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Hey guys, first of all let me introduce my idea of Dream Life in college where this would be likely the first chapter:
-Getting a very beautiful and good as a person girlfriend;
-Passing some exams without necessarily having high grades(I'm not very consistent on this one but I copy a lot and make up for my lack of effort);
-Having a good crew, we made a mini-confraternity just for fun and it's awesome;
-Being popular and well-liked.
In a University campus of 2000 people and living in a town of 40-50k people you can't ask for much more.
I haven't been posting much lately, that's because I haven't been hitting on girls since quite some this, I had this fwb for 2 months and then we went committed (she pushed a little for it, I should've waited a lil' longer tho) now we're nearly at 3 months of "relationship"(counting the fwb time).
I think good part of my life "decisions" were influenced by GLL and here are some steps I think without GLL I wouldn't have made, here's what I did and why it worked:
-Study just enough and enjoy the life(bachelore degree tho, maybe I'll get serious later);
-Go on adventures, there was an article some time ago on how many days can you remember, well this year way too many!
-Stay "in-shape", I mean for someone who doesn't lift I'm pretty decent looking, around 13% bfat at 175 lbs 6'2'.5", this is mostly genetics but still I sometimes pay attention to how I eat and do some sports with friends, like wake board/basket/soccer/ping pong/whatever really.
-Grow a beard/stubble, at 19 this is a God send, I can grow a solid stubble thanks to minoxidil, been using it for like a month and it's been amazing(didn't have that bad of a base to start with), this was thanks to forum advice!
-Be Social, a lot, help people, get yourself involved, I had times where I was pissed off because I was constantly with people and had a tonne of things to do, I'm part of the organization of the parties for students and I'm the "president" of my course or how do you say it like a coordinator who speaks with the professors.
The Major Trick here is to just get going, once you start trying it will carry over and become second nature, like a snowball.
And you know what, once you're well known you'll get to know more girls, more than ever, even more than online(in italy online isn't that cool, people are ashamed of it but it still works), countless of opportunities will be thrown at you, like you'll get told a lot of times "hey Bobby that girl likes you" and every once in a while it will be a good-looking girl(most of the time definitely no haha).
- Don't Pretend To Be an ALPHA, I genuinely dislike those guys who act all macho and stuff, like for real you're a loser and people make fun of you, so unless you're a veteran and have scars and tattoos all over your body shut the fuck up.
We have this guys who tell others not to touch them because it feels gay, WHAT THE FUCK?!?
The solution? Be CHILL and RELAXED, everyone will LOVE YOU.
- If you have any opinions on POLITICS and RELIGION, stick them up your asshole and don't bother people, if you really need to say something be like "THIS is what I think" then don't debate or wash them off with a "yep u right " something like that.
- Hit on Girls, did I really have to say this? Thanks GLL!
I just don't really agree on the "cold-approach" thing anymore, if you think about it I think the normal guy methods work well enough as well:
1) excuse-->start talking---> be like yep I like you let's catch up sometime
2) text a little and get some basic info
3) go on something boring like a coffe so you can talk for 30 mins
4) Dinner or something stupid so it looks like she matters to you
5) Bang, most of the time not too much LMR
This is the Basic template that guys GETTING LAID HERE use, in my crew I'm the one with the least amount of lays even if I have the highest number of "make-outs", GUESS MOTHERFUCKING WHAT make outs don't matter.
There are three guys above 30 lays(I'm 99% sure they're legit), they're all rich, good-looking and smart.
Keep in mind they are 21-24 and the most impressive one is this one dude(I already talked about him on here) who does more or less what I wrote(like every normal person), over and over again.
The most impressive because out of 35 lays(now maybe more, her told me about some bangs, girls I know, so maybe a lil more) like 15 are legit MODEL STATUS, and he has motherfucking CREEP PICS, I was like WTF didn't expect it, them getting out of bed, they sleeping, he fucking them, blow jobs and such.
He has the best style I have ever seen irl, dresses super good(with not-expensive clothing too) and has an atlethic build at like 6'1''.
So yeah for getting my gf I have to thank mainly GLL for telling me it can be done and to my friends for SHOWING me.
- DRESS WELL, if need be get your clothes tailored, I just had 9 pairs of trousers tailored perfectly.
Get friends with good style to advice you, they'll be really happy to help you out and even go shopping with you(I go shopping with the dude I talked about).
Follow instagram pages, they have very cool shit and are up to date!
- Get a cool haircut, that suits your face and especially your hair type, I advice growing long hair once in a lifetime because if not now, when?
- Don't be Judgemental, if you want try drugs and use them, if you don't want don't, don't judge other people, that easy.
- Learn to be Independent, go to live alone(shut up and do it, every excuse is just that: an excuse), learn to COOK, learn to CLEAN, Learn to WASH and IRON your clothes(what's the point of dressing well if you're dirty).
