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Kitchen (and) server covered. *Hopefully* your restraunt has plenty of attractive ladies (like 10 plus or so).
What worked for me was keep my mouth shut for a few weeks - kind of just act like a pissed off dude who is there to work and go home. (Ideally your taking care of your fitness game and such and are semi-attractive to the girlies)
Whenever a new dude enters the "circle" - regardless of particular group - all the girls try to figure him out.
The longer you can show you're mr. solo not-here-to-make-friends // got-own-sh%t-going-on the more curious they'll become. Ideally a handful think your "hot" or at least have potential. Their natural tendency to gossip + not showing your cards will drive them mad.
Use your observation skills given to you via years of evolution to notice which girlies are into you. (YOU WILL KNOW). DO NOT (I repeat) DO NOT bother with the indifferent ones. Do not try to win anyone over - maintain your upper hand.
If you find one you fancy AND shes giving you the approach-me signals pick her. If multiple are pick whoever you want.
So, after 2 weeks or more at said place (and using common sense to determine appropriate time) - make a one-time direct approach using something similar to the following line:
"I think your really attractive, I want to hang out with you outside of work/here" (and pause). She will probably get girly girl nervous and say yes/no. I've done this and gotten a no only to have the girl get my number from company computer and text me later that night how fcking it was the "sweetest" (yes that was the word used) thing ever to happen to her (to which I responded by text 4 or so YAAA I want to fck you actually but ya).
Its imperative you are locked-on killer confident when doing this. If a no is received say "well take it as a compliment, I hope you have a good night" and then roll the fck out like a gangsta (what I did in said story above).
Furthermore, bonus points if you can do this in front of other coworkers - yep thats what I did and yep they will gossip and YEP they will think damn hes da man (and yes I fcked said girl a few days later).
Note: Yes your adrenaline will be pumping. I like to act like J Depp in blow where he meets Escobar - he just says "F-k it" and goes in.
Make more money at the cost of having to be a bit*h - your choice BUT ANYWAYS:
You're going to be forced to interact with the ladies much more in this position (I think this is a bad thing). There will likely be down time where everyone stands in circles complaining // gossiping.
From my observation, the best bet is just to be cool-non-needy-whatever dude.
Again, just be on the lookout for any girly that fancies you // dont give two sh*ts about the ones acting indifferent (they probably are). Just be you, be cool, and go with the flow of all the other servers. Dont feel a need to inject in every convo about every topic - just be chill af.
Most Important Topic
NO! DO NOT RUN GAME ON YOUR F-KING COWORKERS.
This may sound crazy - but the girls are actually at work because they want cash and/or work experience. Furthermore (again I know this is some out there sh*t) girls are people - *gasp*. Coworkers and random chicks belong in seperate categories.
I saw a post on here yesterday about "want to get physical with chicks at [work]"
This is a very bad idea my friend. The girls can't reject you per se, they can't change venues nor walk off. Doing some of these "game" things will make them uncomfortable I promise. *If* you have one damn doubt in your mind that you aren't mr-never-misses-a-social-cue (we all do) don't use game at work.
Be a cool dude. Dance the dance of subtle flirtation.
Do not use techniques I repeat DO NOT USE TECHNIQUES on coworkers. I know you have your new shiny-game-skills you want to try out but work is not the place for them.
I was the dude that wanted to bang my coworker(has bf)
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