This is an opinion website that offers information of a general nature and none of the opinions should be construed as advice. Nothing contained within the site is the advice, opinion or otherwise the view of any host, owner, server or other provider of services to Good Looking Loser. Nothing stated shall be construed to serve as a replacement for competent advice from professionals.
Affiliate Disclosure: At absolutely no expense to you, if you make a purchase, we may receive commissions from some links on this website. That is how our community supports itself. I don't recommend anything that I have not used personally or believe in. Thanks!
Hey guys. It's been a bit. I'll try to keep this short and sweet.
Over my Winter Break, I chatted up a bunch of girls in the mall with basic guy game. I wanna keep practicing it and get some Bangs through it this semester. Like talking to girls on campus. I don't want to exclusively rely on nightclubs.
I'm ready to go hard. Like talking to 3-5 new girls a day. That's what I did over break. I've finally drilled it into my thick skull that meeting girls is 100% normal.
But in a closed environment like college, how can I do that without getting a rep? I'd rather not be known as the "Cold Approach guy" lol.
Thanks guys! I'm 100% dedicated to getting my life handled this year.
How big is your school? The bigger the school the less it matters. 100 approaches in a 1000 pop school, asume 50:50 gender ration, you've approached 1/5 girls, better beleive you'll have a rep there. School of 10,000, 1/50... etc etc. Just use your judgement.
From what I understand, it doesn't seem like a good idea at a college. It is probably better to just go sit next to the cute girls in class and talk or strike up a conversation in line. That is definitely more sustainable and socially acceptable. The best way to get laid however is being part of the social scene in college. You'll meet girls at parties, they'll be dtf or you'll jusrt become friends, and then they'll introduce you to their friends that are into you.
Squat & Deadlift: 315lbs (current: 250bs)
Friends: Become Friends With One Girl (current: 0 girls, 7 guys)
Become Friends With 1 'Cool' Kid (current 0)
I have experience with this. I hit up tons of girls on campus while I was in University, banged around 40-50 while I was there. However, I went to one of the larget schools in Canada. I think there was 30,000 students there.
Ultimately, it doesn't matter at all. You might develop a "reputation" but no one actually gives a shit. Now that I look back on that whole experience, my only regret is not RE-approaching the same girls and making friends with some of them, introducing them to other girls, etc.
I'll say that again, just because a girl didn't give you the reaction you wanted, ie, a number, sex, etc, it doesn't mean she thought you were a revolting creep. You can talk to the same girls over and over again if you want. That's how you make friends.
Your reputation at University won't mean shit when you're out of school.
Your reputation at university will matter after you've graduated as much as your high school reputation mattered when you went to a new university/moved to a new town. In other words, it doesn't matter at all.
Just talk to all the girls man. That's what social people do. You don't even have to ask for every girl's number or even hit on them.
Awesome. I go to a school of about 12,000 people. I have one year left before I graduate. My social circle isn't huge, I have a small handful of friends. So I know I'm going to need to approach, plus I want to get approaching completely under my belt this year. My goal is to bang 16 new girls by the time we get into 2021. When I succeed, that will put my Laycount at 22.
Like I said, I'm willing to go harder than ever. I need to do 3 approaches a day, minimum, or I'm not going to see any of the results that I want.
How many chicks did you hit up on average on campus, and where did you meet them?
And so would you say the best way to handle this reputation thing is to not even worry about it at all? After all, I'm just being social and meeting people in my shared social environment. I should be in the habit of meeting people everywhere ANYWAYS...
Is that the correct way to think about it, and if I do my 3 approaches a day along with the self improvement, you think I'll be able to see the results that I desire?
The GoodLookingLoser.com forum offers visitors the ability to exchange information and thoughts. Nothing contained within GoodLookingLoser.com forum is the advice, opinion or otherwise the view of any host, owner, server or other provider of services to GoodLookingLoser.com or of Goodlookingloser.com itself. Nothing stated shall be construed to serve as a replacement for competent advice from professionals. Visitors are to make their own independent inquiries before acting on any information contained within the website forum.
I didn't think the "Get Hung" guide would have girls eyeing my bulge. It did.
I didn't think that your exercise and diet advice would have girls checking me out. It did.
I DEFINITELY didn't think that your hair-loss prevention would fix my hairline. Not in a billion years. It mother fucking did. You saved me a crazy amount of time, a ton of money, unnecessary pain, and destroyed my #1 source of anxiety. DESTROYED IT.
Kratom is next!
To anyone reading this, follow through, read this material, APPLY this material, and enjoy life.