- Get a good, working dick ok this site helped a lot on that side, I was on the PE bandwagon but I'm lucky so I don't really need it and don't think I'll get back into it if not minimally, I advice you to do PE tho if you are under 6x5 it can only be benificial unless you're an idiot(like me haha).
Do kegels, they're the shit! for some reason I always kegel while having sex and when I do it my dick blows up like legit gains quite some size and I can feel the blood rushing.
- You don't have to be a sex God, thanks GLL this was the best thing I could learn, atm I have sex from 2 to 8 times a day(counting every nut I bust) and both sides enjoy it a lot, I last very randomly tho sometimes 3 minutes sometimes 30(it makes her cry tho).
Don't be boring in bed : spank her, lick, try different positions, HAVE FUN.
- GET A TAN, this should be higher on the list, you can use GLL guide, I do it more easily tho, like 15 mins a week in high pressure bed, without any product and boxers covering my dick(not hips), if you have good/decent genetics this will get you dark in no time(a month to two if you start from zero, like 6-->8-->10-->12-->15 mins is a good progression).
- Love people who love you this looks like a given but believe me it isn't! Call your parents, ask them how they are, be a good child.
- Have a personality, don't care how it is, eventually you'll find people who like it even if it's difficult.
- ESCALATE, damn I nearly forgot one of the most important things, this is what transformed me from a "boy" to a "man"(I'm still a teenager haha so I don't pretend to be a man), if a girl gives you time of her day, make it count, go on and on and on until she stops you, then keep going again.
I think that's pretty much all I learned on how to live the good life and just wanted to share it in a post if I need it for future reference.
I hope it helps someone and you're welcome to criticize, there are obviously some flaws as I ain't no expert.
-Study just enough and enjoy the life(bachelore degree tho, maybe I'll get serious later);
^ I highly disagree with this statement. Unless you have rich family, you should be serious about getting a good paying job or business. You need a baseline for whatever lifestyle you want to live. For example, if you want to live in a popular city in a good location, you will need decent money to do that. Think about what lifestyle you want and how you will get there (how much money)
Source: I am broke. Did not take school and career seriously and that severely limits my lifestyle (and bangs)
Also, if you are almost 6'3 and decent body with little effort, consider working out. At your age, you could probably be beast
Former 21 year old virgin
2013: 1 lay
2014: 0 lays
2015: 7 lays
2016: 38 lays
You're right, anyway for technical exams I study, like materials and such(engineering degree).
Also I already know how to do the things I'm supposed to do once I finish uni, I just need a degree to be able to sign documents, that I'm making atm for mt dad's company and we pay an engineer to check if it's right and sign(99% of the time my security plans/projects are awesome).
I'm pretty ashamed of myself for what I did last night but I fucked a new girl.. first arab ever, she has honestly the best face I've ever had!
She came in the dorm to visit a friend amd shouldv'e stayed the night with her so I was messing with her(jokingly), wemt shopping together for dinner, then i'm like "hey I'll show you a good place" we went on a trip and then she knew I had a gf so she was a little resistant but pushed for the make out and went cold before having sex.
She likes me very much, so I fought for a good 20 mins of escalation and then she started blowing me, second best bj I have ever got.
She sucked for like 15/20 mins and I just didn't cum(she didn't want to fuck, but the liked my cock and my endurance) so I helped her and gave her a crazy load that she swallowed like good girls do while still sucking, it was so intense!!
Then I was still hard and rubbing her pussy, it was game on, gave her a good session and to my surprise she was quite tight.
Told me her bf died in january and couldn't get over it, so I'm pretty "lucky" that I got her.
Well we are on fwb terms and she feels like a slut but enjoys too much, so we'll see how it goes (should fuck once every two weeks cuz we don't really live close).
Weird thing, she told me: "I'll get you to love me"
I didn't quite understand but apart from that no red flags.
You have a good point, she literally begged me to text her, exchanged some texts today, funny sweet girl.
I feel sick to my stomach for my gf tho, like legit feel like throwing up, she ended up waiting till 4 am this because I forgot to tell her I wouldn't meet with her(had it planned), well then this morning I was a bit mad cuz of an exam and she came to me to ask me if there was something wrong, she's there if I need help and that jazz..
In my mind it was just a bzz and "Bobby you're an idiot, keep your fucking dick in your pants and you don't deserve this girl".
Now I don't even want to see her because I have 100% honesty with her, I'm thinking that I'll tell her only if she asks specific questions.
Will see how it goes but probably my feelings aren't as strong as I thought.
Sorry for this rant guys, I think I'll put another point to the list:
It just feels so good to be loyal and say no sometimes, or maybe just not feel bad.
What are your thoughts on this?
P.S.: BIB I gave you your 1997th Thank you and I was born in 1997 haha, fun facts y'know.
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