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Okay, so I am starting college tomorrow. Any recommendations on how to introduce myself to people/girls?
It is a french college so no frats unfortunately to facilitate getting laid.
Do I start hitting on girls in campus just like I do in the street and play the numbers game in this new place? Should I care being noticed?
Do I do it but not to girls in my same classes?
Girls that are alone i.e. seem to be new with now friends, do I hit on them, try to go out with them? Do I treat them differently than other girls i.e. more agressive?
Do I try to befriend girls from my class/girls that I see around to go out with them and eventually fuck them?
Do I approach guys that look "cool" and try to make my own social circle with them to go out with girls? How do I approach them if yes?
I just have no idea on how to approach this. Today, I was in line to get my student card. Said hello to the girls in front of me in the line and they were very cold. Did not even try anything agressive, just a friendly hello. Tried again later with the girls behind. They were marginally less cold but we did not have a conversation either. I was alone there; most people seem to come from High Schools in the city and had friends with them. I guess I feel good for trying to get out of my comfort zone but nothing remarkable in terms of anything happening.
Be happy your college does not have frats. Frats are a cockblock for anyone not in them and make the college experience even worse with the social politics. The dudes I knew in college who seemed to get laid a lot were fun social guys that just made a lot of friends, were never out alone, and seemed to be at every big party. Not sure how it works in France though but I think in a closed college environment that has to mean a lot.
I regret not being that guy and being more introverted, it definitely cost me big experiences.
I went to a liberal arts college in the US (tiny ~1600 students) so my experience might not be that analogous to yours. I didn't watch the video you posted (don't have headphones w/ me) but based on the cover photo I'm guessing your more into looking to make friends, which I feel like is more important than to start approaching right away.
For me, the cafeteria was the main way I made friends. I'd just walk up to a group at a table, ask if the seat was taken and then sit down and start talking with them. Sometimes people would be lame and act like I didn't exist but screw them, most people are nice especially if you mention you're a freshman / new.
There's also typically a ton of social events the first few weeks.
I also made a ton of friends at the gym.
Still, my college was very small so I feel like people were way nicer than at Michigan.
Someone else can better answer you're approaching questions than me; I didn't find GLL until after I finished undergrad.
Just try to have fun and don't stress about it too much
There are a bit more than 20k students. Okay I will follow your advice; I have not yet been to the cafeteria. To be honest, I think I'll just do random approaches here and there, maybe even in my class (depending on the advice I continue to get on this thread). Also, I will try to join clubs/social events
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