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I'm going to community college currently and then transferring to a university. I was wondering if there would be any social consequences of hitting on girls at community college since it is a relatively small campus.
No shame in saying hi to a girl during class and kind of waiting for her when you get out - very warm approach
Pretty sure the girls waiting around alone are pretty bored
A few times I was sitting around alone and girls would sit by me and initiate. I think everyone's bored there bro - had a (hot) girl who I'd see around a lot, ome time I complimented her to my friend so she could hear and after I heard her tell her friends that I was her crush
I guess it depends on the CC, but in my experience (probably around 100-150 CC approaches), I never ran into any problems. In most cases, there are no existing social bonds that are very strong between students. There are no frats or sororities. If you are really concerned about developing a reputation though, I would avoid the athletic teams (soccer, volleyball girls, etc.) if your campus has them because those tended to be the only noticeable cliques at the CC I went to last year. I would just stroll around campus in between my classes and hit up a couple of girls a day. That worked without problems for the quarter I was there. CCs are an underrated place because while there might not be as many total attractive girls as big universities, they are certainly still there and without the social consequences. also more girls than going to a mall or something.
My campus has 14'000 students, maybe that's a lot. I'm not sure if it is or not, but either way, I hit on girls a lot. I probably have a "creeper" reputation. But frankly, i dont care. Sometimes when I'm in a really bad mood (under slept, very hungry), I'll start to get paranoid about my "reputation".
At the end of the day, it doesn't even fucking matter.
My only regret, is that I wasn't more of a creeper when I was in 1st year when I actually LIVED on campus in the residences. If I could live on residence now as the person I am now, I would try and pull girls back to my room every day.
That being said, there is a sort of finesse about approaching girls.
1) Like DC7 said in one thread, stop girls as you're walking up to them, don't chase them down like daygamer's do in youtube videos (unless you REALLY have to)
2) Approach girls when you're on your way to class, gym, library, and etc. Don't just go to the campus and approach 15 girls without any bags or books in your hand. It looks sketchy and like you don't go there.
Approach no more than 1-5ish everytime you're there. Even 5 is pushing it. 3 is the sweet spot IMO.
^Yup. I agree with everything Rousseau said. You'll have to get a feel for how big the school is and what you can get away with, but if you aren't acting like a pickup artist and also look pretty good you can approach a good 10-15 girls a week no problem at a community college.
You'd probably be "fine" doing 5-10 approaches a week at a big american university too, but it won't go as far because frats and sororities are bigger and that social status trumps many other things. The best way to get laid the most at big public schools is to develop social status and then fuck girls at parties. Going around doing too many random approaches can become counterproductive to that if done too much in that environment. Just do the GLL college recommendations in this case.
If you're at a school without much established social bonds/hierarchy, then do your 10-15 weekly approaches and don't worry too much. If you are at a big american fraternity/sports school, then focus on building status. I've gone to both and I think that works best
What do you guys think of approaching at a community college (about 3000 people) if you don't go there? Would it be a bad idea in terms of getting called out by people or campo about what you're doing there? Or does it not matter?
thesnazzyguy wrote: What do you guys think of approaching at a community college (about 3000 people) if you don't go there? Would it be a bad idea in terms of getting called out by people or campo about what you're doing there? Or does it not matter?
Hey, im in a bad mood right now so pardon my lack of a sense of humor.
Accept the fact that approaching random women in western culture is fucking weird, and there is no quota that will stop you from not getting a bad reputation.
Accept it and realize that life is too short to give a shit about what people think about you.
That being said, keep it real and socially intelligent.
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