TOPIC: Advice on social circles and nights out in college

What's up guys? I just started college this week at a large state school in the northeast and am running into some issues. My first two nights going out were really successful and pulled multiple girls although they were just makeouts because the logistics were off. College was going great for me until the other night where I ended up getting kicked out of a party and almost had my ass kicked for what i assume would be hooking up with too many girls or just the wrong one. I had a large amount of social freedom but now I'm starting to rethink whether it's a smart move to be so aggressive with girls and risk getting the reputation as a sleezy guy or pissing off the wrong group of guys and getting myself seriously injured.

The other issue is that now that as people are starting to get more adjusted to college, the social scene is drifting heavily into social circle game which I fucking suck at. The parties are starting to become more exclusive and I've failed to make any meaningful connections with anyone in particular other guys. I'm fine with going out alone to random bars at home, but here at my university where I'm limited to certain a group of people and locations, I think I run the risk of developing a creeper or weird reputation as virtually nobody goes out alone here. I have friends here but not really anybody suitable for a wing or have the ability to get girls like myself.

It was a friday night here and I ended up staying in my dorm all night because I had so much anxiety over what to do. I wouldn't be so affected by getting thrown out of the party the other night if it wasn't for the fact that I almost got my ass kicked and I value my personal safety more than hooking up with girls. I'm similar to Julien from Rsd when I go out as I'm very aggressive and say and do whatever the fuck I want. It was working great the first few times then came back to bite me. I'm unsure what to do going forward and would appreciate any advice you guys could give me!

Are frats ok at your school?

Imo join one of them and be that sleazy guy at their parties.

When I was in college I was in a similar situation and couldn't imagine if I had done some of the stuff I did around my friends at a party I was not necessarily welcome at.

If you are a guest at a party and not someone who is part of the group that is throwing it, people will not be nice to you if you start making out with the girl they had their eye on.

I've been on both ends of the "fuck this guy get him out" situation and it's just an unfortunate side effect of guys being cavemen when it comes to alcohol and girls.

Plus If you are in a frat, other parties will be more inclined to let you in to their parties in exchange for reciprocation.

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