lifetime? Are u handicapped? Did you become bankrupt recently and lose every penny u earned in ur entire lifetime and get thrown on the streets? There are people in this world with the above ^ problems and still fighting hard without giving in and ending their life.Stop being a Pussy and face the challenges life throws at u. *Hope this post doesn't seem cold hearted but I am tired as fuck seeing these self pity posts from guys who join here loathing about their first world problems(My Gf left me..I am so depressed..I'm gonna suicide) and talking about suicide and stuff killing them(Have some respect for ur life dudes)* |
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You are 22 and every day will get better, if you want it to. Raise the money to move out. And don't be at the house when you don't need to be. Start going to the gym and have #1 GOAL that you plan to accomplish in 2015. Please no Private Messages. Post thread on with the word "Chris" or "GLL" in it if you absolutely need to get my input. Thank you for your understanding.
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Hey man,
I hope everything goes okay. You are on the right site to begin improving yourself to be a better and happier person that can get lots of girls. Try to avoid your parents as much as possible. Stay at school as much as possible to study, go to the gym, do the approach anxiety program. You could try to get a work away job in another country so that you can make some money and be away from your parents. I really dislike being at home and understand how people could go mad being around their parents cause I can only stand them for a couple days before I have to go back home away from them and I am only 19. I have wanted to kill myself before but that was just cause I was really depressed. I would get really mad at myself when I couldn't do shit right and threaten to kill myself to try and make my self feel sadder. I quit that think that made me so mad and started working on becoming successful, getting girls, and working out. Took the red pill and have this incredible new mindset that will change my life for the better forever. Thanks Chris <3 I hope you get yourself together dude. There are a plethora of people rooting for you. 4 - 2016 and before
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Read Terminator's story for motivation
He was a 25 yr old fat virgin. 1 year after he has fucked double the amount of girls the average guy fucks in a LIFETIME. He has also become HUGE&ripped... Sickest improvement, and if he can do it, so can you www.goodlookingloser.com/forums/members-...nally-understand-all |
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No girls for 1.5 year? There are guys older than you who have never been with a girl in their whole life
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This is a self-improvement site, so you are obviously not happy with your life and you want to change it. Good.
Now, next thing is improving yourself. Start with your mindset. Instead of doubting yourself, try to be more positive and say "I can do this. I can do that." Everybody here has a story much like yours. They were not happy with themselves but they did something about it. You can too. Imagine all the great, influential people in history who did amazing things for themselves and mankind. Imagine if they gave up. It would suck, wouldn't it? Who knows. You might be the friend/employee/man somebody is looking for. But you won't know until you stop beating yourself up and develop yourself. There are a lot of people who have it much worse than you do, dude. You at least have a roof over your head and you're a student. Not many people have those things. Try doing the AA program. Hit the gym, get a tan, meditate, w/e. Don't stay home so much, get out and see what the world has to offer. Formally known as Max_500
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exactly, threads like this should be locked |
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HEY MAN I am in college too and live with my parents and we all know that it sucks. I have catholic parents and it sucks even more (I have also been in a catholic school). I went to the military at the age of 19 for 6 months and 90% of the people there were what we would call "douchebags" here on the forum and that time totally changed me (in a really good way in my opinion,although those months were really hard)and people didnt recognize me after my military time. When it comes to my parents- I usually ignore them but I am not rude to them.
People here who say "save up some money and move out" know what they are talking about because life would certainly be much much easier that way but many people seem to forget that to move out many college students would AT LEAST NEED a part time job if they arent supported by their parents- and that would REALLY prolong the college time for many people. (i know a college student in my gym who works part time there. He moved out some time ago and cant really get his shit together). As Chris mentioned above, go to the gym. And if you are depressed it means that there are probably more things you can improve - try to fix those things for now. I wish you a good 2015 my friend ![]() 2020 Goals:
Get first tattoo 1/1 DONE Get laid twice from cold approach or Tinder 5/2 DONE Cut down to 92 rock hard kg (currently:95 kg) Improve Reflux and stomach ulcers 2021 Goals: Get laid 3 times 1/3 Start driving a lot again DONE Improve Reflux and stomach ulcers Get better at technician job Cut down to 92 rock hard kg with joint-saving workouts only; no more Ego lifting (currently 103kg) |
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Random question but do you have a shitty relationship with your mother?
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