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I was invited by this girl who i've been talking to for a few weeks now to go as a date to a sorority formal. I have not the slightest clue what a sorority formal is other than people dress up really nice, and there will probably be a lot of alcohol.
Do any of you guys who were in frats or attended a formal before know what this is all about?
Its just a typical night out at the bars (it will be a private venue) except you play dress up. Usually the sorority just rents out a bar for the night. So u might have a tab, cheap drinks etc. it really is a fucking joke. Should be a fun night though and in my experience, your gonna end up fucking the girl at the end of the night (unless your an extreme friendzone type guy or you do/say something stupid to the girl).
I wouldn't make a big deal of it, just treat it like a normal night out at the bar and make sure you dress well/wear well-fitting clothes. feel free to hit me up if you have any more questions.
Thank you! I'm definitley not friend zoned, ive slept with this girl three times. No sex, but blowjob fingering pussy eating etc. First time she wasnt ready for sex, 2nd time i fucked up (talked about it in another thread, 3rd time at her house i think she didnt want to fuck in the living room with roomates around.
I have no dress clothes. I'll have to see if i can get some from my dad, and if not there my friends.
BTW, what type of dress clothes? Slacks, white dress shirt, black suit?
Dress code honestly depends on the event. At my school, sororities don't have formals, they have semi-formals. At a formal, which is only hosted by fraternities at my school, you usually wear a tux, and the event will usually be for a weekend in another city like Nashville, Chicago, etc. At a semi-formal, it usually just at a bar on or near campus which is rented out and payed for by the sorority.Typicaly to this event, guys just wear a nice bottom down and some slacks.
Honestly don't worry about what all these other fucks will be wearing, just borrow the nicest clothes you can find that FIT YOU WELL, that is the most important thing. As long as you look decent and don't do anything stupid, you'll get laid, Which is usually the end goal with these functions.
WhiteGorilla wrote: I have to disagree with some of these guys. I was in a frat in college. Formals and semi-formals can be held in hotels, banquet halls, etc. I've never personally seen one held in a bar.
Knowledge is power lol. Just ask where it's going to be. If she says it's at a hotel or banquet place, don't show up in less than a suit. If you don't have a suit, at least wear a tie.
Same rules apply. It will be in some sort of bar setting.
Formals: wear a suit
Semi-formals: can wear a suit but not necessary
Just look good and have fun that's all that Matters
- get a pink or 'peach' corsage, if you haven't fucked the girl. Red is you actually like her. White if she's a friend. She won't know the difference but she'll think about it for 6 hours. Make sure you order this a 2-3 days in advance.
- Clean out your car, you are better off handling the transportation so you can leave the event
- Clean out your room if you want to end the night there
- If you haven't slept with the girl, you are better off doing your own dinner plans before the formal event
me: I've been to about 20 of these (5 or 10 as a student at various schools).
If the girl is just a friend and not trying to get down - none of this really applies
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Thanks Chris. The corsage info is helpful. I don't have a car, but she does. I think most likely we'll end up going back to my place. She's drove me around before. Most likely she'll probably pick me up.
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