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You do realize that she is probably counting on sleeping with you (sex) after the formal, right?
So have everything handled - especially where the night ends.
Have the logistics figured out -
- Are you taking a charter (bus) to the formal?
- How are people getting home/to the after party?
It will probably look something like this
- Meet up at house/pre-party, pictures, girly stuff -- this is either at the main house or an apartment/off campus house if you are going with an upperclassman
- Dinner (often at a restaurant)
- Formal Event
- After party
- End of night
The best thing to do is stay at the after party for an hour, and make plans to get her back to you place after.
Don't get stuck anywhere, it's best if you have your car at the after party. Don't drink a lot though. Make yourself a drink when you get back to your place at the end of the night.
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The bus takes you back
you can always use Uber or Lyft
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I'm not going to lie, I'm nervous. I'm not the most social person, i don't have much experience with big social events. I have to keep telling myself it's going to be awesome! I have to keep a positive mindset. I'm going to have fun and look good. There's nothing that can go wrong if I'm relaxed and feeling good. I was invited to this because of who I am. I'm already good enough. It's going to be awesome.
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- Maintain routine of 3 gym days, 3 swim days, and boxing 2 times a week
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Good Looking Loser wrote: A few things, these are my stupid rules =
- get a pink or 'peach' corsage, if you haven't fucked the girl. Red is you actually like her. White if she's a friend. She won't know the difference but she'll think about it for 6 hours. Make sure you order this a 2-3 days in advance.
- Clean out your car, you are better off handling the transportation so you can leave the event
- Clean out your room if you want to end the night there
- If you haven't slept with the girl, you are better off doing your own dinner plans before the formal event
me: I've been to about 20 of these (5 or 10 as a student at various schools).
If the girl is just a friend and not trying to get down - none of this really applies
What about the other 10? I've kinda had the curiosity for formals as well since my university is huge on them.
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