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I'm in my third year of college. I've slept with a handful of girls drunkenly. I'm an average maybe slightly above average looking Asian guy, in a less than top fraternity. Our fraternity has social events with the best sororities and hot girls come to our parties, but we are by no means a "top" fraternity. I've realized that i'm a validation guy like you said. I also love have sex and am trying to transition into getting laid because i love getting laid. However, I have developed a bit of a reputation as a "creep" because I've been approaching girls aggressively and drunkenly more times than not, since freshman year.
I also am aggressive and physical, but recently I've been toning that down to avoid heat from guys in my fraternity. It doesn't reflect well on our fraternity if i'm being a creep with top sorority girls when we are not a top fraternity. Basically i'm not getting laid as much, and I feel my reputation is holding me back.
I'm also the only non-Caucasian in my frat.A Lot of guys in my frat, despite not being a top frat have frequent sex with top shelf pussy. However these guys are tall, Caucasian and more attractive. I know that we preach that these things don't matter here, but is it possible that top sorority girls are infinitely shallow?
-Is my 3rd year of college too late to fix my reputation/position on the social hierarchy?
-How can I continue to aggressively pursue women, without perpetuating a reputation of being a creep that will negatively affect my frats standing with the hottest girls?
Dude, seems like you already know what actions to take, but you need some reassurance.
- Cut down on the alcohol consumption
- Tone down the aggressiveness and physicality.
- You have to accept certain things (like shallow girls)
- Your reputation is a joke, creep girls either way. If you own your shit, they'll let you give them shit.
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