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College *love* scene tied closely with social status
Person concerned unable to break into scene(regardless of reason)
Get a job at local bar - preferablly one of the more popular ones
My personal experience + bonus tip:
Got out of military like 22 or so. Went to university and surrounded by 18-19 year olds. Very diff reality I assure you.
They were worried about parents seeing their grades I was sorting out my divorce kind of difference (YES I KNOW I FCKD UP STFU).
No chance in hell I could relate to these people on a friend level. My age group had long-established clicks, getting ready to graduate, etc. Honestly greek life is where the action is.
Note: I don't care what anyone says they are racist as fck - becoming less so in time MAYBE and thats a big MAYBE - I am white so it doesn't matter (as applicable to the story) but I also aint fcking stupid - the ratio is so damn schewed. I mean its BLARINGLY IN YOUR FCKING FACE obvious. Prolly the most racist safe haven in existence today after big-boy finance.
Get a job at a bar trust me it's like your insta-the-man. Even the guys start kissin your azz its so stupid. Status is real my friends.
Pro-tip if you land a bouncer gig - check id's by the door and just remember the hot chicks and/or cool dudes (or better yet everyone) - when they come a 2nd/3rd time "recognize them" and don't check their id's. The whole line sees their "cool" - after doing this a few times they'll prolly approach you and/or be SUPER open to meeting you.
Note: Getting work at a bar is difficult. Almost everyone starts at the bottom. I used Marine Corps good ole' boys club (hiring manager was former). Maybe go there a few times and find out who works there and be on the look out at the gym (for males) or anywhere (for females). Just go say whatsup, tell them what you want (job at said place) and what do you have to lose????
Furthermore if you want to be a bartender (trust me they make bank compared to bouncers // servers // most other non-degree jobs) prepare to work your way up barbacking aka being a server // general helper of sorts.
Last misc note the most solid tip for the bar-life use your damn eyes. I read a post on here a long time ago where someone discussed doing this and girls threw napkins with numbers or something to him - YA IT WORKS.
Your not there "having fun" your there working and therefore are allowed to just stand there doing nothing and making eye contact with chicks but you have *more important shit to do* idk dont feel like writing anymore but ya trust me use those eyes.
Forgot some points - yes my *count* skyrocketed during this period. It should be further noted alcholism and/or drug use will be likely and you need to stay on guard. YES the status was aiding the count NO it wasnt me YES my *game* in regards to intentional-manipulation-of-interaction diminished
BUT YA IT WAS FUN AS HELL (do for short time - don't let it be your dead end job)
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