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Rod wrote: @ WishIwasaSaiyan - Which is partly true, but you're assuming that girls want the same things that guys do (sleep with a lot of girls) and because they can easily get it they must have it easy. I'm not saying hot girls don't have it easy, in a lot of cases they do but it's the same with hot guys.
Ultimately most hot girls want to secure a high-value guy, but what do almost all high-value guys have in common? They, like me, are "douchebags" with options and they know it, which makes them pretty damn hard to secure.
You said it yourself, for guys it's a skill, that's a fucking GOOD THING because you can do something about it. Retaining high-value guys? nearly impossible if he wants to play the field. Hot girls may have it easy in a lot of ways but I feel fucking blessed being a guy.
So rod how big of a factor do you believe being a challenge is to hot girls? I know you touched on this before in my delaying responses thread but I feel like it's important to bring up again. At this point for me personally it seems wiser to play the potentiol boyfriend card in order to get laid. It's simply what's worked best for me in the past.
@ captn Ramius - That's difficult to answer mate plus I don't really think about it as "being a challenge" or playing hard to get. If you're a cool guy with your shit together then it's not about playing hard to get it's just about doing your own thing and not tripping all over yourself to get with a particular girl. Girls want to be part of your otherwise awesome life not the center of your universe.
Rod wrote: Aight, how about things like improving style, looks, working out and such? And most importantly approaching girls?
Also how do you spent your free time?
Sure, if girls want to approach then the "getting" part is easy if they just want to get laid (and dumped) but so what. As for turnoffs girls can be just as indiscriminate if they just want to get laid and the guy is hot.
Bottom-line is that trying to find excuses for why girls have it easy and your life is hard is just that, excuses. Even if they're legit they're not gonna get you anywhere so start worrying about you and less about what you think is wrong with the world. No offense mate.
Ps. Please clean up your quoting it's confusing
I lost a lot of weigh compared to where I was in early 2012, when I weighed 215lbs, now I weigh 162lbs, went from a waist 40 to a waist 34, no longer drinking soda was one of the best diet decisions I ever made and its been more than 2 years since I last ate a donut, very proud of my efforts for that, started going to the gym again, but lately I feel I haven't been going as consistent as before, I think the long sexual dry-spell is making me lose motivation, and the dating guru i'm working with has given me some approach exercises
@ WishIwasaSaiyan - Damn mate congrats on the progress, sounds like you're really making things happen. Have you ever made a V-log here or started the AA program? You sound like you have the potential to grow really fast with the effort you've already put into it.
Rod wrote: @ WishIwasaSaiyan - Damn mate congrats on the progress, sounds like you're really making things happen. Have you ever made a V-log here or started the AA program? You sound like you have the potential to grow really fast with the effort you've already put into it.
no just some question threads as for the A.A. program, not yet its just wondering if it will mess up the coaching I'm currently getting
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