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Hey guys, I had some college specific questions that I couldn't find an answer to in college articles.
- I am a prospective freshman in college. I am not a transfer student. I am black african (Light Skin).
- I would rate myself a 7. I believe I have great facial features but I have acne and I am too skinny. My clothing style needs to get updated too.
- I am also introverted(not deeply though)
1)This my most important question please be descriptive: How do I make a lot of friends during the first weeks of college, which I believe are very defining for the rest of your 4 years social life in college. Any dorm tips, orientation...? How can get some hot girls and cool guys in my friend zone early on?
2) Should I join a non-black fraternity because top fraternities really increase your social value?
3) As a black student, is it bad to enter a predominantly white school (over 60% white)? Are interracial hookups and dating prevalent in these schools? (Anyone with experience or witness.)
4) Do you need to be rich and white to join a traditionally white frat?
5) Any other tips on college?
I am trying to make this post: tips for high school students joining college. I have read in multiple places the first week is where you make your presence felt and that you can't miss this opportunity.
Thanks and obviously if you can answer my specific questions
-How to make friends during the first weeks? At orientation, dorms, dining halls... how to rush a frat and get in, if being minority matters in joining frats, how to get laid, sex tips for college (where and when), class tips, how to become a God in college, how to start improving while still in HS... basically anything related to chicks and college
Anyone welcome to write tips and obviously anyone who can answer my original specific questions, Thank you very much
Your two posts are pretty broad, so I can't hit on every topic. I'll just focus on your first few weeks.
A lot of people suggest to just be super social your first few weeks of college. This is a great idea--if you're a social person in general. I'm introverted, and in my first few weeks of college I had a hard time just going up to people and making small talk. A better method is to simply put yourself in a position where socializing is natural.
For example, most colleges should have some type of 'fair' where all student organizations can promote themselves--this is a perfect opportunity for you. Sign up to and plan on going to a bunch of club and fraternity events the first few weeks of school. They'll give you free food and will be nice to you to try and get you to join.
As for being black and joining a frat, no problem. We had several black guys in my frat, one was even from Cameroon. Unless you go to a school in the South where there is legit racial tension that may be an issue. Otherwise it won't be . That said, you should go to at least 3 different fraternities. They'll have numerous events the first couple weeks of school. Try and balance out which events you go to to keep your options open. The frat brothers will be nice to you to try and get you to join so just act natural and relax.If they like you awesome, if not then its for the best. Honestly diversity is being pushed so much on modern college campuses that by having a straight white fraternity they'd probably draw some criticism from the schools administrators.
As for getting white sorority girls, in all honesty it may be harder, but that all depends on the school. You just really need to max out your swag factor, but at the same time don't act like a 'brotha'.
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