TOPIC: Lucasxpogba tries to pick a college (or not to go)

There is no point in doing cold approach in college because

1) You're in college and there are plenty of opportunities to meet people
2) If you do it on campus you will get a bad reputation (probably - but especially if you don't know what you're doing yet)
3) It's much harder to meet people when you're an adult so I recommend building good friends, etc. in college. Not just for girls but later on in life so you can have friends, work/business connections, etc.
4) If you're approaching girls in the city, they won't take you that seriously as an 18-22 year old or whatever. Especially if you look your age or younger (you don't look old). Assuming that the average girl you approach will be ~mid to late 20s (already graduated, working, etc.)

Re: money
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whiteknightrises.com/how-important-is-money-for-getting-laid/

^^ Especially relevant if you live in New York. Idk anything about Toulouse France but I'm sure New York is at least 2-3x more expensive

In 2016, the year this stuff started to click for me, I went out maybe once a week and banged like 40 girls.
I had 0 sex life during the week (not living in the city, no online dating, daygame, whatever)

As you can imagine, if I also had a sex life during the week, lived in the city (cuz I had money), etc.
I probably would've banged even more chicks than that

It's easy to think pussy is everything when you are a virgin (I did the same)

But a few years from now, you will look back on these posts you're writing and think how stupid you were that you were even questioning something like going to Columbia just to prioritize getting laid

Thanks man. I ll stay away from it in the middle of college. And money damn that's a thing. I am still on the waitlist, so I am not gonna sweat this decision because there is no decision to make at the moment.

If you end up going to Colombia , I'll meet you in NYC ha. bunch of hotties on this side man.

Just PM’d you, as a French citizen you can get really cheap tuition in Montreal.

Hey man if you can go to college for free it's totally worth it. I went to college partied hard and actually studied hard as well. One of the best phases of my life. I actually kinda stayed in college forever and taught and was doing a PhD... I don't really think that is for everyone and I'm glad I left even though I don't have any regrets.

The problem with college is debt. So many people are absolutely fucked by debt. I had my college payed for so I had a lot of freedom. I think you can deal with your controlling dad... just work on your diplomacy with him. Study something useful and it's not like he's even going to be living in the same country as you so he can only actually control you so much.

McAidz wrote: Just PM’d you, as a French citizen you can get really cheap tuition in Montreal.

Thanks man. I'm actually a spanish citizen hehe. Ill take a look at what you sent me

Sailors Grave wrote: Hey man if you can go to college for free it's totally worth it. I went to college partied hard and actually studied hard as well. One of the best phases of my life. I actually kinda stayed in college forever and taught and was doing a PhD... I don't really think that is for everyone and I'm glad I left even though I don't have any regrets.

The problem with college is debt. So many people are absolutely fucked by debt. I had my college payed for so I had a lot of freedom. I think you can deal with your controlling dad... just work on your diplomacy with him. Study something useful and it's not like he's even going to be living in the same country as you so he can only actually control you so much.

Thanks for the advice man. I understand. I have ended choosing to stay in France. The reason is that work options for me in the US after graduation seem very limited and precarious for international students at the moment and it would be gambling for me to expect it to change for my graduation. I depend on an employer to sponsor an H1B visa (that then ties me to him.) The employer needs to demonstrate that there is no capacitated american citizen or permanent resident to take the job before he can give it to you; few employers are willing to put in that work. After several years (I think it's 8 ) of having and renewing the H1B visa, I can start the process to get a permanent resident card.

If I graduate and find no US employer, I'll be shipped back to Colombia when my F-1 student visa expires. I don't want to stay in Colombia (no future, no "fertile land" to grow), so I'll head to Europe (I would be relying on my parents to help me with this btw, which is not great either.) Then, I get to Europe and know nobody, have no contacts, no professional network, despite having the UMichigan diploma. This is the reason why I am staying in France: the position I am in after graduation to get a job.

I would go to Michigan if it was easier to get a job in the US after graduation or, otherwise, if my Michigan network could somehow get me a job in Europe. Because both of these are just gambles, and probably more wishful thinking in the case of the second, I rather stay in France. Now that I think about it, both options are pretty much wishful thinking.

Btw, Columbia still has me on the waitlist.