TOPIC: Starting to realize how big of a factor height is?

What is your guys opinion on height?

Now I am average at about 5"10 but I have started to realize that my roommates who are 6'2 and 6'3 do a easy, easy job in attracting women, sometimes these girls will be throwing themselves at them and they are hot girls too, while acting as if I don't even exist. Shit is frustrating considering I have an incredible physique and am not like 5'7. If were at a bar, and talk to a group of chicks the hottest one will gravitate towards my roommates and I am left there with some average chick or nothing. And by no means do I have a bad face.

But it's as if they're biologically hard wired to prefer the larger male. Even when I bring a girl back or invite a girl over who I have fucked, these chicks begin to get attracted to my roommates. Like obnoxiously wanting to fuck them, despite being there with me.

How does a average height male compete on this genetically inferior position? Style and accessories? Tighter shirts?

Im 5'8" and frankly, this has never been one of my insecurities.

I find that charisma and fun tend to dominate the energy in the room rather than size.

Thats all I got for you.

It sounds like maybe the girls you're chillin' with are a bit disrespectful too.

Avoid party girls.

Remember Gary Beadle and Stephen Bear are midgets. I go out with 6'4 guys all the time ya knowww and I'm a 5'11 guy. They dwarf me.

I don't think this is such a big deal. I'm 1.70 cm and all girls I have dated were shorter or had the same hight. The average girl in my country is 1.64 cm so that's ok. I mostly approach girls who are short or have the same hight, but now and then I approach girls who are taller, but I don't put much hope in them. I also know a girl who had a boyfriend who was like one "head" (a saying in Germany) short than her. So again it's a numbers game but generally you have more chances with girls who have the same hight or shorter. But there are a lot of hot girls who are tiny. Also you appear to be bigger if you have big shoulders and muscles. Once a girl of my social circle said that I was taller than a friend of mine, although we have the same hight

Yes it matters.

No it isn't magic.

I'm 6'2-3" and I can confirm my size is a huge factor and has been complimented plenty of times, honestly I think it's something that just boosts my ego rather than my lay count.

Face/charisma/body shape all matter much more than height, I know guys at 5'11"(who look normal/short next to me) that get laid quite a lot but they are leaner and have better style.

To be 110% honest tho the three guys who I've SEEN get girls from clubs/university are all about my height(give or take an inch), I'm also sure two of those could be models tomorrow if they chose to.

And guess motherfucking what, they get rejected too and I felt so relieved when I witnessed it!

Bobby wrote: Yes it matters.

No it isn't magic.

I'm 6'2-3" and I can confirm my size is a huge factor and has been complimented plenty of times, honestly I think it's something that just boosts my ego rather than my lay count.

Face/charisma/body shape all matter much more than height, I know guys at 5'11"(who look normal/short next to me) that get laid quite a lot but they are leaner and have better style.

To be 110% honest tho the three guys who I've SEEN get girls from clubs/university are all about my height(give or take an inch), I'm also sure two of those could be models tomorrow if they chose to.

And guess motherfucking what, they get rejected too and I felt so relieved when I witnessed it!

I agree with this %100. I think that charisma can actually get you way more pussy than height can. Girls love being around a guy who makes them feel good. It's like a drug for them.

Rousseau wrote:

Bobby wrote: Yes it matters.

No it isn't magic.

I'm 6'2-3" and I can confirm my size is a huge factor and has been complimented plenty of times, honestly I think it's something that just boosts my ego rather than my lay count.

Face/charisma/body shape all matter much more than height, I know guys at 5'11"(who look normal/short next to me) that get laid quite a lot but they are leaner and have better style.

To be 110% honest tho the three guys who I've SEEN get girls from clubs/university are all about my height(give or take an inch), I'm also sure two of those could be models tomorrow if they chose to.

And guess motherfucking what, they get rejected too and I felt so relieved when I witnessed it!

I agree with this %100. I think that charisma can actually get you way more pussy than height can. Girls love being around a guy who makes them feel good. It's like a drug for them.

he said face and body aswell. Lol you RSD pua loving fanboy thinking that its game is more important than looks for cold approach. Looks height and body will always trump game. girls is into you or she is not, no amount of game or building attraction bullshit will convince here otherwise if she does not find you attractive.

^Rousseau has a ridiculous amount of cold approach experience.

More than you, anonymous internet person.

You'd do well to listen to him

Bad Idea Bear wrote: ^Rousseau has a ridiculous amount of cold approach experience.

More than you, anonymous internet person.

You'd do well to listen to him

lol you deny game to BIB and think cold approach is mostly looks. the opposite of Rousseau

I went out with two 6'4 twins tonight and took home two girls which neither of them did. I am 5'11, dwarf height.

But persona is more important, girls only need to like one thing about you really and not find anything a dealbreaker. Like they only have to like your smile, or your eyes, or any random feature (even hair color/facial hair), without anything that absolutely DISGUSTS them and you're sorted. I don't feel my looks help make up for my lacking confidence levels when compared to other guys who are more average but really charismatic and cool.

Being short is one of my insecurities, for sure... of a few. I'm also bald. 5ft 5in / 1.65m and bald, haha.

I dress well and distinctively (compared to all of the random guys), kind of edgy. I'm not loud or boisterous or any of that littleman syndrome stuff. But my look is a juxtaposition. I'm bald and bearded, tattooed, muscled, but I'm also a former buddhist monk and I'm very smart, so I have a lot of knowledge and interesting things to talk about. More than that, though, is the 'vibe' being a regular meditator and contemplative person gives me. When I'm grounded, present and calm (and outcome independent) people sense it, including women. It helps loads for attraction. When I'm anxious or needy or insecure, women don't look at me for more than a second.

All that said, it would be a lie to say that being short isn't a disadvantage. I'm majorly disadvantaged, because I'm not 5'8 'short', I'm more like girl-short. I'm not out there slaying it. But I'm not doing badly either. I find it's best to not use disadvantages as an excuse... there will be women who want to sleep with you. The ones who ignore you are giving you a sign to look somewhere else*. Trying harder with them is just going to make you needy. Those are my 2cents.

*Unless they end up in your social circle. I've hooked up with very hot girls (taller than me, haha damnit) through social circle. The pattern is usually: they meet me and are dismissive, especially if there are taller attractive guys around. Then they get to know me a bit (this is not a same-night deal unfortunately, at least in my experience so far), I make them chase because I can be a dick and may be a little bit bitter about being dismissed in the first place (lol) and then seal the deal.

lol I swear this place is becoming RSDnation. people thinking game> looks. most people journals prove on here that looks matter the most in terms of cold approach. most girl are in or out immeditalty.