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Did your friend tell you about your lack of personality after your GLL change or before? Do you have a sense of humor? Is it possible you're so focused on being the asshole player that it gets in the way of being able to lighten up?
And share a lot about yourself, just don't ramble on forever.
Also, you shouldn't have an "I won" goal when interacting with people, especially dudes since you aren't hitting on them. That's not the way you should form a friendship.
People don't like being around me guys, girls - they just don't it seems. If I talk to someone it feels like "why is he talking to me". Even my best friend told me I had the personality of a door handle.
I used to have this problem, I found that usually it was just in my head; like, it was just my depression talkting.
- Ask about the other person.
You should do this, but it should come from a place of interest in that person, even if you're just faking it.
- share as little as possible about yourself.
It depends on the situation, i tend to try and share only the tip of the iceberg about myself, usually that's enough for most people. When I say the tip of the iceberg I mean that you should share stuff about yourself, but its not neccessary to get super personal; just a few stories here and there that are relevant to the convesation.
- Whoever leaves the conversation knowing more about the other person 'wins'.
This is literally not how conversations work.
- Be edgy. I think edgy can be sexy as in like "oh I like this colour its a bit dirty" "you like it dirty dont you?" "Do you like that girl?" "Yea, she looks easy to pick up (physically)"
Being edgy is fine, but you don't need to act edgy. It's more of a show don't tell kind of thing, if you use any of the examples you provided in most situations you'll just come off as a weirdo and a tryhard.
- Be condescending. More like how chris does "oh having fun on your little pintrest, put on a little dress and go dance with your friends" let her knoe her life is unimpressive.
I think you misunderstand why Chris was saying those kinds of things to the girls; he was just fucking with them. It's hard to explain, he was just poking fun, i'm pretty sure he wasn't trying to actually belittle them as that would be counterintuitive. Noone wants to hang around someone who talks down to them.
Because I'm socially retarded It helps if I constantly remind myself how to act. Does anyone have any kind of experiences with this, are "mottos" that have helped them? Thanks.
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